#21 Who (and what) shapes your next level

Most people assume their next level comes from working harder, being smarter, or finally getting the right opportunity.In reality, growth is often shaped by quieter forces: the people you listen to, the problems you spend your time solving, and whether you’re still learning—or just repeating what you already know how to do well.In this episode, Stephanie and Tove explore what’s really defining your next level right now.They talk about:• How the people you ask for advice influence your decisions (often more than you realize)• Why advice is never neutral — and how systems, incentives, and fear shape what others tell you• The difference between solving old problems versus spending time on new, unsolved problems• Why innovation, reflection, and space to think are essential for career growth• What competence really means when you move into leadership• The four stages of competence — and how blind spots can quietly hold you back• Why feeling “not ready yet” is often part of growth, not a signal to stopThis is a reflective conversation for high performers who feel capable — but sense that something subtle is keeping them from their next step.🎧 If this episode sparked recognition, we’d love to hear from you.📩 For more reflections like this, subscribe to The New Era Edit.