~180~How to Talk to Your Teen About Sex, Vaping & Drugs (Without Pushing Them Away) with Kristen Cook

What do you do when your teen won't talk?How do you bring up sex without making everyone uncomfortable?What if your teen gets caught vaping...or you discover they're sexually active?In this powerful episode of Parenting Teens: Advice Redefined for Today's World, Cheryl Pankhurst sits down with pediatrician and parenting expert Dr. Kristen Cook to tackle one of the biggest fears parents face—having difficult conversations that could shape their teen's future.Together they explore why many parents unknowingly shut communication down, how to rebuild trust after mistakes, and why leading with connection—not control—changes everything.Whether your teen is 10 or 17, this episode will give you practical strategies to create honest conversations before peers, social media, or misinformation do.In this episode you'll learn:✔️ Why parents should start talking about sex, vaping and drugs earlier than they think✔️ What to say when your teen gets caught vaping✔️ How to respond if you discover your teen is sexually active✔️ Why punishment alone rarely changes teen behavior✔️ The difference between boundaries and controlling parenting✔️ How to repair trust after conflict✔️ Why "I don't know" is actually an important part of teen communication✔️ How to create a home where teens feel safe telling the truth✔️ The role anxiety, ADHD and mental health play in teen risk-taking✔️ Why your teen's behavior isn't necessarily a reflection of your parentingIf you've ever worried that you're saying the wrong thing—or not saying enough—this conversation will help you approach parenting with more confidence, compassion and connection.Remember..."It's not them. It's you."Because when parents change how they communicate, everything begins to change.About Our GuestDr. Kristen Cook is a board-certified pediatrician, parenting educator, author of Parenting Redefined, and host of the Mom Doc Talk podcast. With more than 15 years of experience helping families navigate childhood and adolescence, she empowers parents with evidence-based strategies that strengthen relationships while supporting children's physical and emotional well-being.Connect with Dr. Kristen CookWebsite: https://www.kristencookmd.comInstagram: @momdoctalk_kcmdPodcast: Mom Doc Talk with Dr. Kristen CookWork with Cheryl PankhurstIf your teen is struggling at school, has recently received a diagnosis, needs support navigating an IEP, or you're simply feeling overwhelmed trying to advocate for them—you don't have to do it alone.Through Insight to Impact Educational Consulting, Cheryl helps parents confidently navigate schools, understand assessments, and become powerful advocates for their teens.YOUR GIFT- GUIDE FOR GRADE 8 TO GRADE 9 IEP TRANSITIONShttps://www.cherylpankhurst.com/iep-high-school-transition-parent-quick-guideLet’s Chat https://tidycal.com/cherylpankhurst/consultation-chatConnect with Cheryl!Get the book here!Daring to Belong: Autism Stories of Courage and ConnectionDIRECT LINK TO COACHING WITH CHERYL email : [email protected] Website  cherylpankhurst.comSOCIALS:linkedin.com/in/l. R.cheryl-ann-pankhurst-1b611855https://www.instagram.com/cheryl.a.pankhurst/                       https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.a.pankhurstPODCAST- “PARENTING TEENS ADVICE REDEFINED FOR TODAY’S WORLDTHE PODCASThttps://open.spotify.com/show/4QwFMJMDDSEXJb451pCHO9?si=9c1a298387c84e13https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYv9FQy1X43wwoYg0zF8zAJw6-nCpHMAk&si=7p-e4UlU2rsG3j_tOptin-podcast subscriberParenting Teens Advice Redefined