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EPISODE · Nov 26, 2025 · 28 MIN

132. What no one tells you about what happens before a dream becomes real with Kim Payne

from Courageous Me · host Kim Payne

In this episode, I open the door to the emotional rollercoaster of coming close to something you’ve wanted for years, and the surprising mix of excitement, doubt, resistance, and raw courage that shows up right alongside it.From writing 80,000 words of the “wrong” book to the turning points, the wobbles, the whispers, and the exact moment I realised why my manuscript sat unfinished for so long… I share the inner journey that unfolds when a long-held dream suddenly becomes inevitable.I unpack how the fear of success quietly sneaks in, why we suddenly start procrastinating at the finish line, and what it really means to take your own medicine when every insecurity decides to show up.I get honest about my editing ‘meltdown’ in a car dealership, the emotional “oh my goodness” moment of seeing my publishing page for the first time and why getting close to something that matters deeply can feel both exhilarating and terrifying at the same time.This is a conversation for anyone who has ever stood on the edge of their next chapter and thought, “Who am I to do this?”If you’re getting close to launching something, creating something, or sharing something that truly matters to you… this episode will feel like a deep exhale and a hand on your back reminding you to keep going. Key takeaways:o   Why the closer you get to a dream, the louder the doubts become.o   What makes us consider abandoning something we’ve wanted for years.o   How to recognise when the fear of success quietly slips in.o   Why the “wrong” version of your dream may lead you to the right one.o   The surprising shift when you move from your head to your heart.o   How to tell if you’re procrastinating… or protecting yourself from being seen in a new way.o   The lesson in asking about the alternative to keep pursuing an important milestone. COURAGEOUS SHIFTWant to make the impact you know is possible without having everything figured out? Get access now to The Courageous Shift – a FREE 90 min audio mini-series to work out your next move. Where to find me: Website: Kim Payne   LinkedIn: Kim Payne Instagram: @iamkimpayne  Facebook: KimPayneBiz   Want to get clear on your courageous next steps in your business or career?Book a FREE 45 min Call to Action to help you get to the starting line. 

In this episode, I open the door to the emotional rollercoaster of coming close to something you’ve wanted for years, and the surprising mix of excitement, doubt, resistance, and raw courage that shows up right alongside it.From writing 80,000 words of the “wrong” book to the turning points, the wobbles, the whispers, and the exact moment I realised why my manuscript sat unfinished for so long… I share the inner journey that unfolds when a long-held dream suddenly becomes inevitable.I unpack how the fear of success quietly sneaks in, why we suddenly start procrastinating at the finish line, and what it really means to take your own medicine when every insecurity decides to show up.I get honest about my editing ‘meltdown’ in a car dealership, the emotional “oh my goodness” moment of seeing my publishing page for the first time and why getting close to something that matters deeply can feel both exhilarating and terrifying at the same time.This is a conversation for anyone who has ever stood on the edge of their next chapter and thought, “Who am I to do this?”If you’re getting close to launching something, creating something, or sharing something that truly matters to you… this episode will feel like a deep exhale and a hand on your back reminding you to keep going. Key takeaways:o   Why the closer you get to a dream, the louder the doubts become.o   What makes us consider abandoning something we’ve wanted for years.o   How to recognise when the fear of success quietly slips in.o   Why the “wrong” version of your dream may lead you to the right one.o   The surprising shift when you move from your head to your heart.o   How to tell if you’re procrastinating… or protecting yourself from being seen in a new way.o   The lesson in asking about the alternative to keep pursuing an important milestone. COURAGEOUS SHIFTWant to make the impact you know is possible without having everything figured out? Get access now to The Courageous Shift – a FREE 90 min audio mini-series to work out your next move. Where to find me: Website: Kim Payne   LinkedIn: Kim Payne Instagram: @iamkimpayne  Facebook: KimPayneBiz   Want to get clear on your courageous next steps in your business or career?Book a FREE 45 min Call to Action to help you get to the starting line.

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