13. If it’s not my partner’s job to ‘make me feel good’, what’s the point of relationships?

Once we learn that other people don't exist to 'make' us feel good and validate us, some clients tend to ask... 'so if my partner isn't supposed to make me feel secure and validate me, what's the point of relationships?'If you wonder this yourself, you're in luck!This episode talks about the way we're socialised to think about relationships, validation, and the reasons you may or may not choose to be in a romantic relationship.