157. Why Am I Holding Myself Back? The Hidden Fear Behind Unfinished Dreams

Have you ever noticed that sometimes you don't fully go after the things you say you want?Maybe it's writing a book.Starting a business.Taking a course.Launching a passion project.Making a change you've been thinking about for years.We tell ourselves we're too busy, too old, not ready, or not clear enough yet. But what if those aren't the real reasons?In this solo episode of the She Flourishes Podcast, Brenda explores the hidden fear that may be keeping many of us stuck: the fear of finding out we're not as talented, capable, creative, or successful as we'd hoped.Drawing on positive psychology, Carol Dweck's research on growth mindset, a memorable story from a Lake Huron triathlon, and her own experience writing her upcoming book, Brenda explores:• Why we sometimes protect our potential instead of fulfilling it• How a fixed mindset can keep us stuck• The surprising way ego influences our decisions• Why many smart, capable women hold themselves back• The difference between disappointment and regret• How to stop letting fear make your decisionsIf you've ever wondered why you keep putting off something that matters deeply to you, this episode is for you.Listen in and be inspired to fully participate in your life and discover what's possible when you stop playing small.Resources Mentioned:• Mindset by Carol Dweck• Summer of Joy with Brenda JasminSign up for the Summer of JOY Challenge here:https://brendajasmin.kartra.com/page/QrL2096If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a rating and review. It helps more women discover the show and join our growing community of women who are flourishing on purpose.Here’s how you can connect with Brenda Jasmin:Instagram: @_brendajasminWebsite: www.brendajasmin.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brendajasmin/Download Brenda’s Gratitude Guide:https://brendajasmin.kartra.com/page/gratitudeguideGet Brenda’s Guide on “How to Be Happier in Uncertain Times”: https://brendajasmin.kartra.com/page/happierOriginal music composed by Leah Hidalgowww.leahhidalgo.com