#120 - Do You Live with Regret in Your Marriage? 3 Ways to Use Regret to Your Advantage and Become a Better Wife

Episode 120 of the The Jar Podcast | Dignity, Restored, Marriage, Healing, Forgiveness podcast, hosted by Lydia Santos - Christian Wife Coach, Marriage Ministry Leader, Boymom, titled "#120 - Do You Live with Regret in Your Marriage? 3 Ways to Use Regret to Your Advantage and Become a Better Wife" was published on May 20, 2023 and runs 28 minutes.

May 20, 2023 ·28m · The Jar Podcast | Dignity, Restored, Marriage, Healing, Forgiveness

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Summary

It probably wouldn’t take you long to think of a mistake you’ve made in your marriage, a sin you committed, a moment of selfish action that you wish you could take back, or some poor choices you aren’t proud of. Whether it’s a string of explosive words during an argument, the angry look you gave, retaliating in bitterness, or the worst form of betrayal, no matter how justified you feel in the moment, regret inevitably sets in. You know that feeling that comes immediately after: the sinking pit, that heat rising to your cheeks, the strong urge to run and hide? Then there’s the lingering side effects you can’t seem to kick: the restless nights, the tears, the feeling sick to your stomach, the distance between you and the other person. Regret can wreck you. It can ruin a relationship almost as much as, if not more than, the sin originally committed, the wrong initially done. What if instead of letting it wreck you, instead of it holding you back from having the marriage you want, you actually used it to your advantage? What if it actually made your marriage better? Related episodes: Hypocrite or Holy Transformation? 4 Ways to Tell If It's Real Change GIRL, Get Off the Spinning Wheel! What to Do When Sin Has a Hold on You Are Your Past Mistakes Haunting You? A 3-Step Strategic Battle Plan to Help You Combat Shame and Guilt Loads of Love, Lydia --> FOLLOW so you don't miss a show! --> Leave a 5-star rating & written review --> Leave me a SpeakPipe question! --> Join the Christian Wife and Marriage Facebook community

Episode Description

Whether it’s a string of explosive words during an argument, the angry look you gave, retaliating in bitterness, or the worst form of betrayal, no matter how justified you feel in the moment, regret inevitably sets in.

You know that feeling that comes immediately after: the sinking pit, that heat rising to your cheeks, the strong urge to run and hide?

Then there’s the lingering side effects you can’t seem to kick: the restless nights, the tears, the feeling sick to your stomach, the distance between you and the other person.

Regret can wreck you. It can ruin a relationship almost as much as, if not more than, the sin originally committed, the wrong initially done.

What if instead of letting it wreck you, instead of it holding you back from having the marriage you want, you actually used it to your advantage? What if it actually made your marriage better?

Related episodes:

Hypocrite or Holy Transformation? 4 Ways to Tell If It's Real Change

GIRL, Get Off the Spinning Wheel! What to Do When Sin Has a Hold on You

Are Your Past Mistakes Haunting You? A 3-Step Strategic Battle Plan to Help You Combat Shame and Guilt

Loads of Love, Lydia

--> FOLLOW so you don't miss a show!

--> Leave a 5-star rating & written review

--> Leave me a SpeakPipe question!

--> Join the Christian Wife and Marriage Facebook community