2 Mothers and 2 Mother Wounds [Ep 68]

Two Mothers and Two Mother wounds In this deeply personal and emotional conversation, Desiree shares her journey of growing up between two mother figures, her biological mother and the great-aunt who raised her after she entered the foster system at age five. From early instability, abuse, and emotional parentification to navigating identity, race, and belonging in a predominantly white town, Desiree opens up about the lasting impact of her childhood experiences.Now a licensed professional counselor associate and a mother herself, she reflects on the complexity of forgiveness, the evolution of her relationship with her biological mom, and the boundaries she’s had to build with the family who raised her. This episode explores the “mother wound,” generational trauma, and what it means to break cycles while raising the next generation.With this episode you’ll be able to learn:Growing up with two maternal figures and navigating divided loyaltiesEntering foster care and being raised by extended familyExperiencing instability, abuse, and early emotional responsibilityThe impact of inconsistent parenting and “walking on eggshells”Over-scheduling as a coping strategy and why it didn’t workIdentity, race, and isolation in a predominantly white environmentMental health struggles in adolescence, including disordered eating and hospitalizationThe long road to rebuilding a relationship with her biological motherSetting boundaries with caregivers who provided materially but lacked emotional connectionBreaking generational cycles as a parentConnect with Brittney:Instagram: @theBrittneyScottWebsite: www.brittneymscott.comConsultation to work with BrittneyFree ResourcesA Reframe:Desiree’s story is a powerful reminder that providing a “good life” materially doesn’t always meet a child’s emotional needs. Healing isn’t linear and sometimes growth means holding compassion and boundaries at the same time.Thank you for listening. Don't forget you can submit your question! And yes, I really am going to give you an answer in an upcoming podcast.and be sure to say hi on Instagram!Resources MentionedFree Class (May 20th): Learn how to build a healthier, more connected relationship with your daughter. Register HereHelp me reach more service providers like you by following the show & leaving a rating or review on Apple & Spotify!Keyword tags:Brittneyscott,#MotherDaughterRelationship #motherwound, #fostercare, #familytrauma, #emotionalneglect, #parentification, #identity, #therapyexperiences, #adolescentmentalhealth, #generationalhealing, #boundariesMentioned in this episode:Q2 '26 Ad