181 Why You Keep Repeating the Same Relationship Patterns

What up, Beasts. Welcome back to the show! This conversation cracked wide open what really happens when two people love each other but are running on autopilot from old wounds they do not even realize are driving the bus. Bryan shared how a painful rupture in his marriage became the catalyst for deep inner work through attachment healing, not just learning labels but actually rewiring patterns around abandonment, emotional regulation, boundaries, and communication. What stood out most for me was the reminder that the patterns that once helped us survive as kids can quietly sabotage our adult relationships if we never stop to examine them. This episode is about doing the work before life forces your hand, healing your relationship with yourself first, and learning that sometimes what feels like failure is actually the moment everything starts to change. As always, I hope something lands with you today. I hope something you hear tugs at your heart strings and/or I hope you laugh. Bio: In 2024 Bryan Power and his wife would go from having a pretty good relationship to a complete relationship failure that culminated with a restraining order his wife would put against him for her emotional safety. During their time apart Bryan and his wife would work on themselves and that work would ultimately allow them to put their relationship back together. Now Bryan shares his inspirational story and teaches others how to use the integrated attachment theory program that helped save his marriage and provides the necessary tools to continue having a healthy, happy relationship today. Music by Prymary: Sean Entrikin (my hot husband) on guitar, Chris Quirarte on drums, Smiley Sean on keyboards, Rob Young on bass, and Jaxon Duane on vocals. Mentions: Mel Robbins and Thais Gibson: “ Why Do I Love the Way That I Love: The 4 Attachment Styles Explained“ https://youtu.be/GIkspM20BeY?si=PafUDuIcAHVTLWsz Connect with Bryan! Website: https://www.myrelationshipfail.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bryanwpower/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@myrelationshipfail Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/myrelationshipfail/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/myrelationshipfail Where else can you find me? Linktree: https://linktr.ee/beautifulbeastwithinstudios Your Input Can Change Lives! If you have ever felt stuck in diet cycles, body image spirals, or trying to “fix” your body and never feeling like it is enough, I would love to hear from you. I am collecting confidential stories and experiences about food, movement, and body image to create resources that actually support real humans, not diet culture. Your honest input can help shape a future where health is about more than a number on the scale. Click here to take the survey: https://beautifulbeastwithinstudios.com/market-research784237 Affiliate Links Breakthrough Coaching Certification: If you feel called to help others heal or grow, Sean Smith’s Breakthrough Coaching Certification is where that calling becomes real. https://coachseansmith.ontraport.net/t?orid=27037&opid=43 Opus Clip: I use Opus Clip mostly for captions, and it’s a game-changer for turning long videos into usable clips. If you use my link, it supports the show, and I appreciate you big time! https://www.opus.pro/?via=1118d2 Mary Kay: Listen… I’ve been using Mary Kay since I was 17. I’m 40 now and people still ask me what college I go to. Not really, but you get the idea. Grab your faves here: https://www.marykay.com/kaitienoelle Beastly Merch: https://beautifulbeastwithinstudios.com/merch Unveil the Beautiful Beast Within YOU!