1490 第一次和美国人约会，到底谁买单（上）

加入新一期开营的第四期迷你退休营/早起训练营：https://flywithlily.com/discover 或加主播微信：iflywithlily 验证消息：报名）I don’t want your money, I don’t need to be taken care of, I don’t need to be spoiled with gifts. Make me laugh, respect my choices, and be a gentleman, some of us don’t ask much. 我不要你的钱，我也不需要被照顾，我也不需要太多的礼物被你宠坏。我就只要你让我大笑，尊重我的决定，然后成为一个绅士。我们有些人要求并不多。（7:29 完整英语的访谈｜English Interview starts at 7:29）单词记忆：1. Spoil 宠2. Respect 尊敬Is it okay to ask them to pay for dates? Well, you know, every culture is a little bit different, and even within Western cultures, people have very different opinions of that. Generally speaking, it's commonly accepted, at least in the United States where I live, that the man typically takes the lead on that and asks the woman out and therefore pays for the date. Now, there's an ever-growing trend with more and more women that want to contribute and pay for half the date, but I'm kind of an old-school person. I always, you know, unless they absolutely insist, and even then, I still pretty much prefer that I just pay for the date. 可以要求美国男人支付约会费用吗？好吧，你知道，每种文化都有点不同，即使在西方文化中，人们对此也有非常不同的看法。一般而言，人们普遍认为，至少在我居住的美国，男人通常会带头约女人出去，并支付约会费用。现在，越来越多的女性想要贡献并支付一半约会的费用，这是一种不断增长的趋势，但我是一个守旧派的人。我总是，除非他们绝对坚持，即使那样，我仍然宁愿我来支付约会的费用。3. Opinion 意见4. Accept 接受5. Take the lead 带头主动6. Trend 趋势7. Contribute 贡献8. Old-school 守旧的9. Insist 坚持10. Prefer 宁愿、偏好结论：我觉得男生在首次约会的时候主动付款是一个非常绅士的表现！我想不会有人不喜欢会为女生买单的女权主义者。我记得和Omar初次约会的时候，一整天他买单了两次，第三次我就坚持买单了！后面他都会坚持要买单，除非是我找他出去吃饭，或者感谢他给我的帮忙，当然我也会主动说要给他煮饭，我当然不会计较买菜的钱！加入新一期开营的第四期迷你退休营/早起训练营，请填写问卷预约30分钟免费谘询：https://flywithlily.com/discover 或加主播微信：iflywithlily 验证消息：报名）我的IG：flywithlily微信：iflywithlily