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EPISODE · May 25, 2026 · 26 MIN

140. Why Finding Love Feels Impossible

from The Single LDS Woman | Loneliness, Dating, Self-Confidence, Happiness · host Sharon Lamar | LDS Life Coach, AACC Mental Health Coach

Sometimes the reason finding love feels impossible has very little to do with dating… and a whole lot to do with the story your brain has been practicing for years. Because once your brain starts collecting evidence that: “There are no good men.” “Nothing ever works out for me.” “I’m too old.” “Something is wrong with me.” …it gets very, very good at finding more proof. And eventually, what started as a thought begins feeling like a fact. In today’s episode, we are talking about why your brain keeps building these piles of evidence, why discomfort is actually part of transformation, and how to stop filtering your life through hopelessness and start seeing possibility again. By the end of this episode, you’re going to understand why you keep seeing proof that what you want won’t work out… and how to start teaching your brain to look for different evidence. WHAT’S NEXT? 👇 ➡️ Become an Insider Get weekly emails filled with encouragement, faith-based coaching tips, and exclusive invites to free coaching and special offers.  🔗 sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider 💗 Get my help now… Grab your copy of Nothing Is Wrong With You: How to Stop Putting Your Happiness On Hold and Start Feeling Happier In Your Life As It Is 🔗 sharonlamarcoaching.com/freehelp

Sometimes the reason finding love feels impossible has very little to do with dating… and a whole lot to do with the story your brain has been practicing for years. Because once your brain starts collecting evidence that:“There are no good men.”“Nothing ever works out for me.”“I’m too old.”“Something is wrong with me.” …it gets very, very good at finding more proof. And eventually, what started as a thought begins feeling like a fact. In today’s episode, we are talking about why your brain keeps building these piles of evidence, why discomfort is actually part of transformation, and how to stop filtering your life through hopelessness and start seeing possibility again. By the end of this episode, you’re going to understand why you keep seeing proof that what you want won’t work out… and how to start teaching your brain to look for different evidence. WHAT’S NEXT? 👇 ➡️ Become an Insider Get weekly emails filled with encouragement, faith-based coaching tips, and exclusive invites to free coaching and special offers.  🔗 sharonlamarcoaching.com/insider 💗 Get my help now…Grab your copy of Nothing Is Wrong With You: How to Stop Putting Your Happiness On Hold and Start Feeling Happier In Your Life As It Is🔗 sharonlamarcoaching.com/freehelp

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Sometimes the reason finding love feels impossible has very little to do with dating… and a whole lot to do with the story your brain has been practicing for years. Because once your brain starts collecting evidence that: “There are no good...

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