1610 什么不公正的事情让你感到愤怒？｜找到IKIGAI｜Day 17

今日格言："The purpose of human life is to serve, and to show compassion and the will to help others." - Albert Schweitzer  人生的目的是服务，表现慈悲和帮助他人的意愿。Day 17 问题挑战：What injustices make you angry? How can you improve them?什么不公正的事情让你感到愤怒？你如何可以改善它们？Because of my easy-going nature, there aren't many things that truly make me angry. However, I have felt upset in the past with situations where people were treated differently based on their level of willingness to pay for services.. Yet, I must acknowledge that I have also exhibited similar behavior in my own life. For instance, I tend to be more friendly towards my students. I would feel impatient if it's not my students who are taking up my time. This is an area I need to improve upon. Therefore, it's those who are unwilling to contribute but still demand others' time that can make me feel angry. To improve the situation, I could establish clear boundaries and communicate effectively. For instance, I could politely explain to non-students that my time is dedicated to students during certain hours. Additionally, I could schedule my day to allocate specific time slots for student interactions and personal activities. This way, I can ensure that my time is utilized effectively.因为我性情温和，所以好像没有什么事情能让我真正感到愤怒。不过，过去我曾对以愿意支付服务的高低程度作为分类依据，而给予不同待遇感到不满。然而，我也必须承认，在我自己的生活中，我有时也会表现出类似的行为，例如，我会对我的学生更亲切一些。同样地，当有人一上来就要分享很多事情时，我也会感到有些不耐烦。这是我需要改进的地方。因此，可以说是那些不愿意付出但却占用他人时间的人会让我感到愤怒。为了改善情况，我可以建立明确的界限并有效地进行沟通。例如，我可以礼貌地向非学生解释，在特定的时间段内，我的时间是专门给学生的。此外，我可以安排我的日程表，为与学生互动和进行个人活动分配特定的时间段。这样，我可以确保我的时间被有效地利用。**為了这个找到IKIGAI/生命目的的系列，我特别制作了一个探索的手册，请大家到我的官方帐号去下载Line的官方帐号是@flywithlily微信的官方帐号是 Englishfit回覆文字ikigai （这个字是日文就是“此生之目的”）我们这个30天的挑战就是基于这个有名的此生目的的一种探索形式。也可以透过我的网站flywithlily.com/30 下载