141: The Avoidant Side of Attachment

In this episode, I sit down with Rossana, a past Root to Rise client who represents the often misunderstood avoidant attachment style. We dive into her transformation from shutdown and disconnection to being able to stay present in her relationship, and she shares the specific somatic tools that helped her body feel safe enough to finally process grief. Rossana offers hope that you don't need to wait until you hit rock bottom to get support—you can start your healing journey right now. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Understanding avoidant attachment and the internal battle of wanting connection while feeling overwhelmed by it ➡️ How unprocessed grief blocks your ability to experience joy and stay open-hearted ➡️ Simple somatic tools that create safety in the body (hand on heart, box breathing, body scans) ➡️ Why you don't need to reach rock bottom before getting help for your relationship ➡️ How to talk to the tense parts of your body to release stored emotions and pain If your body still hasn't caught up to all the inner work you've done, Root to Rise 2.0 is your next step. One week, 15 women, $57 for the first spots. I'd love to have you in this container 👇 ➡️ https://www.idobreakthrough.com/rtrhousewarming ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠https://calendly.com/idobreakthrough/free-connection-call⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky