162: When You Stop Trying to Get Him on Board, He Finally Gets Curious

I used to think the answer was getting my husband on board, that if I could just explain the vision clearly enough or feel called loudly enough, he'd finally buy in and stop resisting me. What I didn't understand back then is that I was speaking a completely different nervous system language than he was, and the harder I pushed for his approval the deeper he pulled away into apathy. This week my dear friend Kelly Brock comes back on the show to unpack the moment everything shifted for both of us: when we stopped trying to recruit our husbands into our healing and our dreams, and they finally got curious on their own. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ The moment his anger turned to apathy and why that's the scariest stage ➡️ Why women and men feel safe through completely different nervous system chemicals ➡️ The difference between hiding an investment and choosing yourself in integrity ➡️ How to bring up what you need without an agenda to change his mind ➡️ Trying a decision on for a day to feel the difference between intuition and ego If your body still hasn't caught up to all the inner work you've done, Root to Rise 2.0 is your next step. One week, 15 women, $57 for the first spots. I'd love to have you in this container 👇 ➡️ https://www.idobreakthrough.com/rtrhousewarming ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: How free is your voice? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.idobreakthrough.com/voice⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠https://calendly.com/idobreakthrough/free-connection-call⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— Connect with Kelly Brock Kelly Brock is a visionary mentor, intuitive business coach, and founder of Conscious LeadHer Academy, a global conscious coaching movement that certifies ambitious women to coach from inner truth, build businesses they love on their own terms, and change lives one conscious coaching relationship at a time. Once a high-achieving entrepreneur trapped in burnout, she now teaches women how to replace hustle with an intuitive, soul-aligned way of leading and building impact. Kelly is also a homeschooling, conscious-parenting mom who believes the future of leadership begins with how we lead ourselves and our families. Instagram: @kellybrock Guide Not Guru podcast www.kellybrockco.com