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EPISODE · Apr 1, 2026 · 29 MIN

150. Are you really as open minded as you think? with Kim Payne

from Courageous Me · host Kim Payne

In this episode, I unpack a moment that completely shifted how I think about the limits of our perspectives, and where we’re willing (or unwilling), to stretch it.What started as a simple plane ride home turned into a deeply unexpected conversation with someone I would never have normally engaged with. And it got me thinking… how often do we unconsciously stay inside our own “lane” of thinking, beliefs, and assumptions, without ever questioning them?I explore what happens when you step beyond your default way of seeing the world. Not to agree. Not to convince. But simply to understand.And I dive into the subtle ways we judge, the invisible boundaries we create around our thinking, and the quiet opportunities we miss when we choose comfort over curiosity.Because the real question isn’t whether we’re open-minded.It’s how far we’re actually willing to go when our perspective is challenged.If you’ve ever found yourself certain you’re right, resistant to another view, or curious about what might exist beyond your current way of thinking, this conversation will stretch you. Key takeaways:o   What happens when you lean into a conversation you would normally avoid.o   The subtle ways we judge others and what those snap decisions could cost us.o   How expanding your perspective can open up unexpected opportunities.o   Why staying in your “known way” of thinking can feel safe… but might be keeping you smaller than you realise.o   The unexpected growth that sits just beyond your edge of perspective…if you’re willing to go there. COURAGEOUS ME – THE BOOK Grab your copy of Courageous Me – The courage to turn someday into today.  Where to find me: Website: Kim Payne   LinkedIn: Kim Payne Instagram: @iamkimpayne  Facebook: KimPayneBiz   COURAGEOUS SHIFTWant to make the impact you know is possible without having everything figured out? Get access now to The Courageous Shift – a FREE 90 min audio mini-series to work out your next move. 

In this episode, I unpack a moment that completely shifted how I think about the limits of our perspectives, and where we’re willing (or unwilling), to stretch it.What started as a simple plane ride home turned into a deeply unexpected conversation with someone I would never have normally engaged with. And it got me thinking… how often do we unconsciously stay inside our own “lane” of thinking, beliefs, and assumptions, without ever questioning them?I explore what happens when you step beyond your default way of seeing the world. Not to agree. Not to convince. But simply to understand.And I dive into the subtle ways we judge, the invisible boundaries we create around our thinking, and the quiet opportunities we miss when we choose comfort over curiosity.Because the real question isn’t whether we’re open-minded.It’s how far we’re actually willing to go when our perspective is challenged.If you’ve ever found yourself certain you’re right, resistant to another view, or curious about what might exist beyond your current way of thinking, this conversation will stretch you. Key takeaways:o   What happens when you lean into a conversation you would normally avoid.o   The subtle ways we judge others and what those snap decisions could cost us.o   How expanding your perspective can open up unexpected opportunities.o   Why staying in your “known way” of thinking can feel safe… but might be keeping you smaller than you realise.o   The unexpected growth that sits just beyond your edge of perspective…if you’re willing to go there. COURAGEOUS ME – THE BOOK Grab your copy of Courageous Me – The courage to turn someday into today.  Where to find me: Website: Kim Payne   LinkedIn: Kim Payne Instagram: @iamkimpayne  Facebook: KimPayneBiz   COURAGEOUS SHIFTWant to make the impact you know is possible without having everything figured out? Get access now to The Courageous Shift – a FREE 90 min audio mini-series to work out your next move.

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