13. Unseen battles: addressing post-separation abuse in same-sex relationships

Have you ever considered the hidden struggles within same-sex relationships, particularly when it comes to the often overlooked post-separation abuse among lesbian couples? Through intimate conversations with clients over the years, I have uncovered the persistent challenges they face, from complex control dynamics to emotional manipulation that doesn't cease with the relationship's end. These tales are not just narratives; they're the lived experiences of women who grapple with the unique difficulties of parenting arrangements post-separation. This episode sheds light on these issues, offering a platform for recognition to those within the LGBTQI+ community who feel invisible in the broader discourse of family violence.This candid discussion peels back the layers of control and abuse tactics that continue to influence parenting disputes, illuminating the often ambiguous division of parenting roles in lesbian relationships compared to their heterosexual counterparts. Stepping into the arena of family law, we explore how these dynamics affect the battle for parenting time. The music you hear in this outro is 'Calm is Credible' - an original track created exclusively for the Post-Separation Abuse Podcast and Danielle Black Coaching.  You can listen to this song, or download free, by visiting danielleblackcoaching.com.auAbout Danielle Black Coaching:Danielle Black is a respected authority in child-focused post-separation parenting in Australia. With over twenty years’ experience across education, counselling and coaching - alongside her own lived experience navigating a complex separation and family court journey - she supports parents to think strategically, build capacity, and protect their children’s safety and wellbeing within complex legal and relational systems.Through Danielle Black Coaching, she leads a growing team of specialist coaches and a structured support ecosystem designed to provide professionally held, evidence-informed guidance for parents navigating high-conflict separation and family court processes.Learn more at danielleblackcoaching.com.auThis podcast is for educational purposes only and not legal advice. Please seek independent legal, medical, financial, or mental health advice for your situation.