171. how to stop abandoning yourself in relationships & spiralling into your anxious attachment style.

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I give you my best advice when it comes to all things dating as an anxiously attached person. I chat self abandonment in relationships, how to stop losing yourself to your anxious attachment while in the dating stages & what I've done to overcome anxious triggers throughout my years of dating.My main channel  @eliciagoguen  🤍My guided journal series https://a-journey-back-home.teachable.com/l/pdp/a-journey-back-homeMy book The Ultimate Glow Up Guide 💗 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GPFQ1JJD?ref=sp_emailAll my home, favourite beauty, skincare, clothes & wellness products on LTK https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguenLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.io00:00 the root of your self abandonment09:35 waiting for love, detachment & discernment16:07 self concept24:36 you are not your anxious attachment25:09 silence, space & time28:22 boundaries32:42 don’t take things personally & co-dependancy38:30 long-term goals39:06 face rejection43:45 stop trying to do it all by yourself48:26 putting people on pedestals50:29 the processBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.