171. Choosing Your Hard

Sara is still feeling comfy and cosy in warm winter sweaters. Anna's, for some reason, is chatting about baby wipes. She always brings an element of surprise.    Love Desk: Science suggests that sleeping with your partner improves your sleep. Gain intriguing insights derived from scientific studies about sleeping better together or apart. What's your verdict? Tune in to learn more about co-sleeping and Anna's Excel spreadsheet.    Hot Topic: Have you chosen your hard in your relationship?  Exploring what choosing your hard means, as two coaches of couples and individuals in relationships, Anna and Sara discuss what this means for your relationship. It's hard to leave, but it's also hard to stay. Which side is going to be the hardest?  Questions: Since I've moved in with my partner, I've started to see a different side to him. He's always in a bad mood around the house because of his financial situation, and there isn't much romance left. I feel like we rushed things. It was a panic because of the money situation. Should I break up with him? This is an excellent follow-up to the hot topic. Couples will inevitably relax after they move in together, which can cause a loss of closeness, connection, and intimacy. On top of this, financial pressure will only magnify this. Moving out of this situation can feel black and white; you're either in or out. There is more to this; further exploration is needed to work through this and make a conscious decision. It's time to lean into the challenge.  It always ends on a food note, and this week, Sara is making Pad Thai in the @Thermomix. Perhaps they should switch to a food podcast instead.    Till next time!   Get in touch Geordie Lass & Doc Sass Email [email protected] with hot topics or questions about your relationship. All questions are entirely confidential.    Sara Liddle Email: [email protected] Website: www.inflori.co.uk Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset Anna Stratis Email: [email protected]  Website: www.coachdocanna.com