133: A{Live} Now: Authentic Relating, Co-Dependency, My Wedding, Falls and Freedom

What this episode covers

I’m getting married. Ha! In this Episode, how a No Strings Attached Sexual Relationship Experience and a Mountain Bike fall brought me to a more whole unification, marriage with myself, and more expansive freedom within. Conscious dating, self-honesty, authentic relating, existential loss, fluidity between polyamory and monogamy, releasing relationships from co-dependency and control and where I’m doing that, and seeing people from a place of harmony and freedom. The layers of self-discovery and gifts of deep experiencing… Also, a live Angel Card reading for myself :) that is pretty interesting.   Links, Article, and Resources All Show Notes for This Episode 📝 https://CandiceWu.com/authenticrelating  Podcast Homepage 🎧 https://candicewu.com/podcast Newsletter & Embody Community 💌 https://candicewu.com/embody-community Donations – Your Support Means So Much! 💝 https://candicewu.com/support Candice Wu Page on Facebook 👫 https:///EmbodyYourNature Follow Candice on Instagram 📷 https://instagram.com/EmbodyYourNature   Sponsored By Healing Share Sponsorship Program About 25% of my healing sessions are sliding scale with my personal contributions. If you’d like to help me in supporting others in receiving healing sessions, consider sharing your resources to support someone or your community in a unique and important way! Consider contributing to sliding scale sessions for those who need healing support and may not be able to pay a full fee. Healing sessions can be truly life changing for someone, giving them support to integrate any trauma, bring their presence to life, or cultivate self-love. Your support may go to someone who: is an elder, BIPOC, LGBTQIA, or a person that has been affected financially by difference and power Covid19 or Systemic Issues (systemic racism or discrimination), is an unpaid or low paid community organizer, has immigration-related expenses, has children or other dependents, is a student, or receives public assistance. For more information about contributing or receiving from the Healing Share, check out this link at CandiceWu.com/HealingShare.   Show Notes 0:00 Intro 1:35 Opening 3:29 Me and Polyamory 4:54 Facebook Dating… No Strings Attached 8:00 Dependency, Co-dependency 12:12 Finding Strings Attached! 14:30 The Wedding Card 17:09 I fell of my Mountain Bike 20:14 The metaphor of the Log Pile Jump 21:37 Wanting Marriage and Poly 22:46 Flow In and out of Relationships 24:50 Returning to My Star Nation Bond 28:35 Authentic Relating — Closing in On What I Want 31:55 Support from a Friend 33:38 Feeling the Larger Trajectory of My Life 34:36 Building Inner Safety 36:40 Live Tarot Card Reading for Me and Maybe You? 38:44 Redefining the Relationship I want 41:48 Update Post-Podcast 42:59 Using Somatic Experiencing to Integrate the Fall 45:38 Everything Flows Once the Path is Cleared 47:18 Stepping Away from a Relationship to Release More Co-dependency 48:12 Outro