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EPISODE · Jun 5, 2026 · 43 MIN

129. Who's Discipling You? The Hidden Influence of Friendships

from Counter Culture Mama Podcast with Danielle Venables · host Danielle Venables

Your closest friendships are forming you, whether you realize it or not.The people you trust, confide in, seek advice from, and spend the most time with have a powerful influence on your marriage, your convictions, your business decisions, and even the direction of your faith.In this episode, we examine the popular self-help phrase, "You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with," and ask a deeper question: What does Scripture say about influence? And what changes when God is removed from the center of that conversation?We discuss how truth and deception can sometimes look remarkably similar on the surface, why compromise is often normalized through relationships, and how our friend groups can unintentionally disciple us into patterns that don't align with God's Word.We also explore:• The biblical meaning of influence and discipleship• Why "almost true" ideas can be spiritually dangerous• The impact of friendships on marriage, purity, and conviction• What "unequally yoked" really means in everyday life• Avoiding unnecessary stumbling blocks• Why good intentions are not the same as righteousness• How healthy Christian community strengthens us when life gets difficultAlong the way, we unpack Proverbs 13:20, Proverbs 27:17, Proverbs 22:24-25, Ecclesiastes 4:9-10, and 1 Corinthians 15:33 to build a practical framework for evaluating the voices shaping your life.If you've ever gone to the "dump him" friend for marriage advice, struggled with friendships that pull you in different directions, or wondered how to balance loving people without being shaped by them, this conversation is for you.Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a friend who's doing a friendship audit.Who are the five voices shaping you most right now?Send us Fan Mail Want to add a new passive income stream to your business that aligns with your values of health, family, and conscious wealth? Click here.Connect with DanielleSubstack | YouTube | Website-To invite Danielle to be a guest on your podcast, fill out this form.To apply to be a guest on this show, click here.

Your closest friendships are forming you, whether you realize it or not. The people you trust, confide in, seek advice from, and spend the most time with have a powerful influence on your marriage, your convictions, your business decisions, and even the direction of your faith. In this episode, we examine the popular self-help phrase, "You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with," and ask a deeper question: What does Scripture say about influence? And what changes when...

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