217. Family Travel Is the Best Way to Spend Your Money

Family travel is the best way to spend your money. That's the idea Krista and Brian are selling this week, fresh off back-to-back family vacations — an eight-day family trip to the Dominican Republic for their 25th wedding anniversary, followed immediately by their annual family vacation to the Outer Banks. The story centers on Las Terrenas, a quieter, less touristed stretch of the Dominican Republic's northern coast — chosen specifically for family travel that offered a mix of relaxation and real cultural immersion, instead of the big all-inclusive resort experience. Krista and Brian talk through the decision to bring the whole family instead of going just the two of them for their anniversary, working with a travel agency (Mango Tree Travel) for the first time, and the moments that made the trip — including their kids being interviewed by a Dominican news crew on July 4th, and a surprise vow renewal the kids planned and carried out themselves. But this episode isn't just a trip recap — it's the real case for why family travel is worth prioritizing over material spending, including the home renovations they've put off for years to keep taking these family vacations. They back it up with research: a Cornell psychologist's decades of work showing people are happier from experiences than possessions, and studies on how family vacations build bonding, communication, and connection. They also tackle the objections head-on: kids won't remember the trip, wouldn't a couples-only vacation be more relaxing, and isn't family travel only possible if you have money to burn. If you've ever wondered whether the splurge on a family trip is worth it over the kitchen reno or the new floors — this episode makes the case for family travel. IN THIS EPISODE [0:00] Welcome back — fresh off two weeks of vacation [~2:00] The Sell: family travel is the best way to spend your money [~3:00] Why Krista and Brian both believe this — pattern interrupts, and giving the kids a window into how other people live [~6:00] The Story: choosing Las Terrenas over Punta Cana, working with Mango Tree Travel for the first time [~9:00] The 4th of July interview, and how the kids became "DR famous" [~11:00] The Solution: prioritizing family travel means saying no to other things — the unrenovated kitchen, bathroom, and walkway [~14:00] Teaching kids that money is a series of trade-offs [~16:00] The research: Cornell's Thomas Gilovich on why experiences beat possessions, regardless of cost [~18:00] The "Best Vection Ever" story — a memory from a freezing, forgettable-sounding trip that turned out to be anything but [~20:00] The Stakes/objections: "kids won't remember it" and "wouldn't a couples trip be more relaxing?" [~25:00] The Success: the memories, the vow renewal, and why family travel is worth it [~27:00] Where to next — Banff, Switzerland, an African safari, or Paris? KEY QUOTE "You can make fun of each other on your couch in Forestville, Maryland, or you can make fun of each other in the beautiful blue sea in the Dominican Republic. That's where you're really going to remember it." — Krista Demcher MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE Mango Tree Travel (not sponsored, but could be) Las Terrenas, Dominican Republic Cornell psychologist Thomas Gilovich's research on experiential vs. material happiness Research on family vacations and family cohesion/communication Connect with us: 📸 Instagram: @shesellshesellspodcast ▶️ YouTube: She Sells He Sells Podcast