#129 - Frances Mei Hardin - What They Don't Want You To Know About Your Doctor

Frances Mei Hardin is an ENT surgeon who left clinical practice, wrote the memoir Surgeon on the Edge, and now leads the Hippocratic Collective, a physician media company bringing the hidden culture of medicine into the open.Frances Mei Hardin spent her whole life becoming a doctor, and it built an identity instead of a person. As an only child, she grew up with her parents' expectation that she would become the doctor in the family. She survived a residency culture of bullying and hazing that left her wanting to die, before doing the work to untangle herself from medicine and leave her life as a surgeon. In this conversation, we explore what surgical training actually involves, the breaking point in the OR, learning to live in your body, turning to therapy and hypnosis, and how writing her story became a path to healing. Ultimately, Frances came to see that no experience is wasted.Timestamps:00:00 Identity & Family05:53 Medical Ethics & Medical School10:13 What is Residency?14:57 The Culture Nobody Warned Her About22:48 The Breaking Point30:05 Finding Balance31:56 Living in Your Body41:37 Experience with Therapy and Hypnosis48:22 Becoming the Person You Needed When You Were Younger49:06 Hippocratic Collective51:35 Writing Surgeon on the Edge1:01:01 Pride Without the Ego1:02:51 Closing Thoughts & How to Connect with FrancesSend us Fan MailThank you so much for listening. I truly appreciate your time and support. Let me know what you thought of the episode and what you would like to see in the future. Any feedback would be awesome. Don't forget to subscribe for more exciting content on YouTube, and leave a review on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or whatever platform you are listening on. Connect with me below:Instagram: Tim DoyleYoutube: Soulture