218: Why you're making dating hard for yourself

from Feminine as F*ck · host Monica Yates

Today I am talking about how dating can be draining but doesn’t need to be. I did a really good job, (before my current situation) of going into dating with different mindsets, dating different kinds of men and showing up differently to figure out how to date in a way where I stayed in a feeling of calm, wasn’t attached, felt secure, peaceful and didn’t obsess over my phone. If this resonates with you then I highly recommend you listen to this episode where I dive into: ·  Attachment and sex ·  Why engaging in half arse sh*t is holding you back from the relationship you actually desire ·  How understanding men's biology changes the dating game ·  How the pandemic has impacted dating ⇢ Join MMM1 https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/magic-money-manifestation/ ⇢ Purchase the FAF Beginner Bundle https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/feminine-as-fck-beginner-bundle/ ⇢ BLNM wait list: https://monicayates.activehosted.com/f/8 ⇢ Sign up for the dating masterclass: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/the-embodiment-of-dating/ ⇢ Listen to my episode about dating and relationships during lockdown https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/143-dating-relationships-during-lockdown-how-your-biology/id1449633522?i=1000508400861  ⇢ Listen to my episode about attachment styles https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/154-attachment-styles-101-why-are-you-avoidant-or-anxious/id1449633522?i=1000517728980 ⇢ Follow the FAF instagram: https://www.instagram.com/feminineasfuck_/ ⇢ Read the blog: https://monicayates.com.au/218-dating-can-be-draining-but-doesnt-need-to-be/ ⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/ ⇢ UNEDITED magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/ ⇢ Watch the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/PkVGwW1B4aU

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Today I am talking about how dating can be draining but doesn’t need to be. I did a really good job, (before my current situation) of going into dating with different mindsets, dating different kinds of men and showing up differently to figure out how to date in a way where I stayed in a feeling of calm, wasn’t attached, felt secure, peaceful and didn’t obsess over my phone. If this resonates with you then I highly recommend you listen to this episode where I dive into: · Attachment and sex · Why engaging in half arse sh*t is holding you back from the relationship you actually desire · How understanding men's biology changes the dating game · How the pandemic has impacted dating ⇢ Join MMM1 https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/magic-money-manifestation/ ⇢ Purchase the FAF Beginner Bundle https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/feminine-as-fck-beginner-bundle/ ⇢ BLNM wait list: https://monicayates.activehosted.com/f/8 ⇢ Sign up for the dating masterclass: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/the-embodiment-of-dating/ ⇢ Listen to my episode about dating and relationships during lockdown https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/143-dating-relationships-during-lockdown-how-your-biology/id1449633522?i=1000508400861 ⇢ Listen to my episode about attachment styles https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/154-attachment-styles-101-why-are-you-avoidant-or-anxious/id1449633522?i=1000517728980 ⇢ Follow the FAF instagram: https://www.instagram.com/feminineasfuck_/ ⇢ Read the blog: https://monicayates.com.au/218-dating-can-be-draining-but-doesnt-need-to-be/ ⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/ ⇢ UNEDITED magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/ ⇢ Watch the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/PkVGwW1B4aU

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