~151~WTF "Stop Manipulating – Start Trusting"

#ParentingTeens #InnerWorkForParents #TheStormIsTheGift #MindsetShiftAfter a year‑long “unintentional hiatus,” I’m back on the WTF mic—raw, un‑edited, and straight from the heart. In this “Friday‑feel‑good” episode I dive deep into the storms we all get caught in, the temptation to manipulate our way out, and the powerful shift that happens when we let go and trust the redirection.I share a personal story about hunting for a home in Toronto—six condo rejections, endless paperwork, and finally a perfect‑vibe house that showed up when I stopped trying to prove myself. The lesson? Stepping out of your comfort zone is essential, but fighting the blocks that appear is what keeps you stuck.If you’re a parent of a teenager navigating the chaotic middle‑ground of adolescence—balancing expectations, “perfect” images on social media, and the inevitable storms—this episode is for you. Listen for practical mindset tools you can model for your teen and strategies to turn setbacks into growth‑fuel.Own Your Storm – Model accountability; let your teen see you taking responsibility for your own setbacks.Redefine Failure – Position “no” as a redirection, not a dead‑end.Authenticity Over Perfection – Share the messy middle; teens need realistic role models.Focus on Vibe & Relationships – Teach teens to look for people and environments that feel right, not just “look” right.Let Go of Over‑Proofing – Stop over‑documenting achievements for external validation; let intrinsic motivation guide them.📣 Call‑to‑ActionSubscribe to the WTF podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite platform—never miss a raw, un‑filtered episode.Share this episode with any parent (or teen) who feels stuck in a storm. Tag them and add the hashtags below!Connect with Cheryl!Let’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : [email protected] Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastJoin our Podcast Private Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/httpswww.facebook.comgroups1258426648646523What’s it like to work with me!MINI-COURSE