Parenting Teens: Advice Redefined for Today's Complex World

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Parenting Teens: Advice Redefined for Today's Complex World

"Discover ''Parenting Teens : Advice Redefined for Today's Complex World" with Special Education Specialist / Educator Cheryl, as we dive into real and raw conversations about sex, drugs, screens, social media, LGBTQ+ issues, mental health, and more. This podcast is your guide to reimagining better relationships with teens by doing the essential inner work. Join us for engaging, vibrant, and empathetic discussions that foster trust and understanding in today's complex parenting landscape.  Embrace the change,we just can’t parent the way our parents did”Questions this podcast will answer;  I am so grateful for you taking your time t

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    ~169~"Mental Health Breakthrough for Teens? What Parents Need to Know About TMS" with Kelley Jensen

    #DisabilityInclusion #InclusionMatters #BrainBasedHealing #BrainHealth #TMStherapy #TeenMentalHealth. #BelongingMatters #AutismSupport #TeenMentalHealth. What if the treatment your teen needs already exists… but no one is talking about it?In this powerful and eye-opening episode of Parenting Teens Advice Redefined for Today’s World, Cheryl sits down with Kelly Jensen to explore the growing world of Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS) — a brain-based therapy being used to support individuals struggling with depression, OCD, anxiety, PTSD, migraines, smoking cessation, and more.Kelly shares the deeply personal story of her autistic son and how discovering TMS changed the trajectory of their family’s life after years of medications, therapies, and unanswered questions. Together, Cheryl and Kelly unpack what TMS actually is, how it works, who it may help, insurance coverage realities, and why so many parents have never heard about it before.This conversation is especially important for parents raising neurodivergent teens navigating:AnxietyOCDDepressionAutismEmotional dysregulationSchool transitionsSelf-medication concernsMental health challengesIf you’ve ever felt like you’ve tried everything and are still searching for answers, this episode may open a door you didn’t know existed.Brain Performance Technologies:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brainperformancetech/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/p/Brain-Performance-Technologies-100090715534720/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BrainPerformanceTechnologiesTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alphabraintechsRefrigerator Moms:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/refrigeratormoms/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/refrigeratormomsYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRefrigeratorMomsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@refrigeratormomsYOUR GIFT- GUIDE FOR GRADE 8 TO GRADE 9 IEP TRANSITIONShttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/iep-high-school-transition-parent-quick-guideLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatConnect with Cheryl!Get the book here!Daring to Belong: Autism Stories of Courage and ConnectionDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : [email protected] Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcast

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    ~168~ WTF "ADHD, Autism & IEPs: The Chectlist You Didn't Know Your Needed"

    YOUR GIFT- GUIDE FOR GRADE 8 TO GRADE 9 IEP TRANSITIONShttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/iep-high-school-transition-parent-quick-guideLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatConnect with Cheryl!Get the book here!Daring to Belong: Autism Stories of Courage and ConnectionDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : [email protected] Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcast#ParentingTeens #IEP #NeurodivergentTeens #ADHDParenting #AutismParenting #HighSchoolTransition #Grade9TransitionStarting high school is a huge transition for any teen — but for students with an IEP, ADHD, autism, anxiety, executive functioning challenges, or other neurodivergent needs, the Grade 8 to Grade 9 transition can feel overwhelming.In this episode of Parenting Teens: Advice Redefined for Today’s World, Cheryl Pankhurst breaks down the proactive strategies parents can use RIGHT NOW to help their teen enter high school feeling safe, confident, supported, and understood.Drawing from 25+ years in special education and transition planning, Cheryl explains:What should actually be included in a transition planWhy many parents are not getting enough information early enoughHow to advocate WITH your teen instead of FOR themWhy your child needs to understand their own IEPThe importance of identifying a mentor or “safe person” in the schoolHow familiarity reduces anxiety for neurodivergent studentsWhy proactive communication with teachers mattersHow to use everyday conversations to uncover your teen’s fears and worries about high schoolThis episode is practical, empowering, and full of real strategies parents can implement immediately before September arrives.Key TakeawaysTransition planning for students with IEPs is legally requiredA transition plan should include goals, timelines, supports, and responsible staffNeurodivergent teens need repetition, familiarity, and predictabilityParents should shift from advocating FOR teens to advocating WITH teensTeens should understand and participate in their own IEP meetingsIdentifying a mentor or safe person at school can dramatically reduce anxietyProactive communication prevents major problems later in the semesterThe emotional experience of the first day of school matters deeplyThe transition from Grade 8 to Grade 9 can be overwhelming for teens with IEPs, ADHD, autism, anxiety, and executive functioning challenges. In this episode, Cheryl Pankhurst shares the exact strategies parents can use to reduce stress, build confidence, and help neurodivergent teens successfully transition into high school.

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    ~167~"What Every Parent Needs to Know About IEPs, High School & Neurodivergent Teens" with Vicki Christensen

    #ParentingTeens #NeurodivergentTeens #IEP #ADHDParentingIn this raw and deeply important conversation, Cheryl Pankhurst sits down with parent advocate and founder of Blue Glasses Advocacy, Vicki Christensen, to unpack what really happens when neurodivergent teens move into high school and beyond. From IEP accommodations and executive functioning struggles to school refusal, self-advocacy, transition planning, and aging out of support systems — this is the conversation every parent wishes they had sooner. Founder of Blue Glasses Advocacy and mother of a 21 year-old with global developmentaldelays who proudly wears blue glasses, Vicki Christensen empowers parents with theknowledge and tools to navigate disability rights and is passionate about advocating for familiesthrough the Individualized Education Program (IEP) process.She holds a Special Education Advocacy Certificate from the University of San Diego, is amember of the Council of Parent Attorneys and Advocates (COPAA), and co-founded theSpecial Education Advisory Committee In her local school district. She was also awarded theNorth County Consortium for Special Education 2023 Collaborative Parent Award and organizesinclusive community events.Vicki supports parents and guardians of students in special education by providing effectiveadvocacy strategies to foster positive, collaborative relationships at school. Her work, both inadvocacy and in parenting, combines expertise, empathy, and firsthand insight, making heruniquely qualified to guide and inspire families navigating the challenges and triumphs of raisinga neurodivergent child.Vicki resides in San Diego with her husband, two sons, and golden retriever where she is deeplyconnected to the special-needs community.Learn more at www.blueglassesadvocacy.com or on Instagram @blueglassesadvocacyConnect with Cheryl!Get the book here!Daring to Belong: Autism Stories of Courage and ConnectionYOUR GIFT- GUIDE FOR GRADE 8 TO GRADE 9 IEP TRANSITIONShttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/iep-high-school-transition-parent-quick-guideLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : [email protected] Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcast

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    ~166~WTF "Grade 8 to 9 IEP Transition: What Every Parent Needs to Know Before High School"

    #ParentingTeens #IEPTransition #SpecialEducationSupport #NeurodivergentTeens #HighSchoolTransitionGrade 8 to 9 IEP Transition: What Every Parent Needs to Know Before High SchoolIf your teen has an IEP and is heading into high school… this is the episode you cannot afford to skip.Because here’s the truth— Most parents are told just enough to feel hopeful… but not enough to actually feel prepared.And that gap? That’s where kids fall through the cracks.In this episode, I’m breaking down what really happens between Grade 8 and Grade 9—and how to move from hoping your teen will be okay… to knowing they will.Drawing from 25+ years in special education and leading high school IEP teams, I’m sharing what I saw every single year:➡️ Parents lining up with fear, unanswered questions, and the sense that it was already too lateThis episode changes that.🔑 What You’ll Learn:1. Why starting early changes everything What should already be happening before your teen even walks into high school—and how to fix it if it hasn’t.2. The biggest mistake parents make with IEPs Hint: It’s thinking the IEP is yours… not your teen’s.3. How to build real confidence in your teen Not through lectures—but through exposure, repetition, and ownership.4. The “safe person” strategy every teen needs Who your child should go to when things fall apart (because they will at some point).5. The truth about IEP transfer delays Why teachers may not even see your child’s IEP until October—and what to do instead.6. How to advocate WITH your teen (not for them) This is the shift that determines whether they thrive in high school… and beyond.7. Communication strategies that prevent crisis mode So you’re not finding out in November that your teen is failing.💡 The Big Reframe:You are not preparing your teen for university right now.You’re preparing them for Tuesday.And when you focus on the next step instead of the entire staircase… everything changes.🎯 Who This Episode Is For:Parents of Grade 7–9 students with an IEPParents of neurodivergent teens (ADHD, ASD, learning disabilities)Families feeling anxious, behind, or unsure what to do nextParents who want to stop reacting—and start leading🧠 Resources Mentioned:✔️ Transition Checklist (download on website) ✔️ Tutoring support recommendations ✔️ Advocacy support options🔗 Work With Me:If you’re sitting here thinking: “I’m already behind… and I don’t even know where to start.”You don’t have to figure this out alone.I offer:Targeted 1:1 consulting sessionsA 90-Day Advocacy Program (from diagnosis → clarity → confident action)📞 Book a complimentary call: https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chat🔥 Final Thought:You’re already doing the most important thing.You showed up.Now it’s time to help your teen show up too.Connect with Cheryl!Get the book here!Daring to Belong: Autism Stories of Courage and ConnectionYOUR GIFT- GUIDE FOR GRADE 8 TO GRADE 9 IEP TRANSITIONShttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/iep-high-school-transition-parent-quick-guideLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : [email protected] Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcast

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    ~165~“Why Moms of Teens Feel Invisible (And How to Find Yourself Again)” with Renee Lindo

    #ParentingTeens #MomLifeRealTalk #MomsOfTeens #TeenParenting #MidlifeWomen #FindingYourselfAgainSomewhere between raising teenagers, managing a career, and holding everything together… many moms quietly disappear.In this powerful conversation, Cheryl sits down with style and confidence expert Renee Lindo to explore something most parenting conversations completely ignore:👉 What happens to YOU while you're raising your teen?This episode is not about fashion. It’s about identity. Presence. Confidence. And how small shifts—like how you show up each day—can completely change your energy, your mindset, and even your parenting.Because when you feel better about yourself… everything changes.If you’ve ever felt:InvisibleExhaustedDisconnected from who you used to beLike you’re just “getting through the day”This conversation will hit deeper than you expect.🔑 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:Why so many moms of teens lose their sense of identity (and don’t even realize it)The surprising connection between how you dress and how you show up as a parentHow your “energy” at home shifts when you start showing up for yourselfWhy confidence is not about clothes—but how clothes can unlock itA simple framework to rebuild your identity without overwhelmHow to stop waiting (for weight loss, time, or “someday”) and start nowPractical ways to feel put together—even when you’re busy and overwhelmed💡 Key Takeaway:You are still a leader in your home. And how you show up—physically, emotionally, energetically—matters more than you think.This isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about coming back to yourself.🔥 Cheryl’s Message to You:You’re not just raising a teen. You’re still YOU.And when you reconnect with yourself… you don’t just change your life—👉 you change your relationship with your teen.🔗 Connect with Renee Lindo:LinkedIn: Renee LindoInstagram: @reneelindo_styleWebsite: letsgetdressednow.com💬 Work With Cheryl:If your teen is struggling in school, navigating a diagnosis, or you feel overwhelmed trying to advocate for them—You don’t have to do this alone.👉 Visit CherylPankhurst.com to book a complimentary consultation.Connect with Cheryl!Get the book here!Daring to Belong: Autism Stories of Courage and ConnectionYOUR GIFT- GUIDE FOR GRADE 8 TO GRADE 9 IEP TRANSITIONShttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/iep-high-school-transition-parent-quick-guideLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : [email protected] Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcast

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    ~164~Dr. Teresa Lyons

    If your teen has been diagnosed with autism—or you suspect something isn’t adding up—this is the conversation you need.In this powerful episode, I sit down with Dr. Teresa Lyons, an Ivy League scientist, autism educator, and parent, to break down what’s really going on beneath the surface of an autism diagnosis—and what parents can actually do next.Because here’s the truth: A diagnosis can feel like everything just changed overnight. The future you imagined shifts. The questions multiply. And the system? It often gives you labels… not clarity.This conversation cuts through the noise.We talk about:What an autism diagnosis really means (and what it doesn’t)The emotional reality parents don’t say out loud—grief, shame, and overwhelmWhy “one-size-fits-all” autism advice doesn’t workThe science behind autism—explained in a way parents can actually understandWhat might be happening in your teen’s brain and bodyWhy meltdowns happen—and how to respond without escalatingThe truth about medications like Adderall (short-term vs long-term thinking)How nutrition, gut health, and environment may impact behaviorThe hidden harm of labels—and how they affect your teen in schoolWhy so many parents feel isolated (and what actually helps)You’ll also hear a critical shift: 👉 Moving from fear and confusion… to clarity and leadership.Because your teen doesn’t need a perfect parent. They need a grounded one.And when you understand what’s actually going on—everything changes.If you are navigating:A new autism diagnosisSchool challenges or IEP confusionEmotional outbursts or meltdownsFeeling lost, overwhelmed, or aloneThis episode will meet you exactly where you are—and give you a way forward.🎧 Listen now and share this with a parent who needs steadiness today.#AutismInTeens #AutismDiagnosis #ParentingTeens #AutismSupport #NeurodivergentTeensConnect with Cheryl!Get the book here!Daring to Belong: Autism Stories of Courage and ConnectionYOUR GIFT- GUIDE FOR GRADE 8 TO GRADE 9 IEP TRANSITIONShttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/iep-high-school-transition-parent-quick-guideLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : [email protected] Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastOptin-podcast subscriber

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    ~152~"Name Your Face: Simple Neuroscience Hack to Improve Teen Communication and Conflict Resolution" Dr. Lisa Riegel

    #TeenBrain, #Neuroscience, #7CFramework, #SocialMedia, #OverParenting,In this power‑packed conversation, host Cheryl sits down with Dr. Lisa Riegel—neuroscientist, educator, and author of NeuroWell and the 7C Framework. Together they unpack the science behind teenage behavior, demystify the “will‑or‑won’t” myth, and give parents practical, brain‑friendly tools to turn disengagement into engagement, anxiety into confidence, and “over‑parenting” into empowered autonomy.Connect with Lisahttps://www.linkedin.com/in/lisariegel/ www.epinstitute.net lisariegel.comConnect with Cheryl!Let’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : [email protected] Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastJoin our Podcast Private Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/httpswww.facebook.comgroups1258426648646523What’s it like to work with me!MINI-COURSE

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    ~165~"Autism, Meltdowns & School: What Every Parent of a Teen Needs to Know" with Dr. Teresa Lyons

    If your teen has been diagnosed with autism—or you suspect something isn’t adding up—this is the conversation you need.In this powerful episode, I sit down with Dr. Teresa Lyons, an Ivy League scientist, autism educator, and parent, to break down what’s really going on beneath the surface of an autism diagnosis—and what parents can actually do next.Because here’s the truth: A diagnosis can feel like everything just changed overnight. The future you imagined shifts. The questions multiply. And the system? It often gives you labels… not clarity.This conversation cuts through the noise.We talk about:What an autism diagnosis really means (and what it doesn’t)The emotional reality parents don’t say out loud—grief, shame, and overwhelmWhy “one-size-fits-all” autism advice doesn’t workThe science behind autism—explained in a way parents can actually understandWhat might be happening in your teen’s brain and bodyWhy meltdowns happen—and how to respond without escalatingThe truth about medications like Adderall (short-term vs long-term thinking)How nutrition, gut health, and environment may impact behaviorThe hidden harm of labels—and how they affect your teen in schoolWhy so many parents feel isolated (and what actually helps)You’ll also hear a critical shift: 👉 Moving from fear and confusion… to clarity and leadership.Because your teen doesn’t need a perfect parent. They need a grounded one.And when you understand what’s actually going on—everything changes.If you are navigating:A new autism diagnosisSchool challenges or IEP confusionEmotional outbursts or meltdownsFeeling lost, overwhelmed, or aloneThis episode will meet you exactly where you are—and give you a way forward.🎧 Listen now and share this with a parent who needs steadiness today.#AutismInTeens #AutismDiagnosis #ParentingTeens #AutismSupportMeet Dr. Theresa Lyons — international autism educator, Ivy League scientist, and autism parent. She’s the founder and CEO of Navigating AWEtism, a groundbreaking platform that transforms the overwhelming complexity of autism science into clear, actionable steps for families. With a Ph.D. from Yale and a deeply personal mission, Dr. Lyons has worked with parents in over 21 countries, bringing evidence-based strategies that change lives. Today, she’ll share how her unique blend of rigorous science and real-world experience is giving parents what they’ve never had before: clarity, confidence, and a roadmap for progress.Important Links / How to find you *https://www.youtube.com/@NavigatingAWEtism https://www.instagram.com/navigating_awetism/ https://www.facebook.com/NavigatingAWEtism https://www.linkedin.com/in/theresamlyonsphd/ https://www.tiktok.com/@navigatingawetism https://navigatingawetism.com/ https://awetism.net/Connect with Cheryl!Get the book here!Daring to Belong: Autism Stories of Courage and ConnectionYOUR GIFT- GUIDE FOR GRADE 8 TO GRADE 9 IEP TRANSITIONShttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/iep-high-school-transition-parent-quick-guideLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : [email protected] Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcast

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    ~164~“You Finally Got the Assessment… Now What? (The Part No One Explains)”

    #ParentingTeens #IEPSupport #SpecialEducation #NeurodivergentTeens #ParentAdvocacy #SchoolSupport #PsychoeducationalAssessment You waited. You pushed. You advocated. And finally—you got the psychoeducational assessment.So why does it still feel like you have more questions than answers?In this episode of WTF (Welcome to Friday), Cheryl Pankhurst breaks down the exact moment so many parents of teens find themselves in—the one no one prepares you for.You’re staring at a 60-page report filled with terms like processing speed, executive functioning, working memory… And somehow, it doesn’t feel connected to your actual child.➡️ The one who melts down after homework ➡️ The one who says they’re “fine” (but you know they’re not) ➡️ The one working twice as hard—or completely checked outThis episode uncovers the gap between the assessment and real life—at school, at home, and in your child’s day-to-day experience.Because here’s the truth: The assessment is not the answer. It’s a tool. And without the right guidance, it often sits unused—leaving parents overwhelmed and unsure what to do next.Cheryl walks you through:Why psychoeducational assessments feel confusing (and why that’s not your fault)What those complex terms actually mean in real-life scenariosWhy your teen’s IEP might not match the assessmentThe hidden misalignment between parents and schoolsHow clarity changes everything—your confidence, your voice, and your child’s experienceWhy advocacy doesn’t have to mean conflict—and what actually works long-term✨ When you understand the landscape, everything shifts. ✨ You stop guessing. ✨ You stop reacting. ✨ You start advocating with clarity and calm.And the ripple effect? Your teen begins to learn how to advocate for themselves.If you’re sitting with an assessment and thinking, “What do I actually do with this?” —you’re not alone. And you don’t have to figure it out on your own.🎧 NEXT STEPSIf this episode resonates with you, Cheryl works directly with families to:Translate assessments into real-life strategiesAlign school supports with your child’s actual needsPrepare you for school meetings with clarity and confidence👉 Learn more about working together through Insight to Impact (link in show notes)You got the assessment. So why does it still feel like you don’t have answers?This is the part no one talks about.The 60-page report. The confusing language. The disconnect between what’s written… and your actual child.In today’s WTF episode, I’m breaking down why that happens—and what to do next.Because the assessment isn’t the answer. But it can change everything—if you know how to use it.Connect with Cheryl!Get the book here!Daring to Belong: Autism Stories of Courage and ConnectionYOUR GIFT- GUIDE FOR GRADE 8 TO GRADE 9 IEP TRANSITIONShttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/iep-high-school-transition-parent-quick-guideLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : [email protected] Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcast

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    ~163~“The Therapy Your Teen Actually Needs (Hint: It’s Not Sitting on a Couch)” with Prairie Conlon

    #ParentingTeens #TeenMentalHealth #TeenAnxiety #ADHDParenting #AutismSupportWelcome to another raw, real, and honest conversation on Parenting Teens: Advice Redefined for Today’s World—where we stop sugarcoating parenting and start understanding what’s actually going on beneath the surface.Because it’s not them… it’s you—and that’s where the magic happens.In this episode, we explore something many parents feel but don’t fully understand: 👉 Why animals can regulate your teen’s nervous system faster than words ever could.I’m joined by Prairie Conlon, licensed mental health therapist and equine-assisted psychotherapist, who shares how animals—especially horses—can access parts of your teen’s brain that traditional therapy simply can’t reach.This conversation will shift how you think about:AnxietyADHDAutismEmotional regulationAnd why your teen “shuts down” when you try to talk🔑 What You’ll Learn in This EpisodeWhy traditional “sit and talk” therapy often fails teensHow animals bypass resistance and connect directly to the nervous systemThe powerful role of nonverbal communication in neurodivergent teensWhy horses teach boundaries and self-regulation better than adultsThe difference between verbal memory vs. sensory (trauma) memoryWhy your teen may be “fine” at school—but falls apart at homeHow animals reduce anxiety in minutes (backed by brain research)Why therapy should never feel like punishmentWhat real progress looks like (hint: it’s not always what you expect)🧠 A Shift Every Parent Needs to HearIf your teen won’t open up… If therapy hasn’t worked… If you’re exhausted trying to “get through” to them…This episode will help you understand:👉 Your teen isn’t resisting you. 👉 Their nervous system is protecting them. 👉 And connection doesn’t start with talking—it starts with safety.🐴 About Our Guest – Prairie ConlonPrairie Conlon is a licensed mental health therapist and founder of Emotional Support Assisted Therapy. She specializes in integrating animals into trauma therapy, autism support, and emotional healing.Her work has been featured in:The GuardianMilitary MakeoverCreature Comforts documentaryAnd her approach is changing how we understand healing—especially for teens who don’t fit the traditional model.🎧 Why Parents Need to ListenBecause what you’re doing might not be wrong… It’s just not reaching the part of your teen that needs support.And once you understand that— everything shifts.🔗 Work With MeIf your teen is struggling in school, navigating a diagnosis, or you feel lost in the system…I help you go from diagnosis → direction So you can walk into meetings confident and finally feel heard.👉 Visit CherylPankhurst.com to book a complimentary consultation🔥 SEO Hashtags (High Reach + Niche Targeted)#ParentingTeens #TeenMentalHealth #TeenAnxiety #ADHDParenting #AutismSupport

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    ~162~"Letting Go Without Losing Them: Parenting Autistic Adults (Real Talk)" with Susan Tatem

    #AutismParenting#ParentingTeens#Neurodivergent#AutismAwarenessIn this powerful and deeply honest episode of Parenting Teens Advice Redefined, I sit down with Susan Tatem, the visionary behind the anthology Daring to Belong: Stories of Autism, Courage and Connection, to talk about what really happens when autistic teens become adults.We challenge the cultural myth that adulthood begins at 18—and explore what readiness, independence, and support actually look like for neurodivergent individuals.This is not a surface-level conversation. This is real, raw, and what parents need to hear.We talk about:Why chronological age does NOT equal developmental readinessThe painful balance between protecting your child and letting goWhat to say (and what NOT to say) when supporting independenceThe reality of watching your child make choices you know may hurt themHow to “keep the light on” when there’s distance or estrangementThe 3 most important priorities: health, safety, and welfarePractical strategies you can start using TODAYSusan also shares her personal journey raising her autistic daughter into adulthood—and the fears she’s had to release along the way.If you are parenting a teen with autism, navigating a new diagnosis, or trying to understand how to support independence without losing connection… this episode will stay with you.💡 Key Takeaway: Your child doesn’t need you to control their path. They need to know you’re still there… no matter what.📚 About the Book: Daring to Belong brings together powerful voices sharing real stories of raising and supporting neurodivergent children—with all proceeds supporting the autism community.Connect with Cheryl!Get the book here!Daring to Belong: Autism Stories of Courage and Connection YOUR GIFT- GUIDE FOR GRADE 8 TO GRADE 9 IEP TRANSITIONShttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/iep-high-school-transition-parent-quick-guideLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : [email protected] Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcast

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    ~161~"The Real Reason Teens Lie (It’s Not What You Think)

    In this unfiltered WTF (Welcome to Friday) episode, Cheryl Pankhurst dives into one of the most frustrating parenting challenges: teen lying—and the uncomfortable truth parents need to hear.Inspired by insights from Dr. Becky Kennedy, this episode reframes everything you think you know about dishonesty in teens.👉 What if your teen isn’t lying to deceive you…👉 What if they’re lying to protect themselves?Cheryl breaks down how common parenting habits—like asking questions we already know the answers to—actually create a “test” instead of building trust.And here’s the shift:➡️ When teens feel tested, they go into self-preservation mode➡️ When teens feel safe, they move toward honesty and connectionIn this episode, you’ll learn:Why asking “Where were you?” can backfire instantlyHow parents unintentionally set teens up to lieThe difference between curiosity vs. controlWhat to say instead when you already know the truthHow to create a home where honesty feels safer than lyingThe powerful mindset shift: the lie is not the problem—it’s the symptomA simple reframe you can use immediately:Instead of:“Were you at the library?”Try:“I know you went to the movies tonight. I’m not here to come at you—I just want to understand what happened.”No traps. No tests. Just connection.Because this isn’t about controlling your teen’s behavior…It’s about the environment we’re creating as parents.💬 Key TakeawayIf we want honest kids, we have to become the place where truth feels safe—not risky.📣 Call to ActionIf this episode hit home, share it with another parent who needs this shift.And if you’re ready to change the dynamic in your home, connect with Cheryl for support at:👉 www.cherylpankhurst.com#ParentingTeens #TeenLying #ParentingTips #ConsciousParenting #TeenCommunication#ParentingAdvice #MomLife #RaisingTeens #ConnectionOverControl #ParentingShiftConnect with Cheryl!Get the book here!Daring to Belong: Autism Stories of Courage and ConnectionYOUR GIFT- GUIDE FOR GRADE 8 TO GRADE 9 IEP TRANSITIONShttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/iep-high-school-transition-parent-quick-guideLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : [email protected] Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcast

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    ~160~“Can You Love Me As I Am?” Autism, Grandparents & Family Healing" with Jean Ramsey

    #AutismAcceptance #ParentingTeens #Neurodivergent #ADHD #AutismParenting #Grandparents🎙️ In This Episode, You’ll Learn:✔️ How grandparents can become powerful allies instead of barriers✔️ Why awareness → acceptance → action is the path forward✔️ Practical ways to support neurodivergent children at family events✔️ The language shift that reduces shame and builds trust✔️ How self-care impacts your ability to support your family📘 SPECIAL MENTIONThis episode features insights from the anthology:“Daring to Belong: Stories of Courage & Autism”Launching around Autism Awareness Day (April 2)💬 WHO THIS IS FOR:Parents of neurodivergent teensGrandparents who want to better understandEducators and professionalsFamilies navigating autism, ADHD, or learning differences❤️ WORK WITH CHERYLIf your teen is struggling in school, navigating a diagnosis, or you feel unheard in the system…You don’t have to figure it out alone.👉 Visit: www.cherylpankhurst.comBook a complimentary consultation🔔 DON’T FORGET:✔️ Subscribe for real, raw parenting conversations✔️ Share this episode with someone who needs it✔️ Leave a review—it helps more families find supportFIND JEAN RAMSEYhttps://coachingforschools.com/parents-guide-to-ebsa/https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeanramseycoach/ www.coachingforschools.com You Tube: Jean Ramsey ADHD and Education coach❤️ WORK WITH CHERYLIf your teen is struggling in school, navigating a diagnosis, or you feel unheard in the system…You don’t have to figure it out alone.👉 Visit: www.cherylpankhurst.comBook a complimentary consultationConnect with Cheryl!Get the book here!Daring to Belong: Autism Stories of Courage and ConnectionYOUR GIFT- GUIDE FOR GRADE 8 TO GRADE 9 IEP TRANSITIONShttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/iep-high-school-transition-parent-quick-guideLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : [email protected] Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcast

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    ~159~"WTF-Do you think you know about 'Belonging'? Think again?"

    #AutismAwareness #NeurodivergentKids #ParentingTeens #InclusiveEducation #IEPIf your teen feels like they don’t belong… this is the conversation we need to have.In this raw and unfiltered WTF Friday episode, Cheryl Pankhurst challenges one of the biggest misconceptions in parenting and education:👉 That accommodations automatically create inclusion.They don’t.Because true belonging doesn’t come from what we give kids… It comes from whether we actually listen to them.With Autism Awareness Day approaching and the release of Daring to Belong: Autism Stories of Courage and Connection, this episode dives deep into:Why “good intentions” can still miss the markHow IEPs and accommodations can unintentionally excludeThe powerful shift from telling kids what they need → asking them what worksWhat the pandemic taught us about isolation, disconnection, and empathyHow parents, teachers, and leaders can create real inclusionThis isn’t just about autism. This is about every child who feels different, unseen, or disconnected.💡 Key TakeawayBelonging isn’t created by checking boxes. It’s created through conversation, curiosity, and connection.Connect with Cheryl!Get the book here!Daring to Belong: Autism Stories of Courage and ConnectionYOUR GIFT- GUIDE FOR GRADE 8 TO GRADE 9 IEP TRANSITIONShttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/iep-high-school-transition-parent-quick-guideLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : [email protected] Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcast

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    ~158~ "Neurodivergent Teens Aren’t “Acting Out”… They’re Asking for Connection" Gillian Nycum

    Neurodivergent Teens Aren’t “Acting Out”… They’re Asking for ConnectionWhat If Your Teen’s Behavior Isn’t Defiance… But a Cry for Connection?Why Neurodivergent Teens “Shut Down” (And What Parents Are Missing)Stop Correcting Your Teen—Start Understanding Them (This Changes Everything)#neurodivergentteens #parentingteens #adhdparenting #autismparenting #behavioriscommunication #consciousparentingWhat if your teen’s behavior isn’t something to fix… but something to understand?In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, Cheryl sits down with Jillian Nycum to challenge everything we’ve been taught about behavior, belonging, and parenting neurodivergent teens.This episode goes beyond labels and accommodations—and into something much deeper:👉 What if shutdowns, resistance, and emotional explosions aren’t defiance… but signals? 👉 What if your teen isn’t “acting out”… but trying to connect?Jillian shares a transformative perspective rooted in neuroscience, systems thinking, and lived experience raising a neurodivergent child. Together, they unpack how traditional systems—especially schools—often prioritize compliance over connection, and why that’s costing our kids more than we realize.This conversation will shift how you see your teen, their behavior, and your role as a parent.🔑 In This Episode, You’ll Learn:Why behavior is communication—not manipulationThe truth about masking (and why it’s more like filtering)How neurodivergent teens experience the world differentlyWhy belonging is not a “soft skill”—it’s a strategyWhat parents and teachers are missing when they focus on complianceHow to move from correction → curiosity in real timeThe hidden cost of “fitting into the system”How connection changes everything in your relationship🧠 Powerful Concepts from This Episode:“Behavior is not the problem—it’s the signal.”“Belonging is a condition we create, not something kids earn.”“Curiosity over correction.”“Your child is showing you how to connect with them.”“Masking is often filtering—what they let in and what they keep out.” 👤 About Jillian NycumJillian Nycum is a coach, facilitator, and learning designer who supports parents, educators, and leaders in navigating complexity through nervous system alignment, relationships, and systems thinking.With over 20 years of experience and lived insight as a parent of a neurodivergent child, her work blends neuroscience, trauma-informed practice, and real-world application to help people create environments where belonging fuels growth.🎧 Loved This Episode?Share it with a parent or educator who needs this perspective. Follow the podcast so you don’t miss future conversations that challenge how we parent and lead.And if your teen is struggling in school or you’re navigating diagnosis, IEPs, or advocacy—you don’t have to do this alone.#neurodivergentteens #parentingteens #adhdparenting #autismparenting #behavioriscommunication #consciousparenting #momsofteens #parentingadvice #neurodiversity #emotionalregulation #traumainformedparenting #specialeducation #iepsupport #parentingtips #mentalhealthawareness #raisingteens #connectionovercorrection #parentinghelp #nervoussystemregulation #educationreformIf you want to really leverage this episode for growth, the next move is:What if your teen’s behavior isn’t something to fix… but something to understand?In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, Cheryl sits down with Gillian Nycum to challenge everything we’ve been taught about behavior, belonging, and parenting neurodivergent teens.This episode goes beyond labels and accommodations—and into something much deeper:👉 What if shutdowns, resistance, and emotional explosions aren’t defiance… but signals? 👉 What if your teen isn’t “acting out”… but trying to connect?Gillian shares a transformative perspective rooted in neuroscience, systems thinking, and lived experience raising a neurodivergent child. Together, they unpack how traditional systems—especially schools—often prioritize compliance over connection, and why that’s costing our kids more than we realize.This conversation will shift how you see your teen, their behavior, and your role as a parent.🔑 In This Episode, You’ll Learn:Why behavior is communication—not manipulationThe truth about masking (and why it’s more like filtering)How neurodivergent teens experience the world differentlyWhy belonging is not a “soft skill”—it’s a strategyWhat parents and teachers are missing when they focus on complianceHow to move from correction → curiosity in real timeThe hidden cost of “fitting into the system”How connection changes everything in your relationship🧠 Powerful Concepts from This Episode:“Behavior is not the problem—it’s the signal.”“Belonging is a condition we create, not something kids earn.”“Curiosity over correction.”“Your child is showing you how to connect with them.”“Masking is often filtering—what they let in and what they keep out.” 👤 About Gillian NycumGillian Nycum is a coach, facilitator, and learning designer who supports parents, educators, and leaders in navigating complexity through nervous system alignment, relationships, and systems thinking.With over 20 years of experience and lived insight as a parent of a neurodivergent child, her work blends neuroscience, trauma-informed practice, and real-world application to help people create environments where belonging fuels growth.🎧 Loved This Episode?Share it with a parent or educator who needs this perspective. Follow the podcast so you don’t miss future conversations that challenge how we parent and lead.And if your teen is struggling in school or you’re navigating diagnosis, IEPs, or advocacy—you don’t have to do this alone.🔥 SEO HASHTAGS#neurodivergentteens #parentingteens #adhdparenting #autismparenting #behavioriscommunication

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    ~157~“High School Is Coming… And Parents of IEP Kids Are Worried”

    Here is your Gift!!!Guidehttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/iep-high-school-transition-parent-quick-guideIf your child has an IEP, the transition from Grade 8 to Grade 9 can feel overwhelming.You’re not just thinking about academics—you’re wondering:👉 Will my child get lost in a much bigger school? 👉 Will teachers really understand their learning needs? 👉 What happens to their IEP—does it actually follow them? 👉 Will they feel socially safe and included? 👉 And when they’re struggling… who will they go to?These are real, valid concerns—and you’re not alone in them.The high school transition is one of the most critical moments for students with learning differences, ADHD, autism, or anxiety. And the truth is, the support doesn’t automatically “just happen.”But with the right preparation, advocacy, and awareness, this transition can feel a lot more supported—for both you and your child.This is the conversation every parent of an IEP student needs to be having before Grade 9 begins.#IEP #ParentingTeens #SpecialEducation #NeurodivergentTeens #ADHDKids #AutismSupport #HighSchoolTransition #Grade9 #ParentAdvocacy #SpecialEdSupport #IEPTransition Connect with Cheryl!YOUR GIFT- GUIDE FOR GRADE 8 TO GRADE 9 IEP TRANSITIONShttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/iep-high-school-transition-parent-quick-guideLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : [email protected] Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastJoin our Podcast Private Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/httpswww.facebook.comgroups1258426648646523What’s it like to work with me!MINI-COURSE

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    ~156~"Teens, Screens, AI and Social Media: What Every Parent Needs to Know with Dr. Sajita Setia"

    #ParentingTeens #TeenMentalHealth #DigitalWellbeing #DrSajitaSetia #ScreenTimeForTeens #SocialMediaAndTeensIn this powerful episode of Parenting Teens Advice Redefined, Cheryl sits down with Dr. Sajita Setia, physician, digital well-being researcher, and evidence-based educator, for a much-needed conversation about raising teenagers in a world shaped by screens, algorithms, social media, and AI.Parents today are navigating a reality none of us grew up in. Teens are building friendships online, forming identity through digital spaces, and living in a world where their nervous systems rarely get a break. So how do parents protect their teens without pushing them away? How do we guide without controlling? And how do we create homes that feel calm, connected, and grounded in a world that never seems to turn off?Dr. Sajita breaks down what digital well-being actually means in real life, not just in theory. She shares practical, evidence-based strategies to help families reduce harm, improve sleep, protect mental health, strengthen connection, and create healthier relationships with technology.Cheryl and Dr. Sajita explore the emotional pull of screens, the dopamine-driven design of social media and online gaming, the risks of emotional dependency on AI, and the importance of teaching teens digital boundaries before problems escalate. They also talk about why connection is the most powerful protection parents can offer.This episode is full of honest insight, compassionate truth, and practical tools every parent needs right now.In this episode, we cover:What digital well-being means for teens and familiesHow screens and algorithms affect teen mental health and nervous systemsWhy the old advice about screen time hours is outdatedHow to set phone and device boundaries without hoveringWhy no phones in the bedroom is one of the most important family rulesThe connection between dopamine, social media, online gaming, and compulsive screen useHow to help teens build healthier offline sources of reward and belongingWhy delaying smartphones and social media can matterThe dangers of sharenting and posting children onlineHow AI is shaping teen life in both helpful and harmful waysWhy emotional reliance on AI can interfere with healthy developmentThe importance of digital detox, digital sunsets, and better sleep habitsHow online predators and manipulative digital spaces can target vulnerable childrenWhy parent-child connection remains the strongest form of protectionKey takeaway:The answer is not fear, shame, or total control. The answer is connection, curiosity, boundaries, and intentional parenting in a digital world.Connect with Dr. Sajita Setia:Website: https://sajitasetia.com/ https://www.instagram.com/drsajitasetia/Be sure to check the show notes and episode description for Dr. Sajita’s website and social platforms, where she shares education and tools for parents raising teens in today’s digital world.Work with Cheryl:Cheryl Pankhurst is an educational strategist, family advocate, speaker, published author, and founder of Insight to Impact. She helps families navigate school challenges, diagnoses, IEPs, transitions, and teen advocacy with clarity and confidence. Visit CherylPankhurst.com to learn more about consulting and her 90-day advocacy program.Connect with Cheryl!Let’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : [email protected] Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastJoin our Podcast Private Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/httpswww.facebook.comgroups1258426648646523What’s it like to work with me!MINI-COURSE

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    ~155~WTF "Autism, Belonging & Parenting Teens | Daring to Belong : The Book You Need!"

    Link to pre-order! https://a.co/d/00e1yv3b #AutismAcceptance #AutismAwareness #AutismAdvocacy #AutismCommunity#ParentingAutisticTeens #ParentingTeensParenting Teens Advice RedefinedWTF Series: Daring to Belong – Stories of Autism, Courage, and ConnectionIn this raw and unfiltered WTF episode, I’m celebrating something deeply meaningful — becoming a published contributing author in the powerful new anthology Daring to Belong: Stories of Autism, Courage, and Connection.This book brings together 11 voices — parents, educators, advocates, and professionals — sharing deeply personal stories about autism, belonging, resilience, and the courage it takes to walk a path that doesn’t always look like what the world expects.With Autism Acceptance Month approaching and Autism Acceptance Day on April 2, this episode launches a special autism series on Parenting Teens Advice Redefined focused on supporting families raising teens on the autism spectrum.Each upcoming episode will feature conversations with educators, parents, autistic adults, advocates, and professionals sharing their lived experiences and expertise about raising autistic teens, navigating neurodiversity, building belonging, and supporting autistic children into adulthood.And the best part?All presale proceeds from the book go toward autism initiatives supporting individuals and families who need advocacy, resources, and community.Meet the Authors of Daring to BelongThis anthology includes powerful stories from voices across the autism community:Susan Tatem – Founder of Bright Path for Autism, autism advocate, coach, and speaker helping families navigate the transition from adolescence to adulthood.Julia Lavia – Visibility strategist and community builder empowering women entrepreneurs to step into their voice and embrace belonging.Kathleen Souter – Mother of six and longtime special needs advocate whose story reflects persistence, unconditional love, and resilience.Lisa Jacovsky – Psychology professor, behavior specialist, and award-winning children’s author dedicated to supporting individuals on the autism spectrum.Anne-Marie Springer – Retired Navy nurse, entrepreneur, author, and autism advocate whose motherhood journey reshaped her life’s mission.Cheryl Pankhurst – Educator, autism advocate, and host of Parenting Teens Advice Redefined. Her chapter, They Would If They Could, explores shifting the mindset between parents and educators from judgment to understanding.Tasha (Contributor) – Shares a deeply personal story of motherhood, grief, growth, and resilience.Candice Fields – Tells the extraordinary story of navigating both cancer and autism in her family while leaning into community and courage.Sherry Dixon – Educational leadership expert and former principal challenging systems that fail neurodivergent students.Jean Ramsey – UK educator helping families and grandparents navigate neurodiversity with understanding and compassion.Trina Reid – A powerful story about family life when autism reshapes expectations and reveals new strength.Why This Book Matters for Parents of Autistic TeensIf you are raising a teen on the autism spectrum, you already know that autism is not a single experience.As the saying goes:“If you’ve met one person with autism, you’ve met one person with autism.”Autism is a spectrum, and each child’s path, strengths, challenges, and gifts are unique.This book reminds us that belonging doesn’t happen by accident. It is something we create together — as parents, educators, families, and communities.Supporting autistic teens requires collaboration between parents, teachers, psychologists, advocates, and extended families so that every child feels seen, supported, and valued.Support the Book & Autism AdvocacyWhen you order Daring to Belong, you are doing more than reading inspiring stories.You are helping fund autism initiatives that provide advocacy, support, and resources for families navigating autism.Consider purchasing copies for:• Parents raising autistic children• Teachers and educators• Grandparents and extended family• Professionals working with neurodivergent students• Anyone wanting to better understand autismSubscribe for the Autism SeriesOver the coming weeks on Parenting Teens Advice Redefined, you’ll hear powerful conversations about:• Parenting teens on the autism spectrum• Neurodivergent students and school support• Autism acceptance and advocacy• Transitioning autistic teens into adulthood• Supporting mental health for autistic youth• Family dynamics and autismSubscribe so you don’t miss these conversations.Connect With CherylWebsitewww.CherylPankhurst.comEmailsupport@cherylpankhurst.comBook a complimentary consultation call to explore how Cheryl can support your family navigating autism, neurodivergence, and school advocacy.Parenting Autistic Teens: Stories of Courage, Connection & Belonging | WTF Series

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    ~154~"AI Parenting Tips for Parents of Teens: Overcome Guilt and Build Trust" with Mike Whitaker #AI

    #ParentingTeens #TeenAI #AIParenting #FamilyThroughLinesIn this raw, honest conversation, host Cheryl Pankhurst sits down with Michael “Whit” Whitaker, author of Family Through Lines, to uncover:Why teens are secretly anxious about AI – homework help, friendship advice, and emotional support that feels like cheating.The three must‑have AI conversations every parent should have with their teen right now.Practical “waypoints” & the PAUSE protocol to help kids own their AI use, keep hard work, outsource with intent, and preserve human‑only spaces.How to replace guilt with clarity by building family “through‑lines” (core values that act like a compass).Key takeaway: You don’t need to be an AI expert—just start with curiosity, ask simple questions, and give your teen a safe, value‑driven framework to navigate AI. BioMike Whitaker ("Whit") is a father of two teenagers, author of Family Throughlines: Discover Your Timeless Compass for Parenting in an Uncharted World, and writer of the Substack newsletter Navigating AI Transitions with Whit. By day, he's a Senior Vice President at ICF, a global professional services firm, where he leads strategy and innovation initiatives. By night, he's a parent in the trenches trying to figure out how to guide his kids through a world being reshaped by AI. His work bridges professional strategy frameworks with the real conversations families need to have — about AI, social media, school safety, and growing up in a disrupted world. He lives in Boulder, Colorado with his wife Jen and their two kids.Important Links / How to find you *Book: https://www.familythroughlines.com (includes free Navigator's Guide download) Newsletter: https://mikewhitaker1.substack.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michaelwhitakericf/Connect with Cheryl!Let’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : [email protected] Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastJoin our Podcast Private Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/httpswww.facebook.comgroups1258426648646523What’s it like to work with me!MINI-COURSE

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    ~153~“Your Neurodivergent Kid Is Starting High School & Scared!… Now What?”

    #ParentingTeens #NeurodivergentKids #IEPStudents #AutismParenting #ADHDParenting #HighSchoolTransitionThe transition from Grade 8 to Grade 9 is exciting for many families.But for parents of children with IEPs, learning differences, autism, ADHD, or anxiety, it can feel like stepping into the unknown.While other families are celebrating independence and new opportunities, many parents are quietly asking:“What if my child isn’t ready?” “What if they get lost?” “What if they shut down or refuse to go to school?”In this WTF Friday episode, Cheryl speaks directly to the parents who are lying awake at night worrying about the transition to high school.Drawing from decades of experience in education and special education, she shares practical strategies that dramatically reduce anxiety for both parents and kids before school even begins.You’ll learn how to proactively work with schools to create safety, familiarity, and support before day one.In this episode, Cheryl explains:• Why the transition to high school can trigger anxiety for neurodivergent kids • How to ensure your child has a “safe person” inside the school • Why multiple school visits and walkthroughs can change everything • How Educational Assistants can help students stay organized and supported • How weekly check-ins can build confidence and self-advocacy • Why preparing in the spring and summer makes the fall transition smoother • How parents can advocate for supports before problems startCheryl also shares one of the most powerful tools she implemented in schools — a “safe person system” that helps students feel supported from the moment they walk through the doors.If your child has an IEP, diagnosis, learning difference, or anxiety about high school, this episode will help you replace uncertainty with a clear plan.Because when kids feel safe, they can thrive.Connect with Cheryl!Let’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : [email protected] Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastJoin our Podcast Private Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/httpswww.facebook.comgroups1258426648646523What’s it like to work with me!MINI-COURSE

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    ~151~WTF "Stop Manipulating – Start Trusting"

    #ParentingTeens #InnerWorkForParents #TheStormIsTheGift #MindsetShiftAfter a year‑long “unintentional hiatus,” I’m back on the WTF mic—raw, un‑edited, and straight from the heart. In this “Friday‑feel‑good” episode I dive deep into the storms we all get caught in, the temptation to manipulate our way out, and the powerful shift that happens when we let go and trust the redirection.I share a personal story about hunting for a home in Toronto—six condo rejections, endless paperwork, and finally a perfect‑vibe house that showed up when I stopped trying to prove myself. The lesson? Stepping out of your comfort zone is essential, but fighting the blocks that appear is what keeps you stuck.If you’re a parent of a teenager navigating the chaotic middle‑ground of adolescence—balancing expectations, “perfect” images on social media, and the inevitable storms—this episode is for you. Listen for practical mindset tools you can model for your teen and strategies to turn setbacks into growth‑fuel.Own Your Storm – Model accountability; let your teen see you taking responsibility for your own setbacks.Redefine Failure – Position “no” as a redirection, not a dead‑end.Authenticity Over Perfection – Share the messy middle; teens need realistic role models.Focus on Vibe & Relationships – Teach teens to look for people and environments that feel right, not just “look” right.Let Go of Over‑Proofing – Stop over‑documenting achievements for external validation; let intrinsic motivation guide them.📣 Call‑to‑ActionSubscribe to the WTF podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite platform—never miss a raw, un‑filtered episode.Share this episode with any parent (or teen) who feels stuck in a storm. Tag them and add the hashtags below!Connect with Cheryl!Let’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : [email protected] Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastJoin our Podcast Private Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/httpswww.facebook.comgroups1258426648646523What’s it like to work with me!MINI-COURSE

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    ~150~"Creating a Safe Home for LGBTQ+ Teens: Shame, Language, and Healing" with Stef Vachon

    What do you say when your teen comes out as LGBTQ+?In this powerful conversation, Cheryl Pankhurst—special education specialist, teen advocate, and creator of Parenting Teens Advice Redefined Podcast—sits down with Stef Vachon, host of Together Moving Forward, to talk about what LGBTQ+ teens really need from parents.We talk about the words that create safety, how shame shows up in teenagers, signs your teen may be struggling with identity, and how parents can respond with calm, clarity, and connection—even if you don’t get it perfect.Stef shares his story of growing up in an unsafe environment, surviving bullying and homophobia, and learning how healing, therapy, and community helped him reclaim his life. Together we unpack what parents and educators can do right now to create a home where teens feel safe, seen, and valued.Because your teen isn’t asking for perfect language. They’re asking to feel chosen.This episode is for parents who are searching things like:• “How do I support my LGBTQ teen?” • “What do I say when my child comes out?” • “Signs my teen is questioning their identity” • “How to create a safe home for LGBTQ kids” • “How to help my teen with shame or anxiety”If you’re worried about saying the wrong thing… this conversation will guide you toward connection instead of fear.And remember what we always say here: It’s not about fixing your teen. It’s about doing the inner work so you can be the safe place they come home to.If you need help navigating school meetings, advocating for your teen, or rebuilding connection in your family, you can learn more about Cheryl’s consulting work at CherylPankhurst.com.Connect with Cheryl!The Good Divorce Show Episode https://open.spotify.com/episode/2hIILoayZV2oQu5zEzJdcP?si=wl8O0S9YSCCwkUSJQAYcrQLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : [email protected] Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastJoin our Podcast Private Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/httpswww.facebook.comgroups1258426648646523What’s it like to work with me!MINI-COURSE

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    ~149~"From Flames to Calm: Parent Strategies for Crisis" with Katie May

    #selfharm, #suicidalbehavior, #highriskbehaviors, #teenemotionalfireTeenagers who feel like they’re “on fire” with overwhelming emotions often turn to self‑harm, substance use, or compulsive scrolling as a quick way to douse the flames. In this powerful conversation, Katie K May shares the science behind fire‑feelers, the pitfalls of well‑meaning but invalidating parental reactions, and concrete steps you can take today to validate your teen without reinforcing destructive behavior.If you’re a parent who:Has noticed marks, cutting, or risky behavior in your teenFeels stuck in “crisis mode” and reacts with panic or angerIs unsure how to talk about self‑harm without “condoning” itWants practical tools for self‑regulation, validation, and rebuilding trust…this episode is your roadmap.Connect with Kaite:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/creativehealingphillyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/creative_healingInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/katiekmayLinked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/katiekmayTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@teensupportcenterWebinar: 7 Truths for Stopping TeenSelf-Destructive Behaviorshttps://www.youreonfireitsfine.com/7truthsFree Chapter Download: You’re On Fire, It’s Finehttps://www.youreonfireitsfine.com/chapterConnect with Cheryl!Let’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : [email protected] Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastJoin our Podcast Private Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/httpswww.facebook.comgroups1258426648646523What’s it like to work with me!MINI-COURSE

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    ~148~"Fostering Independence While Honouring Autism" with Sam Mitchell and Mom

    #AutismParenting #TeenSupport #Neurodiversity #ParentingTeensIn this raw, honest conversation, Cheryl sits down with Sam Mitchell, and his Mom, to break down the biggest myths parents of autistic teens hold, share practical ways to nurture independence, and explore how to communicate without sounding controlling. Sam talks about his own journey—from a four‑year‑old diagnosis to building a thriving podcast—offering a roadmap for families navigating high school, social media, meltdowns, and the road to college or work.Whether you’re wondering how to support rather than “fix,” how to advocate for your teen in school, or simply need a fresh perspective on neurodiversity, this episode is packed with actionable insights you can start using today.👉 Ready to transform your parent‑teen relationship? Subscribe, download, and take the next step with Insight to Impact Coaching (link in show notes).

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    ~147~"Parenting Teens Autism: Real‑World Strategies That Actually Work" Dr Sam Shay DC, IFMCP

    #NeurodiverseParenting #ASDTeen #ParentingTeens #FunctionalMedicine https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=auxjQWEGFCQ&list=PLbFucTSBmVzhaqaVIyIhDwRKYeiA2ZlEs&index=12www.DrSamShay.com In this raw, real‑talk episode we sit down with Dr. Sam Shay, DC, IFMCP—functional‑medicine clinician, neurodiversity advocate, and stand‑up comic behind the YouTube‑free comedy special “Neuro Spicy: Love, Life & Comedy on the Spectrum.”Dr. Sam shares the hard‑won lessons from growing up with undiagnosed autism, navigating parents who spoke a different neurological language, and how humor became his “edutainment” tool. We dive deep into:What life really looks like for a high‑schooler on the autism spectrum (sound‑sensitivity, literalism, “kryptonite” moments).Why modeling healthy habits—sleep, diet, stress‑management, and even genetics‑based blueprints—is the fastest way to help your teen thrive.The single most powerful emotional cue for neuro‑diverse kids: Caring (and how it differs from “kindness”).Practical, low‑budget actions parents can start today to rebuild trust, stop the “hypocrite” trap, and create a family “shared reality.”A surprising recommendation: Brazilian Jiu‑Jitsu as a sensory‑regulating, confidence‑building activity for teens.If you’re a parent of a teen (neuro‑typical or neuro‑diverse) who feels overwhelmed, confused, or stuck, this episode gives you a roadmap to move from surviving to thriving—both for your child and for yourself.Connect with Cheryl!The Good Divorce Show Episode https://open.spotify.com/episode/2hIILoayZV2oQu5zEzJdcP?si=wl8O0S9YSCCwkUSJQAYcrQLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : [email protected] Website cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/ https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastJoin our Podcast Private Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/httpswww.facebook.comgroups1258426648646523What’s it like to work with me!MINI-COURSE

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    ~147~"Parenting an Autistic High‑Schooler: Real‑World Strategies That Actually Work" Dr Sam Shay DC, IFMCP

    #NeurodiverseParenting #ASDTeen #ParentingTeens #FunctionalMedicine https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=auxjQWEGFCQ&list=PLbFucTSBmVzhaqaVIyIhDwRKYeiA2ZlEs&index=12www.DrSamShay.com In this raw, real‑talk episode we sit down with Dr. Sam Shay, DC, IFMCP—functional‑medicine clinician, neurodiversity advocate, and stand‑up comic behind the YouTube‑free comedy special “Neuro Spicy: Love, Life & Comedy on the Spectrum.”Dr. Sam shares the hard‑won lessons from growing up with undiagnosed autism, navigating parents who spoke a different neurological language, and how humor became his “edutainment” tool. We dive deep into:What life really looks like for a high‑schooler on the autism spectrum (sound‑sensitivity, literalism, “kryptonite” moments).Why modeling healthy habits—sleep, diet, stress‑management, and even genetics‑based blueprints—is the fastest way to help your teen thrive.The single most powerful emotional cue for neuro‑diverse kids: Caring (and how it differs from “kindness”).Practical, low‑budget actions parents can start today to rebuild trust, stop the “hypocrite” trap, and create a family “shared reality.”A surprising recommendation: Brazilian Jiu‑Jitsu as a sensory‑regulating, confidence‑building activity for teens.If you’re a parent of a teen (neuro‑typical or neuro‑diverse) who feels overwhelmed, confused, or stuck, this episode gives you a roadmap to move from surviving to thriving—both for your child and for yourself.Connect with Cheryl!The Good Divorce Show Episode https://open.spotify.com/episode/2hIILoayZV2oQu5zEzJdcP?si=wl8O0S9YSCCwkUSJQAYcrQLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : [email protected] Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastJoin our Podcast Private Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/httpswww.facebook.comgroups1258426648646523What’s it like to work with me!MINI-COURSE

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    ~146~Neurodivergent Teen High‑School Transition Guide: Grade 8‑to‑9 IEP Success

    #NeurodivergentTeens#HighSchoolTransition#Grade8To9#IEPSupport#ParentingTeensAre you a parent of a neuro‑divergent teen gearing up for the big leap from Grade 8 to high school? In this power‑packed episode of Parenting Teens: Advice Redefined, host Cheryl Pankhurst walks you through every step of the legally required Grade 8 transition meeting and shows you how to turn it into a confidence‑building, advocacy‑boosting experience for your child.You’ll learn how to:Decode and own the Individual Education Plan (IEP) together with your teen.Choose, test, and fine‑tune accommodations that actually work.Make the transition meeting a collaborative, stigma‑free conversation.Build a proactive communication system with high‑school teachers before the school year starts.Schedule multiple school tours, map out the daily timetable, and identify safe‑spaces and go‑to people.Explore extracurriculars early so your teen can find belonging from day 1.Handle bumps along the way with problem‑solving mind‑sets that keep the whole team in sync.Whether you’re feeling nervous, overwhelmed, or just looking for a clear roadmap, this episode gives you the tools, scripts, and confidence to set your teen up for a successful high‑school journey.👉 Ready for personalized support? Book a no‑pressure, no‑pitch free call with Cheryl (details in the show notes) and discover how Insight to Impact can help you transform stress into empowerment in just 90 days.Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with other parents who need a roadmap to high‑school success!Connect with Cheryl!The Good Divorce Show Episode https://open.spotify.com/episode/2hIILoayZV2oQu5zEzJdcP?si=wl8O0S9YSCCwkUSJQAYcrQLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : [email protected] Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastJoin our Podcast Private Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/httpswww.facebook.comgroups1258426648646523What’s it like to work with me!MINI-COURSE

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    ~145~"Confident Parents Raise Confident Teens" with Chantal Dempsey

    So many parents are quietly asking themselves the same question: “Am I doing this right?”In this powerful episode, I’m joined by Chantal Dempsey to talk about something that rarely gets addressed directly — confidence in you as a parent, and how deeply that confidence shapes your teen.Because here’s the truth: You cannot build confidence in your teen if you don’t trust yourself first.We explore why teen confidence isn’t built through praise, pressure, or “fixing,” but through felt safety, consistency, and a parent who is grounded in their own values. Chantal shares practical insight into how parental self-doubt, people-pleasing, and fear of getting it wrong can unintentionally erode connection — and what to do instead.In this conversation, we discuss:Why so many capable parents feel unsure and second-guess themselvesThe link between parent confidence and teen self-trustHow teens actually develop confidence (and what doesn’t work)What to do when your teen appears insecure, withdrawn, or overly dependent on external validationHow to model confidence without perfection or controlThis episode is especially important if you’re parenting a teen who is struggling with identity, anxiety, or self-esteem — or if you feel like you’ve lost your footing along the way.Teen confidence starts at home. And it starts with you believing in yourself again.🎧 Listen in for a grounded, compassionate conversation that will help you come back to yourself — and show up as the parent your teen truly needs.Chantal Dempsey is an Award-Winning Mindset and Confidence Coach, NLP Expert and Master Hypnotherapist, known for her transformative impact in the field of confidence and personal development. She is passionately dedicated to empowering both men and women to overcome their challenges and unlock their highest levels of confidence.Important Links / How to find Chantalhttps://www.skool.com/getconfident/aboutConnect with Cheryl!The Good Divorce Show Episode https://open.spotify.com/episode/2hIILoayZV2oQu5zEzJdcP?si=wl8O0S9YSCCwkUSJQAYcrQLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : [email protected] Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastJoin our Podcast Private Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/httpswww.facebook.comgroups1258426648646523What’s it like to work with me!MINI-COURSE

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    ~144~Parents/Teens "New Semester: New Start"

    #HighSchoolSemester #ParentTeacherConferences #StudentVoice #IEPAccommodations #SpecialEducation #Advocacy The new semester is just around the corner, and it’s the perfect moment to reset, refocus, and give your teen a genuine voice in their education. In this episode Cheryl breaks down:Why “it’s not them, it’s you” matters and how shifting the focus to your own triggers unlocks real change.How to turn the inevitable parent‑teacher meetings from a “he‑said/she‑said” nightmare into a collaborative, “speed‑dating” experience where your teen is 10 % of the conversation.Practical steps to co‑create a partnership with teachers, set up weekly check‑ins, and keep the IEP (or any accommodation plan) front‑and‑center from day 1.The delicate balance between guidance and helicopter parenting—and how to hand the reins back without sacrificing support.Real‑world tools for parents who feel stuck: when a new diagnosis lands on the table, how to find an advocate, decode assessment reports, and move from overwhelm to action.Whether you’re a single parent juggling work, a busy family, or simply looking for a fresh strategy to empower your teen, this episode gives you a step‑by‑step roadmap to start Semester 2 on the right foot—together.Connect with Cheryl!The Good Divorce Show Episode https://open.spotify.com/episode/2hIILoayZV2oQu5zEzJdcP?si=wl8O0S9YSCCwkUSJQAYcrQLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : [email protected] Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastJoin our Podcast Private Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/httpswww.facebook.comgroups1258426648646523What’s it like to work with me!MINI-COURSE

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    ~143~“Access Over Grit: Redesigning Learning for Neuro‑Diverse Teens” with Richard Comeau

    #NeurodiversityEducation #ADHDLearning #StudentEngagement 1. Introduction & Podcast PurposeParenting Teens Advice Redefined – raw, real‑talk formatGoal: help parents raise “amazing human beings,” not just “kids”Guest introduction: Richard Comeau, founder of Above the Maze2. The Problem with the “Mindset / Grit” NarrativeOver‑emphasis on willpower, grit, and routine fixesHow this approach damages motivation and emotional energyKids internalise “I’m lazy / I can’t learn” instead of seeing systemic issues3. Understanding Diagnoses & AssessmentsLabels vs. lived experience (psychology jargon, psycho‑educational reports)What assessments actually reveal: visual discrimination, information overload, executive‑function gapsImportance of starting with observable behaviours (shutting down, cluttered pages)4. Core Learning Barriers in Traditional EducationVisual clutter & information density – “too much on the page”Lack of guided eye‑movement and clear focal points“Pace dump” lecture slides that leave no meaning‑making traceabilityThe inference burden placed on students to decode professor’s mental model5. Why Common Accommodations Often Miss the Mark17,000‑plus accommodations list – surface fixes, not state changesAccommodations don’t create a feeling of “I can do this”They force students to re‑organise incoherent info without providing context6. Sequential Disengagement & the “Threat vs. Play” SpaceDefinition of Sequential Disengagement – repeated barriers leading to avoidanceThe Threat Space: confusion → shame → “I can’t learn”The Play Space (Magic Circle): safe to fail, immediate feedback, intrinsic motivation7. The Need for Meaningful Context & Sense‑MakingBrain needs active sense‑making in a short time windowProviding real‑world context creates “shelves” for new info in memoryPartial understanding + rapid feedback = stronger retention8. Redesigning a Sample Lecture (Accounting Example)Original slide: dry objectives (“Explain how to account for current liabilities”)Problems: no relevance, heavy jargon, no connective narrativeRevised approach:Break down to the two pillars – debt vs. equityUse a single guiding question for every transaction– Turn abstract concepts into a story/real‑world scenario (hardware store purchase)Outcome: clarity, immediate relevance, actionable mental model9. Teaching Strategies & the “Three Core Questions”What do I need to know / be able to do?How do I know that I know it? (self‑check, evidence of mastery)What is the best way for this information to enter my brain? (mode of delivery)Aligns learning tasks with assessment of understanding, not rote recall10. Leveraging AI as an “Externalizer”AI externalises context that learners can’t generate themselvesGenerates simulations, podcasts, primers tailored to the student’s struggleTurns inaccessible material into play‑space affordances (feedback loops, instant results)11. Game‑Based / Serious‑Game LearningVideo‑game principles: immediate, intrinsic feedback; safe to failSimulated environments (e.g., “accounting office at Riverton Metalworks”)Engages the ADHD/ neurodivergent brain by activating interest & motivation12. The “Engagement Triangle” – Sustaining MotivationWay‑in: a meaningful entry point (clear “why”)Reason‑to‑stay: ongoing relevance, feedback, sense of progressWay‑back‑on‑track: tools/strategies to recover when engagement slips13. Richard's Coaching ProcessFour phases (2–3 sessions each) – rapid, dependency‑freePhase 1: intake, diagnosis of barriers, selection of a single coursePhase 2: building a learning workflow/engine for that coursePhase 3: testing, tweaking, handing over control to the studentPhase 4: scaling the system across other subjects14. Resources & Call‑to‑ActionWebsite: abovethemaze.ca – book an appointment, learn moreShow notes will contain links, contact info, and supplemental material15. Closing Remarks (Host – Cheryl)Introduction to Insight to Impact Coaching & ConsultingEmphasis on parent transformation as the foundation for teen successInvitation to a no‑pressure discovery call (90‑day life‑change promise)Richard Comeau is an educational systems designer and learning strategist who works with teens and university students who are capable but chronically overwhelmed, disengaged, or shut down by school. His work focuses on rebuilding a student’s trust in their own thinking by removing cognitive overload, clarifying what they are actually supposed to be doing, and creating learning environments where understanding becomes possible again. Rather than tutoring content, Richard designs personalized learning systems that help students move from confusion and avoidance to confidence, agency, and sustained engagement.Website: https://abovethemaze.ca Email: [email protected] https://www.linkedin.com/in/richard-comeau-above-the-maze-809898388/Connect with Cheryl!The Good Divorce Show Episode https://open.spotify.com/episode/2hIILoayZV2oQu5zEzJdcP?si=wl8O0S9YSCCwkUSJQAYcrQLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatSleep supportDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : [email protected] Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberhttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/teen-minds-redefined-podcastJoin our Podcast Private Facebook Group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/httpswww.facebook.comgroups1258426648646523What’s it like to work with me!MINI-COURSE

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    ~142~Teen “Tantrums” as Survival Strategies"

    #ParentSupport #AutismAwarenessDo you ever label your teen’s outburst as “attention‑seeking,” “manipulative,” or “just drama”? In this hard‑hitting, no‑fluff episode, Cheryl Pankhurst shatters those myths once and for all. Drawing on decades of front‑line special‑ed experience and a powerful, real‑life story from a teen she coached from grade 9 through senior year, Cheryl proves that behaviour is communication—not a choice.🔹 Why teens—especially neuro‑divergent teens—can’t “just calm down.”🔹 The life‑changing distinction between “can’t regulate” vs. “won’t regulate.”🔹 A 1‑5 safety rating system that gives teens a voice before a crisis hits.🔹 Practical steps to replace judgment with empathy at home, school, and in public.If you’re a parent, grandparent, teacher, or any adult who watches a teen fight to be understood, this episode will flip your perspective and arm you with concrete tools to respond with compassion instead of condemnation.“It feels like a wall of flames right in front of my face.” – The moment that re‑defined Cheryl’s entire approach to teen behaviour.

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    ~141~ REPEAT PERFORMANCE~" Co-Parents your Teens Like Rockstars"

     #ParentingTeens #CoParenting #DivorceSupport #TeenParenting #FamilyDynamics #ParentingAdvice #Teenagers #ParentingTips #CherylPankurst #InsightToImpact In this solo episode of "Parenting Teens Advice Redefined," host Cheryl Pankurst delves into a deeply personal and crucial topic: navigating divorce and co-parenting in today's complex world. Drawing from her own experiences and her work with families, Cheryl shares invaluable insights and practical tips to help parents manage the emotional and logistical challenges of divorce while prioritizing their children's well-being. From understanding the stages of grief to maintaining consistent rules across households, Cheryl offers guidance to create a supportive and harmonious environment for your teens. Whether you're in the midst of a divorce or looking to strengthen your co-parenting relationship, this episode is packed with actionable advice to help you and your family thrive.

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    ~140~Navigating Co‑Parenting: Practical Tips for Stress‑Free Christmas Celebrations

    #CoParenting #HolidayStress #DivorcedFamilies #BlendedFamilyChristmas The holidays should be a time of joy, but for families navigating a split or divorce, Christmas (and New Year’s) can feel like a juggling act of logistics, emotions, and “double‑gift” pressure. In this solo‑run “Friday Riff,” Cheryl dives deep into the teenage mindset during co‑parented holidays, shares real‑world conversation starters, and gives you a roadmap for creating smoother, stress‑free celebrations—all without making your kids feel like they have to be your therapist. “Put on their lens.” Cheryl reminds us that a teenager’s view of “two Christmases” isn’t automatically a blessing—it can be confusing, lonely, or even painful. She shows how to turn empathy into actionable, kid‑centered planning that honors both parents while keeping the teen’s emotional safety front‑and‑center. 🔑 Who should listen? Parents of teens (10‑25 y/o) who are navigating co‑parenting during the holidays—or any special family occasion—and want practical, compassionate strategies that actually resonate with their children.

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    ~139~“Stop Sextortion Before It Happens – The Ultimate Teen‑Safety Solution” Derek & Jeff Cyberdive

    #DigitalParenting, #AquaOnePhone, #ParentalControl, #SextortionPrevention, #TransparencyTech, #RealTimeMonitoring, #TeenSafety, #CyberDive, #OnlinePrivacyMyth, #InclusiveTech In this power‑packed episode, host Cheryl sits down with Jeff and Derek, the co‑founders of Cyber Dive, to reveal a groundbreaking solution that flips the script on teen‑phone parenting. Instead of the old “ban‑or‑monitor” approach, their AquaOne smartphone gives families real‑time transparency while preserving trust—no surveillance, shame, or secret‑keeping. We unpack: The historic “fear cycle” that has followed every new teen obsession—from penny dreadfuls to TikTok. How AquaOne’s “Instant Replay” and sextortion‑blocking AI stop the most dangerous threats before they happen. Real‑world stories of parents catching risky chats on Roblox, having productive conversations, and even discovering hidden passions (ballet, football, Egypt‑obsession). Why privacy is an illusion and how embracing transparency actually strengthens family bonds. Practical tips for when and how to give your teen a phone—from age‑3 experiments to the teen years—plus guidance for neuro‑divergent families. If you’re a parent of a teenager who’s tired of “secret‑keeping,” “over‑monitoring,” and the endless “what‑if” nightmare, this episode gives you a clear, actionable path forward—plus a 30‑day risk‑free trial of the AquaOne phone. Listen now and discover how you can replace fear with confidence, secrecy with open dialogue, and “what‑ifs” with real solutions. Core Features & How They Solve Specific Problems Feature What It Does Problem(s) Addressed 24/7 Screen Visibility Parents see every app, message, video, even encrypted content in real‑time Eliminates secrecy; gives parents “always‑on” insight Instant Replay Full history of every screen interaction stored for later review Allows evidence‑backed conversations; prevents “he‑says‑she‑says” Real‑Time Sextortion Prevention AI monitors front/back camera attempts to capture nudity; blocks photo, locks phone, alerts parent Stops sextortion before it happens; protects children from ransomware‑style blackmail AI‑Based Content Detection Detects explicit/graphic content, risky chats, etc., even in disappearing messages Reduces exposure to pornography, violent or exploitative material Parent Dashboard Unified view of all child devices, alerts, trends, usage stats Gives parents actionable data without needing to guess No‑Surveillance‑Shame Model Data shared with parents, not used for punitive monitoring Avoids shame, encourages open dialogue Universal Compatibility Works with any app (TikTok, Snapchat, WhatsApp, etc.) – even encrypted or “disappearing” messages Prevents kids from bypassing controls through alternative apps

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    ~138~“Money‑Talk Made Simple: The 3 Financial Epiphanies Every Parent Needs” with Scott Yamamura

    #ParentingTeens, #FinancialCoaching, #MoneyScripts,  #CustodialAccounts, #StockMarketInvesting, #FinancialLiteracy In this power‑packed episode, Cheryl sits down with financial‑coach‑author Scott Yamamura to demystify money for parents of teens. From the Rule of 72 to the “Day of Reckoning” that hits many families in mid‑life, Scott breaks down three bite‑size “financial epiphanies” that turn overwhelm into confidence. Whether you’re living paycheck‑to‑paycheck, just starting to think about college funds, or worried about caring for aging parents, you’ll walk away with clear, actionable rules of thumb you can start teaching your teen today—no PhD required.

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    ~137~ WTF "“From Panic to Plan: Responding to the End‑of‑Semester Email”

    #ParentingTeens #IEPAdvocate #TeenSuccess #ExecutiveFunction #NeurodivergentSupport #SchoolCommunication #FridayFix #Podcast You just opened that dreaded end‑of‑semester email: 15 missing assignments, three failed tests, a 30 % grade, and every accommodation your teen needs left untouched because “I’m fine.” In this power‑packed episode Cheryl breaks down why this chaos happens, how to stop the panic, and what concrete steps you can take right now to partner with your teen, re‑activate accommodations, and rebuild communication with the school. Whether you’re juggling a career, caring for younger siblings, or managing a neuro‑divergent teen who masks at school, Cheryl’s 20‑year experience on both sides of the fence gives you a clear roadmap to turn overwhelm into empowerment. 🔹 Who should listen: Parents of teenagers (especially neuro‑divergent, highly‑sensitive, or “masking” kids) who feel stuck after a shocking school report. 🔹 What you’ll get: A step‑by‑step plan, real‑world language for talking with teachers, and a free 30‑minute clarity call to diagnose your family’s breakdown and map the next move.

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    ~136~“College Transition Hacks for Parents of Neurodivergent Teens: Advocacy & Accommodation Tips” Dr Tara Williams

    #ParentingTeens #NeurodivergentTeen #CollegeTransition #ExecutiveFunction #UniversalDesign #SelfAdvocacy Discover how to empower neuro‑divergent teens and set them up for success as they transition from high school to college. In this candid conversation, host Cheryl talks with Dr. Tara Williams—tenured chemistry professor, founder of Innovative Collegiate Consultants, and neurodivergent‑teen advocate. Tara shares her personal journey, reveals why adaptability, choice, and self‑advocacy are the hidden super‑powers every teen needs, and offers practical tools for parents: giving daily decisions, shifting “wants” to “needs,” using campus accessibility offices, and applying universal design at home. Learn the one habit parents should stop (doing their teen’s communication) and how tiny routines—like an alarm clock and body‑doubling study sessions—can create massive stability. Ready to support your teen’s independence? 

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    ~135~WTF "This is 61"

    #Aging #Gratitude #Reframing #SoloCelebration #Minimalism #parentingteensadvice #podcast Cheryl celebrates her 61st birthday by sharing the mindset tools that have turned this milestone into a launchpad for more joy, energy, and purpose. In this candid conversation she explores: Re‑framing frustration – turning every irritation into a lesson you can act on. The “Burn‑It‑Down” mindset – clearing out what no longer serves you while keeping the valuable remnants that fuel growth. Loving solo time – why eating alone, watching a movie by yourself, or sipping an old‑fashioned can be powerful acts of self‑care. Minimalist joy – shedding the “stuff that made me me” that never actually defined you, and discovering the freedom of a simpler, intentional life. Gratitude as a super‑power – using the question “What’s the alternative?” to pivot from fear to possibility. If you’re looking for fresh language, practical mindset shifts, and confidence‑boosting rituals to live your best life at any age, this episode is your roadmap.

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    ~134~ "Protecting Teens Online: Practical Privacy Hacks for Parents" with Chris Parker

    #privacy, #onlineSafety, #teenPrivacy, #digitalFootprint, #parentingTeens In this power‑packed interview, host Cheryl sits down with Chris Parker—creator of whatsmyipaddress.com, host of the Easy Prey podcast, and author of Privacy Crisis: How to Maintain Your Privacy Without Becoming a Hermit—to uncover the hidden privacy threats that teens (especially neuro‑divergent teens) face every day. From the “perfect” Instagram photo that fuels impossible comparison, to manipulative micro‑ads that hijack emotions, to the silent danger of identity theft via a child’s credit report, Chris shares real‑world, actionable tactics every parent can start using tonight.

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    ~133~WTF "It's NEVER Too Late"

    #StartingOver #Wisdom #LifeExperience #PersonalGrowth #HabitChange #parentingteens You are not starting from zero—you’re starting from wisdom, experience, and the love that’s carried you this far. In this raw, unfiltered Friday episode Cheryl shares how parents of teens can reset, re‑frame, and reinvent every part of their lives—from boundaries and communication to self‑care and spirituality—no matter their age. Whether you’re in your 50s, 60s, or beyond, discover the “one‑minute rule,” the power of a true apology, and why it’s never too late to model the change you want your teen to see. “Your teen watches how you talk to yourself. Your teen watches how you talk about your body. They learn not from what you say, but from what you model.”

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    ~132~ “Breaking the Education ‘Compliance’ Trap – Real Strategies for Parents” Will Dobud & Nevin Harper

    #ParentingTeens, #EducationReform, #YouthMentalHealth, #ComplianceVsAdvocacy In this power‑packed episode of Parenting Teens, Advice Redefined, host Cheryl Pankhurst sits down with Nevin Harper and Will Dobud, co‑authors of the groundbreaking book Kids These Days. Together they peel back the layers of a schooling system that was built for a world that no longer exists and explore why today’s teens are disengaged, anxious, and why the “one‑size‑fits‑all” approach isn’t working. Key takeaway: Disruption doesn’t have to be loud or political—it can start with one honest conversation, one DIY move, and one teen‑centric principle. If you’re a parent of a teenager who feels stuck in the school‑system, overwhelmed by the “compliance vs. confidence” debate, or just wants a fresh, evidence‑based way to connect with your teen, this episode is your roadmap.

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    ~131~"Reframing 'Tantrums' as Survival Strategies: Understanding Dysregulation"

    #Parenting #NeurodivergentTeens #BehavioruIsCommunication #ParentingTeens  Do you ever catch yourself labeling your teen’s “meltdown” as “attention‑seeking,” “manipulative,” or “just being dramatic”? In this raw, no‑fluff episode Cheryl flips those myths on their head. Drawing on decades of front‑line experience and a powerful story from a teen she supported from grade 9‑12, she proves that behaviour is communication—not a choice. 🔹 Why teens—especially neuro‑divergent ones—might “lose it.” 🔹 The life‑changing difference between “can’t regulate” vs. “won’t regulate.” 🔹 A practical 1‑5 rating system that gives teens a voice before a crisis hits. 🔹 How to replace judgment with empathy in classrooms, homes, and even the grocery aisle. If you’re a parent, grandparent, teacher, or anyone who watches a teen struggle to be understood, this episode will shift your perspective and give you concrete tools to respond with compassion instead of criticism. “It feels like a wall of flames right in front of my face.” – The moment that re‑defined Sheryl’s entire approach to teen behaviour.

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    ~130~“Enough Is Enough: How to Stop Abandoning Yourself and Start Speaking Up”

    #SelfAdvocacy, #Advocacy, #PersonalBoundaries, #TruthTelling In this raw, unfiltered episode of Parenting Teens – Advice Redefined for Today’s World, host Cheryl Pankhurst pulls back the curtain on the part of us that most of us keep hidden: advocating for ourselves. We hear the endless stream of “perfect” lives on social media, but the messy, un‑filtered truth is rarely shown. Cheryl shares her own breakthrough moment—how she moved from endless people‑pleasing to standing up for herself with calm, clear‑cut honesty. Listeners will learn: Why self‑advocacy isn’t aggression, it’s clarity and courage. Simple, low‑volume ways to set boundaries with teens, partners, and coworkers. How to recognize the “calm‑as‑compass” feeling that tells you you’ve done the right thing. A quick “Storm‑Check” exercise you can model for your teen right now. If you’re a parent of a teenager who feels stuck in the “peace‑keeper” role, this episode gives you the language and confidence to model healthy boundaries for your family.

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    ~129 "Transforming Trauma: Healing Birth Experiences with Sharon King"

    Key Takeaways: Understanding Birth Trauma: Sharon King specializes in helping individuals heal from pre and perinatal birth trauma, offering insights into its impact on both mother and baby. The Power of Energy Psychology: Through techniques like EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) and tapping, Sharon helps individuals regulate emotions and release trauma stored in the body. Rewriting Birth Stories: Sharon explains how she guides individuals, like Caroline, through the process of revisiting and transforming past birth experiences, allowing them to rewrite their stories and heal emotional wounds. Connecting with Younger Selves: By tapping into their younger selves' experiences, individuals can uncover deep-seated traumas and address them, fostering healing and emotional growth. Addressing Ancestral Trauma: Sharon discusses how trauma can extend beyond individual experiences, reaching into ancestral histories, and how techniques like tapping can help clear these inherited patterns. The Impact of Separation: Sharon highlights the emotional impact of separation during birth experiences, drawing from Caroline's personal story of being separated from her mother due to jaundice, and how this separation trauma can affect individuals later in life. Natural Birth Triumphs: Sharon King shares empowering stories of women who experienced natural childbirth, demonstrating the incredible capacity of the human body and mind to navigate the birthing process without excessive medical intervention. Healing Trauma: Through techniques like Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) tapping and revisiting birth experiences, individuals can address and heal deep-seated traumas that may have originated from prenatal or birth experiences, even if those memories are not consciously accessible. Parenting Insights: Parents can gain valuable insights into their children's behaviors and struggles by examining their own birth experiences and addressing any unresolved issues. Understanding the impact of early experiences can help parents create stronger bonds with their children and navigate challenging adolescent years more effectively. Bonding and Relationships: The first moments after birth and during adolescence are crucial bonding periods. Strong emotional connections established during these times can influence relationships and choices later in life. Parents play a vital role in nurturing these bonds and providing a safe haven for their children as they navigate through various life stages. Apex Effect: The transformative power of addressing past traumas is highlighted through the "Apex Effect," where individuals often forget they ever had a particular problem after successfully resolving it through therapy or healing techniques. Resources for Healing: Sharon King provides resources through her website, magicalnewbeginnings.com, where individuals can access information, contact her directly, and explore opportunities for healing and personal growth. Continued Learning: Sharon King's journey includes plans for podcasting, demonstrating her commitment to ongoing learning, sharing knowledge, and supporting individuals on their healing journeys. Podcasts can serve as valuable platforms for reaching a wider audience and fostering community engagement. #TraumaHealing #BirthExperiences #EnergyPsychology #EFT #TappingTechnique #EmotionalWellness #PreandPerinatalTrauma #AncestralHealing #HolisticHealing #ConsciousConception #PregnancyJourney #ParentingInsights #TeenMindset #TeenParenting #SelfHealingJourney     Websites: www.magicalnewbeginnings.com & www.healyourbirthbook.com   Email: [email protected] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/magicalnewbeginnings YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@sharonking5861 https://www.facebook.com/sharon.king.796          

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    #128 "Creating Safe Spaces: Talking to Teens About Suicide and Mental Health" with Iuri Melo

    #schoolpulse # Teenmentalhealth #Iurimelo #suicideprevention Navigating Teen Mental Health: A Conversation with Iuri Melo  In this powerful episode of "Parenting Teens: Advice Redefined for Today's Complex World," host Cheryl Pankhurst welcomes back Iuri Melo, a licensed clinical social worker and co-founder of School Pulse. Together, they delve into the critical topic of teen suicide prevention and self-harm, offering insights and strategies for parents navigating these challenging waters. Iuri shares his expertise on creating safe spaces for teens, recognizing warning signs, and the importance of open communication. This episode is a beacon of hope, emphasizing the power of connection and understanding in supporting our youth.

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    ~127~"Parenting Autistic Teens: Bridge the High‑School‑to‑Adult Gap – Insights with Susan Tatum"

    www.cherylpankhurst.com #autism #autismteens #highschooltransition In this power‑packed conversation, host Cheryl sits down with Susan Tatem, CEO of Bright Path for Autism, best‑selling author, TV host, and autism advocate. Susan shares her hard‑won wisdom on the most daunting transition of all—high school graduation → adulthood for teens on the spectrum. Together they unpack: Why the “abyss” exists – the hidden developmental, social, and systemic hurdles that hit at age 17. Three must‑do actions for parents of 8th‑grade kids – a simple roadmap to start planning now. Real‑world strategies to build social connections, functional life‑skills, and employment pathways. The “Swiss‑cheese” model – customizing support plans that fit each child’s unique holes. How to locate & lock‑in scarce resources (special‑needs housing vouchers, community programs, volunteer hubs). Power of parent networking – why your next conversation could change your child’s future. Whether you’re a single parent, a caregiver, or a support‑worker, this episode gives you actionable steps you can put into motion today.

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    ~126~"From Exhausted to Calm: Secrets Every Parent of Teens Should Know" with Brett Alrich

    #ParentingTeens #Ayurveda #Breathwork #MindfulParenting #SelfCare #StressRelief  Feeling stretched thin, stuck in “fight‑or‑flight,” and wondering how to model calm for your teen? In this episode Cheryl sits down with Brett Aldrich to demystify Ayurveda and breathwork—simple, science‑backed tools that help parents regulate, restore, and align their nervous system. Brett shares: How a daughter’s severe allergies sparked his journey into Ayurveda. The five elements (fire, earth, water, air, ether) and how knowing your personal “elemental makeup” guides daily choices. Quick, 2‑minute breathing practices that can be done while the kids are at school, during a car ride, or in the middle of a stressful conversation. Why slowing down isn’t lazy—it’s the foundation for healthy emotional modeling for teens. Real‑world tips for co‑regulation with your children (the “pause‑breathe‑respond” loop). Whether you’re a mom who feels her stress is the new normal or a dad who wants to break generational cycles of overwhelm, this conversation offers a practical, step‑by‑step roadmap to bring calm into the house without adding another to‑do list.

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    ~125~ TW “Teen Crisis Text Hotline: How It Saves Lives & How to Use It” with Elliot Kallen

    #TeenDepression, #TeenSuicide, #ParentalGuilt, #GriefAndLoss, In this raw, heart‑opening conversation, host Cheryl sits down with Elliot Kallen, co‑founder & President of A Brighter Day, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit created in memory of his son Jake (who ended his life in 2015). Elliot shares: The painful truth behind his son’s suicide note and the crushing guilt many parents feel. How turning that grief into purpose birthed A Brighter Day – a crisis‑texting hotline, fast‑track counseling, and resources that now serve ≈ 3,000 families each month. The early warning signs that separate “typical teen drama” from a teen in crisis. Practical, non‑judgmental conversation starters you can use at the kitchen table, in the car, or on a walk. Real‑world strategies for parents who feel overwhelmed, single‑income, or juggling two jobs. Step‑by‑step guidance on what to do if a teen says they’re thinking about self‑harm (including the three critical questions from suicide‑first‑aid training). How schools, teachers, and community leaders can create stigma‑free environments for mental‑health help.  

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    ~125~WTF “The Moment I Realized My Adult Daughter Will Always Be Okay”

    #ParentingTeens, #RescueDogs, #MorningRoutine, #CreativeExpression, #VeganLifestyle In this un‑polished, heart‑on‑sleeve episode, Cheryl steps inside her daughter’s city apartment and discovers the quiet, everyday moments that prove our teens are thriving—even when we’re not watching the big milestones. From the soft snuggle of two rescue pups, to a carefully‑cultivated plant shelf, a vinyl stack, and an heirloom shirt tucked in a closet, Cheryl shows us how love shows up in the ordinary—the early‑morning coffee rituals, the responsible care of pets, and the personal treasures our grown‑up kids curate for themselves. If you’re a parent of a teenager (or a young adult) who feels like you’re “always on standby” for the next graduation or birthday, this episode is a reminder that the real work of parenting lives in the small, daily details—and that those details are a massive sign of success, resilience, and unconditional love. Listen now for a tear‑filled, gratitude‑charged story that will shift how you see your own teen’s world and give you a fresh, empowering perspective on the parent‑child relationship in adulthood.

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    ~124~"Kids These Days" Book Review: How to Disrupt Overdiagnosis and Empower Modern Parents with Will Dobud

    #ParentingTeens, #YouthMentalHealth, #OverDiagnosis In this power‑packed interview, Cheryl sits down with Dr. Will Dobit—a socially‑savvy researcher, award‑winning educator, and outdoor‑therapy pioneer—to unpack the myth of “kids these days.” Together they expose how the troubled‑teen industry, over‑diagnosis, and a flood of contradictory mental‑health advice are hurting rather than helping our teens. Will shares his own turbulent youth, the journey that led him to adventure‑therapy, and the hard‑earned lessons behind his new book Kids These Days: Understanding & Supporting Youth Mental Health. Parents will walk away with: 🔍 A clear view of why the “kids‑are‑fragile” narrative is a recycled adult story. 🛠️ Practical, low‑effort strategies you can start using TODAY to shift your home environment from “problem‑centered” to solution‑focused. 📚 A behind‑the‑scenes look at the research that shows why diagnosis and medication aren’t the only answers—and often aren’t the right ones. 🌱 Real‑world hope: stories of teens building 3‑D‑printed prosthetics, solar‑blankets, and fearless activism—proof that the next generation already has the tools to change the world. If you’re a parent of a teenager who feels stuck, overwhelmed, or just wants a smarter way to support your kid’s mental health, this episode is your launchpad.

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"Discover ''Parenting Teens : Advice Redefined for Today's Complex World" with Special Education Specialist / Educator Cheryl, as we dive into real and raw conversations about sex, drugs, screens, social media, LGBTQ+ issues, mental health, and more. This podcast is your guide to reimagining better relationships with teens by doing the essential inner work. Join us for engaging, vibrant, and empathetic discussions that foster trust and understanding in today's complex parenting landscape.  Embrace the change,we just can’t parent the way our parents did”Questions this podcast will answer;  I am so grateful for you taking your time t

HOSTED BY

Cheryl Pankhurst

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