#140: I STOPPED People Pleasing

"Give yourself self compassion. There are no bad parts. It's okay to have bad bitch energy. Start to be okay with it."Do you still struggle with people-pleasing even if you've been doing that inner work?If you do, don't worry bestie. I'm here to tell you that I used to struggle too! And in this episode, I'm delving deeper into the intricate dynamics of people pleasing, while I share some personal insights from my own journey to overcoming this pervasive habit.I'll also tell you how a midlife crisis and a pivotal childhood memory helped me in confronting deep-seated people-pleasing tendencies (watch til the end so you can get a glimpse of what I did!). And lastly, don't forget to grab a pen and paper for today's call to action; I'm sharing three key strategies that helped me dismantle this behavior and embrace a more authentic version of myself. I hope it helps you too! ✨______________________________________EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:How a midlife crisis and a childhood memory helped me confront my people-pleasing patternsA glimpse of my transformative mentor session and how it helped me embrace my authentic selfCall to Action: Have self-compassion, make a list of icons that you admire, remember that being nice is a worldwide cultural scam. Create your own alter-ego and comment that name on the Spotify box below!______________________________________MENTIONED IN PODCAST:Order my book: "A Woman's Guide to Inner Child Healing"Listen to Episode #136: Stop Rescuing and Saving PeopleListen to Episode #89: Feeling Guilty and Sorry for People All the Time - Let's Talk Guilt WoundsListen to Episode #4: How to Stop People-pleasing (and WHY we do it)________________________________________OTHER RESOURCES:Follow for daily inspo on @bygloriazhang!Follow for dating advice @soulmatemethodBook A Free Love Strategy Consult:  Learn to see if the Soulmate program is right for you by booking a free call here._____________________________________WAS THIS HELPFUL?I’d be so grateful if you could take a moment to follow, leave a 5-star rating, and download a few more episodes. As a gift of gratitude, we'll send you my Inner Child Starter Kit if you leave a 5-star review and share what you love about the show.  🎁To claim your gift, submit your review screenshot to this link: bygloriazhang.com/reviewsWAS THIS HELPFUL?I’d be so grateful if you could take a moment to follow, leave a 5-star rating, and download a few more episodes. As a gift of gratitude, we'll send you my Inner Child Starter Kit if you leave a 5-star review and share what you love about the show. 🎁 To claim your gift, submit your review screenshot to this link: bygloriazhang.com/reviews