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EPISODE · Feb 26, 2026 · 22 MIN

2 // The Power of Pausing in Parenting: How to Stop Reacting and Start Responding

from The Raising Kids with Purpose Podcast · host Adriane Thompson

If you’ve ever promised yourself you wouldn’t yell — and then yelled anyway — this episode is for you. You know what to do. But in the moment, something takes over. In this episode of Raising Kids With Purpose, Adriane explains what’s actually happening in your brain and body when you react and the neuroscience behind it. When your child won’t put on their shoes and you’re already late, your nervous system detects threat. Your thinking brain goes offline. Fight-or-flight takes over. And then comes the guilt. But there’s a way to interrupt the pattern. In this episode, we’re chatting about: • Why your nervous system reacts before your logic can step in • What “the pause” really is (it’s more than counting to ten) • Three questions that shift you from control to connection • A simple 10-second “Name It to Tame It” tool you can use in real time ⭐ Weekly Challenge: Practice the pause just once this week. One trigger moment. One breath. One different response. ➡️ Subscribe and follow the show so you never miss an episode! Links Mentioned in this Episode:  Adriane's P.U.R.P.O.S.E. Parent Transformation Program Parent Support Discovery Call: https://raisingkidswithpurpose.com/chat Connect with Adriane: Instagram: @raisingkidswithpurpose Website: https://raisingkidswithpurpose.com Email: [email protected] Book a discovery call: http://raisingkidswithpurpose.com/chat

If you’ve ever promised yourself you wouldn’t yell — and then yelled anyway — this episode is for you. You know what to do. But in the moment, something takes over. In this episode of Raising Kids With Purpose, Adriane explains what’s actually happening in your brain and body when you react and the neuroscience behind it. When your child won’t put on their shoes and you’re already late, your nervous system detects threat. Your thinking brain goes offline. Fight-or-flight takes over. And then comes the guilt. But there’s a way to interrupt the pattern. In this episode, we’re chatting about:• Why your nervous system reacts before your logic can step in• What “the pause” really is (it’s more than counting to ten)• Three questions that shift you from control to connection• A simple 10-second “Name It to Tame It” tool you can use in real time ⭐ Weekly Challenge: Practice the pause just once this week. One trigger moment. One breath. One different response. ➡️ Subscribe and follow the show so you never miss an episode! Links Mentioned in this Episode:  Adriane's P.U.R.P.O.S.E. Parent Transformation Program Parent Support Discovery Call: https://raisingkidswithpurpose.com/chat Connect with Adriane: Instagram: @raisingkidswithpurpose Website: https://raisingkidswithpurpose.com Email: [email protected] Book a discovery call: http://raisingkidswithpurpose.com/chat

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