164: Why pushing through or doing better won’t work

Lit AF Relationships podcast is your resource for creating healthy relationships full of love, trust, safety, and respect. I’m working with a client right now that has ADHD. For most of his life guilt and shame have been his big motivators. They often say things like next time you just need to work harder or do better or push through. I get it, I’ve used similar motivators in the past. My inner voice often says things like you should have known better. You probably think this is the only way to do things but I promise it’s actually hurting you in the long term. Listen to hear more about how this is affecting your relationships. Discover your attachment style to break free from old relationship patterns. Take the free quiz here: https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/6329f75e6dd9410016a64043Follow [Guest] on Instagram:Visit [Guest]’s website:Follow Lit AF Relationships on Instagram: @itsmesarahcohan.comVisit the Lit AF Relationships Website: https://www.sarahcohan.com/If you’re interested in one on one coching I’d love to help you heal old patterns to create healthy relationships where you’re growing on the same team. Get started by applying for a free 60-minute healthy realtionships call here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSddL3tie849uvgD1m31l4MAH3AzH0FlWgnsG0gPEBEzeDyPyg/viewform