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Feminine as F*ck
by Monica Yates
Sometimes the truth is hard to hear. Sometimes it’s a little triggering and very uncomfortable. Yet, we all know that this space is where the true magic happens. Luckily for you, Monica Yates is like the best friend you never had. She gives it to you straight, without all the fluff, so that you can pursue more of what you desire in love, relationships and career. From emotional and energetic trauma/blocks to health, period problems, business and manifestation, Monica helps you get out of your own way to become the version of you that has only been a dream, until now.
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481: What Men Really Want From You—My Husband’s Unfiltered Answer
What he's not telling you, but desperately needs you to know || ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aYQmN89ary8 We talk a lot about what being in your feminine does for us, but what does it actually give our men? In this episode, Monica dives into the biological, hormonal, and emotional impact your feminine energy has on him and shares real messages from her husband on what it’s like when she’s fully in hers (and when she’s not). If you’ve ever needed a reason beyond yourself to embody your feminine, this is the episode. What’s inside: 💋 How your relationship is either boosting or tanking his testosterone every single day💋 A man's #1 emotional need, and how you may be unknowingly blocking it💋 Why men and women need completely different things to feel loved, and what those actually are 💋 Why your joy is rocket fuel to his masculinity—and how most women strip themselves of it💋 The dynamic that makes good men quietly stop trying, and what actually motivates them to step up💋 Why criticism makes men retreat, not improve (and exactly what to say to him instead)💋 What it actually looks like to trust him, receive him, and let him lead💋Why "I can do it myself" is a trauma response, and what it's costing you and your man +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Join the program — BLNM LIVE: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/be-a-lover-not-a-mother?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=blnm-live-2026 ⇢ Watch the free live masterclass replay — From Roommates to Ravished: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/roommates-to-ravished-mc?utm_source=kit&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=blnm-live-2026 ⇢ Sign up for the Monthly Newsletter — The Boardroom & Bedroom Diaries: https://monica-yates-health.kit.com/54f5a9ff86 ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Listen next — Episode 477: Healthy vs Unhealthy Relationships Part 1: Is It a Red Flag or Is It Just Human?: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/477-healthy-vs-unhealthy-relationships-part-1-is-it-a-red-flag-or-is-it-just-human ⇢ Listen next — Episode 478: Healthy vs Unhealthy Relationships Part 2: Fighting Is a Green Flag & Hallmarks of Healthy Love: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/fighting-is-a-green-flag-hallmarks-of-healthy-love-part-2 ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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480: Getting Hotter Postpartum, Out-Earning My Husband & Trusting Your Intuition with Jacqui Kingswell
Hotter after baby than before—and exactly how she did it. || ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1muLPn83INw In this episode, Monica sits down with Jacqui Kingswell, a former professional dancer turned co-founder of The Pilates Class and The Birthing Class, a leading voice in modern wellness, and a mum of two, to unpack what it really takes to feel like yourself again after having a baby—from healing your body the right way postpartum, to navigating the identity shift that comes with motherhood, to running a business alongside your husband without losing your mind or your self-trust. Also inside the conversation: 🪞 How Jacqui got more toned (and honestly sexier!) after becoming a mum🪞 Ab separation: what it is, why most women are fixing it wrong, and how to actually heal it 🪞 The 5-minute rule that gets you on the mat even on your worst days 🪞 Why working out needs to feel like self-love, not punishment 🪞 Your feminine intuition is your greatest business asset🪞 What really happened when Jacqui's husband went from breadwinner to her business partner 🪞 How becoming a mum completely shifted the direction of Jacqui's brand 🪞 Why outsourcing your decisions to AI is ruining your self-trust (and what to tune into instead) +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Connect with Jacqui: https://www.instagram.com/jacquikingswell/ ⇢ Join The Pilates Class — Use code MONICA20 for 20% off a month (for both new and existing members): https://thepilatesclass.com/ ⇢ Check out The Birthing Class: https://thebirthingclass.co/ ⇢ Join the free live masterclass — From Roommates to Ravished: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/roommates-to-ravished-mc?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=blnm-live-2026 ⇢ Sign up for the Monthly Newsletter — The Boardroom & Bedroom Diaries: https://monica-yates-health.kit.com/54f5a9ff86 ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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479: Your 34-Step Morning Routine (And Being a Control Freak) Is Ruining Your Life
Control got you here, but it's also what's keeping you stuck. ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PbENttKi0Jg In this episode, Monica breaks down why control has been your biggest asset AND your biggest block, what it’s actually costing you, and how to start releasing it without feeling like your whole life is going to fall apart. She talks about: 🪞 How control is a trauma response, and how it’s holding you back🪞 Why your 34-step morning routine is setting you up for massive failure🪞 The difference between conscious control and control as a trauma response🪞 Why discipline and structure are good—until they turn you into a control freak🪞 How your hyper-independence is blocking you from feeling how good your life already is🪞 The impossibility of being in a flow state and in control at the same time🪞 Why control freaks get addicted to stress and create drama when life is calm +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Join the free live masterclass — From Roommates to Ravished: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/roommates-to-ravished-mc?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=blnm-live-2026 ⇢ Grab one of the last tickets — The Immersion 2026 in Paris: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=immersion-2026 ⇢ Listen next — 475: Why Your Inner Control Freak Is Ruining Your Life and Relationships (And How to Finally Let Go): https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/475-why-your-inner-control-freak-is-ruining-your-life-and-relationships-and-how-to-finally-let-go ⇢ Listen next — 465: The Trauma Cycle Explained: Why You Keep Repeating the Same Patterns: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/465-the-trauma-cycle-explained-why-you-keep-repeating-the-same-patterns?_pos=7&_psq=trauma+cycle&_ss=e&_v=1.0&_gl=1*1w6juc5*_ga*MTIxOTI3NDA1OS4xNzQ4NTM0MjE2*_ga_XEFT8KE3Z9*czE3Nzc1NzEzNjUkbzYzJGcxJHQxNzc3NTc4NDQzJGo1OSRsMCRoMA.. ⇢ Watch the reel — Your Morning Routine is Ruining Your Life: https://www.instagram.com/p/DXsMETPD3d1/ ⇢ Sign up for the Monthly Newsletter — The Boardroom & Bedroom Diaries: https://monica-yates-health.kit.com/54f5a9ff86 ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directoryRemember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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478: Healthy vs Unhealthy Relationships Part 2: Fighting Is a Green Flag & Hallmarks of Healthy Love
Part two of this juicy convo is here, and Monica’s diving straight in. ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/19sNR5gwNVUIf you haven't listened to Part One yet, go back and do that first. These two episodes together are basically a whole masterclass on healthy vs. unhealthy relationships, and that foundation will help this land so much better.In Part Two, Monica is cutting through the fear-mongering, black-and-white relationship content flooding your feed and getting into what a healthy relationship actually looks and feels like.She gets into:💛 The red flag from Part One she forgot to mention (it’ll surprise you!)💛 Dr. John Gottman's Love Lab and the 5-to-1 ratio💛 What predicts relationship health more than compatibility or conflict style💛 The real truth about couples who never fight💛 How you can rewire his patterns without dragging him to therapy💛 Why co-regulation is the cherry on top, not the cupcake itself💛 What a healthy relationship actually looks like in practice💛 Permission to stop holding yourself to a standard that isn't real +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Join the free live masterclass — From Roommates to Ravished: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/roommates-to-ravished-mc?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=blnm-live-2026 ⇢ Keep an eye out for the upcoming program — Be a Lover, Not a Mother LIVE: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/be-a-lover-not-a-mother?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=BLNM ⇢ Join the waitlist — Juicy New Signature Program: monicayateshealth.typeform.com/waitlist2026 or DM “new era” on Instagram ⇢ Listen to Part 1 of this conversation — https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/477-healthy-vs-unhealthy-relationships-part-1-is-it-a-red-flag-or-is-it-just-human ⇢ Sign up for the Monthly Newsletter — The Boardroom & Bedroom Diaries: https://monica-yates-health.kit.com/54f5a9ff86 ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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477: Healthy vs Unhealthy Relationships Part 1: Is It a Red Flag or Is It Just Human?
Social media is flooding women's feeds with content telling them their man is dangerous, their relationship is toxic, and every uncomfortable moment is a red flag. And it's doing real damage. ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/Z5UaiSM1nYE In this episode, Monica breaks down the actual difference between an unhealthy relationship and a real, human one. This is the nuanced, no-BS conversation your algorithm doesn't want you to have. What’s inside: 🔥 Why "we never fight" is not the flex you think it is 🔥 Dr. John Gottman's Love Lab: the 4 communication patterns that predict divorce 🔥 Criticism vs. expressing your needs—are they the same thing?🔥 Actual gaslighting vs. your partner just explaining himself 🔥 How outsourcing your relationship decisions to Instagram is slowly ruining your intuition 🔥 The real relationship red flags that may be hiding in plain sight🔥 Part 2 is next week, and will dive into healthy relationships, secure attachment, and red flags that look like green flags +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Join the upcoming live masterclass — From Roommates to Ravished: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/roommates-to-ravished-mc?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=blnm-live-2026 ⇢ Apply now — 1:1 Coaching: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/womens-coaching?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=evergreen ⇢ Watch the reel — Monica’s Reaction to the “Rape Academy” Article: https://www.instagram.com/p/DXXh59bD0bg/ ⇢ Sign up for the Monthly Newsletter — The Boardroom & Bedroom Diaries: https://monica-yates-health.kit.com/54f5a9ff86 ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth ⇢ Listen to the episode — 285: Are they a narcissist?: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/285-are-they-a-narcissist?_pos=1&_psq=narcissism&_ss=e&_v=1.0&_gl=1*1pbg2ei*_ga*MTIxOTI3NDA1OS4xNzQ4NTM0MjE2*_ga_XEFT8KE3Z9*czE3NzczOTc2MzIkbzczJGcxJHQxNzc3NDA0ODM1JGo1NiRsMCRoMA.. ⇢ Listen to the episode — 341: Trauma Bonds: How Do I Know If I'm In One? Plus, How Do I Get Out & Stop Attracting Them!?: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/341-trauma-bonds-how-do-i-know-if-im-in-one-plus-how-do-i-get-out-stop-attracting-them?_pos=1&_psq=trauma+bond&_ss=e&_v=1.0&_gl=1*jptulp*_ga*MTIxOTI3NDA1OS4xNzQ4NTM0MjE2*_ga_XEFT8KE3Z9*czE3NzczOTc2MzIkbzczJGcxJHQxNzc3NDA0ODQ5JGo0MiRsMCRoMA.. ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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476: Q&A: Baby Sleep, Female Breadwinners, Polarity and Why Men Want You More When You Set Boundaries
Monica sits down to answer the juicy questions you left her on Instagram!⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/Q7JhDbZSiYsFrom baby sleep advice to maintaining polarity, healing trauma, getting started as an entrepreneur, cycle tracking after having a baby, and more, she really goes there with each question, as she always does.Questions answered:💛 How is your baby’s sleep going? Could you share tips for other mums?💛 How has cycle tracking been going since postpartum, like tracking ovulation and fertility?💛 How to live in polarity with being the breadwinner?💛 Why do men want you more as soon as you start to set more boundaries?💛 How do you let go of the non-toxic obsessing 100%?💛 Was it important to you to be married and have a house before having a baby?💛 Advice for 20-year-old women wanting to try out entrepreneurship, but have no idea how or what.💛 How to heal trauma without getting stuck in a loop?💛 Is there such a thing as too ambitious for a woman?Part two of this Q&A is coming soon, so stay tuned for more of Monica’s insights, tips, and honest advice for women balancing motherhood and ambition.+++++ As Mentioned In The Episode:⇢ Join the waitlist — Juicy New Signature Program: https://monicayateshealth.pro.typeform.com/waitlist2026⇢ Shop Monica’s favorite herbs (and use code MONICA20 for 20% off) — Peekay’s: https://peekaysherbs.com/ ⇢ Sign up for the Monthly Newsletter — The Boardroom & Bedroom Diaries: https://monica-yates-health.kit.com/54f5a9ff86⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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475: Why Your Inner Control Freak Is Ruining Your Life and Relationships (And How to Finally Let Go)
Learn why you can't let go of control, how controlling behavior blocks your intuition and destroys the polarity in your relationship, and the path back to trusting yourself again.⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kG5NTlO3kHsHere’s what Monica gets into…🍯 The importance of trusting yourself over anything outside of you🍯 How your need for control blocks the connection to your intuition🍯 Scientific insights on the body’s second brain and trauma responses🍯 How to build safety within through vulnerability, trust, and somatic healing🍯 Tips for shifting from control to trust in your life and relationships🍯 The importance of embracing dysregulation as part of healing🍯 The power of surrender and living amidst uncertainty🍯 Her plans to host highly intimate, curated, and luxurious retreats designed to reset your nervous system and intuition (seriously excited about this!)+++++ As Mentioned In The Episode:⇢ Grab one of the final tickets to the final Immersion — Paris 2026: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=immersion-2026⇢ Listen next — Podcast Episode 426: NUGGET: What You’ve Been Getting Wrong About Nervous System Regulation: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/426-nugget-what-you-ve-been-getting-wrong-about-nervous-system-regulation⇢ Sign up for the Monthly Newsletter — The Boardroom & Bedroom Diaries: https://monica-yates-health.kit.com/54f5a9ff86 ⇢ Work with Monica — 1:1 Coaching Application: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/womens-coaching?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=evergreen⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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474: NUGGET: Navigating Ego Death & Feminine Intuition: Letting Go of the Program That Made Me Millions (The Queen Alchemy Era Is Over)
In this episode, Monica vulnerably shares about the major ego death she’s moving through in her business, feminine intuition, letting go of your business identity, and why she ended her signature program, Queen Alchemy, after 7 years, 16 rounds, hundreds of lives changed, and thousands of glowing testimonials. This is the program that built her empire and that made her millions—and she’s letting it go. Here’s why…⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/GIY5PnhPohYYou’ll hear:🌸 The importance of trusting your intuition during major transitions🌸 The emotional process of ego death and identity shifts🌸 The personal growth and success that comes from letting go🌸 Why intuition as a superpower for women, both in life and in business🌸 How to use your intuition to guide major transformations🌸 Exciting upgrades coming to her business🌸 A taste of her new, high-level, nine-month signature program+++++ As Mentioned In The Episode:⇢ Join the waitlist — Juicy New Signature Program: https://monicayateshealth.pro.typeform.com/waitlist2026⇢ Read the blog post — Ego Death, Identity Shifts, and What's Next: My Biggest Business Pivot Yet: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/business/ego-death-identity-shifts-and-whats-next-my-biggest-business-pivot-yet ⇢ Sign up for the Monthly Newsletter — The Boardroom & Bedroom Diaries: https://monica-yates-health.kit.com/54f5a9ff86 ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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473: The L.O.V.E.R. Method™: 5 Shifts to Stop Emasculating Him and Start Inspiring His Masculine Leadership
Learn practical steps to balance your masculine and feminine energy and transform your relationship dynamics. ||High-performing women often find themselves exhausted from leading in every aspect of life, including their relationships. In this episode, Monica introduces her transformative “The L.O.V.E.R. Method™” designed to help women reconnect with their feminine power and create deeper, more fulfilling connections without the constant need for control.⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/Awahl8v8fBc Here’s what she’s getting into: 🌶️ Why many women feel more like their partner's mother than their lover 🌶️ How subtle actions can sabotage intimacy and how to stop them 🌶️ The difference between nurturing and mothering 🌶️ How to invite your partner to lead without micromanaging 🌶️ Ways to transform your communication style to foster vulnerability and connection 🌶️ Why healing trauma and releasing control are essential for lasting change 🌶️ Practical tips to shift from exhaustion to effortless magnetism+++++ As Mentioned In The Episode:⇢ Download the free PDF — The L.O.V.E.R. Method: https://monicayateshealth.com/products/the-lover-method?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=evergreen⇢ Listen next — Podcast Episode 470: Men and Money: How Your Love Life Impacts Your Success, Income & Magnetism: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/470-men-and-money-how-your-love-life-impacts-your-success-income-magnetism⇢ Dive into the program — Be a Lover, Not a Mother: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/be-a-lover-not-a-mother?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=BLNM⇢ Get on the waitlist — Queen Alchemy: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/queen-alchemy?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=qa-16⇢ Sign up for the Monthly Newsletter — The Boardroom & Bedroom Diaries: https://monica-yates-health.kit.com/54f5a9ff86 ⇢ Listen next — Podcast Episode 449: Feminine vs Masculine Communication: Why He Can’t Hear You (and How to Fix It): https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/449-feminine-vs-masculine-communication-why-he-can-t-hear-you-and-how-to-fix-it?⇢ Listen next — Podcast Episode 465: The Trauma Cycle Explained: Why You Keep Repeating the Same Patterns: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/465-the-trauma-cycle-explained-why-you-keep-repeating-the-same-patterns?⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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472: The 5 Wealth Embodiment Secrets Every Woman Must Know (That Goes Beyond Money Mindset) with Shamina Taylor
Unlock the secret to embodying true wealth beyond just “having money.” This is about fully trusting that more is always coming. ||In this powerful conversation, Monica is joined by Shamina Taylor, former attorney turned Wealth Consciousness Mentor and bestselling author of the book Unlocking The Quantum Woman. Together, they’ll reveal how shifting your internal belief system and mastering the art of embodiment can unlock limitless abundance, keeping you breaking through glass ceilings without the hustle.⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/S-Tnqiv_SVA?si=OoTatHbrplB8Mz8yInside the episode:❤️🔥The feminine & masculine wealth dynamic high achievers are getting wrong❤️🔥Why financial freedom is rooted in embodiment and trust (not mindset alone)❤️🔥Practical tools and 5 tips to begin embodying wealth now❤️🔥Why enjoying your money is an act of self-love❤️🔥How to raise humble, generous kids while modeling wealth❤️🔥The important role of nervous system regulation in manifesting❤️🔥Why true wealth is a state of being, not the numbers in your bank account+++++ As Mentioned In The Episode:⇢ Get a special gift and connect with Shamina — https://www.instagram.com/shaminataylor (DM “Monica” to Shamina on Instagram for free access to her “Flip Your Money Switch On” Masterclass and other resources on embodying wealth effortlessly)⇢ Buy Shamina’s Book — Unlocking The Quantum Woman: https://a.co/d/03BeP5Ot ⇢ Grab the freebie — The L.O.V.E.R. Method: https://monicayateshealth.com/products/the-lover-method?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=evergreen⇢ Dive into the program — The Feminine Female Breadwinner: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/the-feminine-female-breadwinner-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=ffb-general⇢ Sign up for the Monthly Newsletter — The Boardroom & Bedroom Diaries: https://monica-yates-health.kit.com/54f5a9ff86 ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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471: Why Most Business & Career Advice Fails Mothers (And What Actually Works)
Practical tips for balancing a successful career or business and motherhood without burnout.If you’re a high-achieving woman who wants it all, and who wants to be a mother (or already is), Monica will share with you what’s actually possible when you have aligned support and tools.⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/SE5b5lqpOic?si=wnoOXqUlnPrFNlvqShe gets into…💛 The biggest differences between being a working woman and a working mother💛 Why typical advice doesn’t work for moms who are entrepreneurs💛 How motherhood changes your brain, productivity, and self-care💛 Navigating the mental load and default parenting dynamics💛 Practical & relationship action steps to share day-to-day responsibilities with your man💛 How to focus on what truly adds value to your life and gives you energy+++++ As Mentioned In The Episode:⇢ Binge the program — Empowered Submissive: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/empoweredly-submissive?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=evergreen_general⇢ Grab it now — Meditation for Mothers: Nervous System Regulation: https://monicayateshealth.com/collections/ebook/products/meditation-for-mothers-ns-regulation ⇢ Listen next — Podcast Episode 446: The Juggle of Business and Motherhood: What’s Actually Working For Me: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/446-the-juggle-of-business-and-motherhood-what-s-actually-working-for-me ⇢ Buy the Book — “The Fourth Trimester” A Postpartum Guide to Healing Your Body, Balancing Your Emotions, and Restoring Your Vitality” by Kimberly Ann Johnson: https://a.co/d/0cBrx7ho ⇢ Sign up for the Monthly Newsletter — The Boardroom & Bedroom Diaries: https://monica-yates-health.kit.com/54f5a9ff86 ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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470: Men and Money: How Your Love Life Impacts Your Success, Income & Magnetism
If you’re a high-performing woman who wants more money without doing more, this episode reveals why your love life is the missing piece AND your greatest business asset.⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/gBiPJKKtvxA?si=jIZk9ENGFRplVQODMonica’s unpacking the connection between money mindset, feminine leadership, nervous system regulation, and your ability to receive.Here’s a peek at what else she gets into:💸 The connection between receiving from men and receiving money💸 The unconscious patterns that keep you stuck in burnout, overgiving, and hyper-independence.💸 The real reason you feel exhausted (and why it’s not just from overworking)💸 What the root of burnout *actually* is… because it’s not necessarily from doing too much💸 The “inconvenience wound” and how it blocks receiving, support, and abundance💸 How control, guilt, and lack of trust sabotage your relationships and income💸 Why you’ve been conditioned to believe you can’t have BOTH success and a healthy, polarized relationship💸 How your nervous system and trauma patterns impact your ability to make and hold money💸 Powerful journaling prompts to identify where you’re blocking receiving in your life+++++ As Mentioned In The Episode:⇢ Sign up for Monica’s monthly newsletter — The Boardroom & Bedroom Diaries:https://monica-yates-health.kit.com/54f5a9ff86⇢ Dive into Monica’s program — Be a Lover, Not a Mother for just $497: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/be-a-lover-not-a-mother?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=BLNM⇢ Listen next — Podcast Ep. 376: Why You Struggle to Receive Both Inside and Outside the Bedroom (And Exactly What to Do to Change That): https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/376-why-you-struggle-to-receive-both-inside-and-outside-the-bedroom-and-exactly-what-to-do-to-change-that⇢ Listen next — Podcast Ep. 323: How To Be "Empoweredly Submissive" In Your Relationship, Business, & Manifestations - AKA Everything You Need To Know About Softening Into Your Feminine, Boundaries, and Trauma: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/323-how-to-be-empoweredly-submissive-in-your-relationship-business-manifestations-aka-everything-you-need-to-know-about-softening-into-your-feminine-boundaries-and-trauma⇢ Listen next — 329: WWMD: "My Man Won't Lead": https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/329-wwmd-my-man-wont-lead ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directoryRemember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica.This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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469: The Physical Symptoms of Trauma: What Your Body Is Trying to Tell You
From bloating and lower back pain to insomnia, self-sabotage, procrastination and anxiety, and dating/relationship patterns… here’s what your symptoms may actually be telling you.⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GYm9JHRYIEQIn this episode, Monica discusses the most common physical, emotional, and behavioral symptoms of unresolved trauma—and why so many high-achieving women unconsciously normalize their coping mechanisms (or try to explain them away with personality tests and birth charts) instead of actually healing them at the root and clearing them for good.She’s getting into:🦢 Why overthinking and procrastination may actually be trauma responses🦢 Why you keep choosing and tolerating emotionally unavailable men🦢 How childhood patterns create people-pleasing and perfectionism🦢 The hidden reason behind self-sabotage and abandonment cycles🦢 What anxiety, insomnia, and hyper-vigilance are really signaling🦢 How alcohol, avoidance, and numbing disconnect you from your body🦢 The surprising trauma connection behind bloating, tight hips, and back pain🦢 Why real trauma healing isn’t just about managing triggers+++++ As Mentioned In The Episode:⇢ Tickets close Thursday, March 19th — The Immersion: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=immersion-2026⇢ Sign up for the Monthly Newsletter — The Boardroom & Bedroom Diaries: https://monica-yates-health.kit.com/54f5a9ff86 ⇢ Listen next — Podcast Ep. 348: Energetic Reasons for Infertility and Other Period Issues (Painful Periods, PMS, Endometriosis Etc): https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/348-energetic-reasons-for-infertility-and-other-period-issues-painful-periods-pms-endometriosis-etc?_pos=1&_psq=infertility&_ss=e&_v=1.0&_gl=1*18guwkx*_ga*MTIxOTI3NDA1OS4xNzQ4NTM0MjE2*_ga_XEFT8KE3Z9*czE3NzMxNDkyNzUkbzU3JGcxJHQxNzczMTY0NjUwJGo1OSRsMCRoMA.. ⇢ Listen next — Podcast Ep. 351: How to Get What You Want: The Neuroscience of Self-Sabotage and Procrastination: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/351-how-to-get-what-you-want-the-neuroscience-of-self-sabotage-and-procrastination?_pos=1&_psq=procrastination&_ss=e&_v=1.0&_gl=1*kfdtqp*_ga*MTIxOTI3NDA1OS4xNzQ4NTM0MjE2*_ga_XEFT8KE3Z9*czE3NzMxNDkyNzUkbzU3JGcxJHQxNzczMTY0NjcyJGozNyRsMCRoMA..⇢ Listen next — Podcast Ep. 462: Overthinking Is a Trauma Response: Why High-Achieving Women Still Don’t Trust Themselves: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/462-overthinking-is-a-trauma-response-why-high-achieving-women-still-don-t-trust-themselves?_pos=2&_psq=overthinking&_ss=e&_v=1.0&_gl=1*4lyvrz*_ga*MTIxOTI3NDA1OS4xNzQ4NTM0MjE2*_ga_XEFT8KE3Z9*czE3NzMxNDkyNzUkbzU3JGcxJHQxNzczMTY0NzQ0JGo2MCRsMCRoMA.. ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directoryRemember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica.This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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468: Mother Energy vs Lover Energy: The Subtle Dynamics Killing Your Polarity (And How to Change It)
Many high-performing women say they want their man to lead, but their day-to-day behaviors and actions are actually (unknowingly) c*ckblocking his leadership…and it’s time to fix that.⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/KscvKIrBlOk?si=jsUBzZ6aUOrIDPzSIn this episode, Monica’s gifting you a FULL-ON MASTERCLASS on the subtle ways women unintentionally emasculate their partners (and how to stop). You say you want a man who leads. A man who makes you feel safe, claimed, and deeply desired. But you can’t fully surrender to his leadership because your body doesn’t trust it, yet. And until you understand what’s actually creating that dynamic, it’s almost impossible to change it.You’ll learn:❤️🔥 The difference between mother energy and lover energy in romantic relationships❤️🔥 The hidden patterns high-achieving women fall into that shut down masculine leadership❤️🔥 What actually kills polarity and attraction in long-term relationships❤️🔥 Why so many successful women end up feeling like the COO of their household❤️🔥 The nervous system patterns that increase your mental load in relationships❤️🔥 Why awareness alone won’t change unhealthy relationship dynamics❤️🔥 A simple practice to catch and shift emasculating behaviors in the moment+++++ As Mentioned In The Episode:⇢ Download the free PDF — The L.O.V.E.R. Method: https://monicayateshealth.com/products/the-lover-method?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=evergreen⇢ Tickets are now open — The Immersion: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=immersion-2026⇢ Listen now — Podcast Ep. 413: How to Be His Lover, Not His Mother *Even When* You Enjoy Leading + How to Reduce Overwhelm This Year: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/413-how-to-be-his-lover-not-his-mother-even-when-you-enjoy-leading-how-to-reduce-overwhelm-this-year ⇢ Dive into Monica’s program — Be a Lover, Not a Mother: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/be-a-lover-not-a-mother?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=BLNM⇢ Sign up for Monica’s monthly newsletter — The Boardroom & Bedroom Diaries:https://monica-yates-health.kit.com/54f5a9ff86⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directoryRemember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica.This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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467: Why High-Performing Women Struggle to Ask for and Receive Help (And Feel Guilty Resting)
How this relates to motherhood, growth, success, and slowing down || So many high-performing women are burnt out, resenting their partners, feeling disconnected sexually, and struggling with infertility, rough pregnancies, and/or postpartum depression—all while wearing the phrase, “I don’t need help,” like a badge of honour. ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/QqLmAvQqokY?si=zL8v0lTyqBX6V5QX In this episode, Monica’s diving deep into “the productivity blueprint” that keeps women exhausted, anxious, and unable to receive. She’s talking nervous system regulation, guilt around rest, why you can’t surrender in the bedroom, and the deeper reason asking for help feels unsafe. She’s also getting into:🦢 Why burnout is not a badge of honour🦢 Over-functioning and how it kills polarity🦢 Why you totally crash on vacation or when you DO try to slow down and rest🦢 Postpartum anxiety, depression, and the very real cost of not having proper support🦢 Outsourcing your authority instead of trusting your intuition +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Tickets are now open — The Immersion: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=immersion-2026 ⇢ Sign up for Monica’s monthly newsletter — The Boardroom & Bedroom Diaries:https://monica-yates-health.kit.com/54f5a9ff86 ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. ||https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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466: This Is Why You Don’t Get Sustainable Results After Events (Plus, Immersion 2026 Tickets Are Open!)
If you’re a high-performing woman who has “tried everything,” but still feel stuck in the same patterns, this episode is for you. ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/JLfV4d1slV8?si=jyZ6t4p7_0vU203I Monica breaks down why most typical healing practices and events leave women feeling overwhelmed and unintegrated, and why trauma healing (that lasts) requires embodiment and nervous system rewiring, not just awareness or talking about it again and again. In this episode:🥐 Why in-person trauma healing creates results that online programs never can🥐 The difference between healing, integration, and embodiment🥐 Why awareness alone doesn’t create lasting change🥐 The nervous system science behind trauma healing🥐 Why high-performing women stay stuck in survival mode🥐 Real client stories that prove what happens when healing actually sticks🥐 Why “I’ve tried everything” usually means you haven’t tried true somatic healing work🥐 Why this is the final year of the Immersion being open access +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Tickets are now LIVE — The Immersion 2026: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=immersion-2026 ⇢ Watch — Timea’s Testimonial: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DRNC5pFDetK/ ⇢ Watch — Nicole’s Testimonial: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DQ-cwSDEzZv/ ⇢ Watch — What women have said about the Immersion: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o8i0C4K-s0E&list=PLWZMqJ0AFMogjnzSi-_7EdrAXQb8m-sFh&index=2 ⇢ Listen to the episode — 460: This Is the Last Year You’ll See My Business Like This (Behind-The-Scenes of an Identity Shift After Motherhood): https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/460-this-is-the-last-year-you-ll-see-my-business-like-this-behind-the-scenes-of-an-identity-shift-after-motherhood ⇢ Sign up for Monica’s monthly newsletter — The Boardroom & Bedroom Diaries: https://monica-yates-health.kit.com/54f5a9ff86 ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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465: The Trauma Cycle Explained: Why You Keep Repeating the Same Patterns
Exploring the ways trauma is secretly running your life (even if you had a “good” childhood) || “Trauma” has become a buzzword, especially in the personal development space, but most women still don’t *actually* understand what it is or how it’s running their lives. ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/LlFIWVEhvo0?si=T0pejO0LLXw5EeX3 In this episode, Monica explains what trauma really is, how the trauma cycle keeps high-achieving women stuck in control and hyper-independence, and why mindset work alone will never heal your nervous system and fix your problems “at the root.” You’ll hear:🍯 Micro vs. macro trauma, and how both show up in your life and relationships🍯 How perfectionism turns into people-pleasing, passive partners, and resentment🍯 Why you continue to repeat patterns you cognitively know are wrong🍯 Why healthy love feels boring to a dysregulated nervous system🍯 The differences between information, integration, and true embodiment🍯 Why trigger management isn’t trauma healing🍯 How trauma manifests as hyper-control, anxiety, low libido, and chronic health issues +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Join now — Be Claimed: 3-Day Somatic Experience: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/be-claimed?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=bootcamp-2026 ⇢ Hop on the waitlist — The Immersion: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=immersion-2026 ⇢ Apply now — 1:1 Coaching & Healing: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/womens-coaching ⇢ Sign up for Monica’s monthly newsletter — The Boardroom & Bedroom Diaries:https://monica-yates-health.kit.com/54f5a9ff86 ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. ||https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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464: Is Polyamory a Trauma Response? What No One’s Saying About ‘Woke’ Relationships
And why women crave commitment (even if they think they don’t) || In today’s episode, Monica poses the question: What if what’s being marketed as “spiritual evolution” in relationships is actually nervous system dysregulation in disguise?She’s talking about what’s really going on with polyamory, open relationships, and the fear of commitment—especially for women who are ultimately craving safety, devotion, and intimacy. Inside the episode: 🔥 How polyamory can be a trauma response🔥 Abandonment wounds, people-pleasing, and control in modern dating🔥 The difference between freedom and emotional avoidance🔥 Why the feminine needs safety to open and relax🔥 How masculine commitment creates trust and softness🔥 The illusion of safety through control, validation, or having multiple partners🔥 Why drama and dopamine get mistaken for passion🔥 The dark side of spiritualized relationship language🔥 How nervous system dysregulation fuels relational chaos🔥 The ways monogamy can be expansive and erotic +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Join now — Be Claimed: 3-Day Somatic Experience: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/be-claimed?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=bootcamp-2026 ⇢ Hop on the waitlist — The Immersion:https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=immersion-2026 ⇢ Listen to the episode — 366: The Dark Side of Personal Development & How to Know if You’ve Actually Done the Work: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/366-the-dark-side-of-personal-development-how-to-know-if-you-ve-actually-done-the-work?_pos=2&_psq=dark+side&_ss=e&_v=1.0&_gl=1*22ukj8*_ga*MTIxOTI3NDA1OS4xNzQ4NTM0MjE2*_ga_XEFT8KE3Z9*czE3NzA2NjkwMzkkbzY5JGcxJHQxNzcwNjY5MDM5JGo2MCRsMCRoMA.. ⇢ Sign up for Monica’s monthly newsletter — The Boardroom & Bedroom Diaries:https://monica-yates-health.kit.com/54f5a9ff86 ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3DzM7fg5j9Y ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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463: You Can Manifest Money, But Can You Actually Hold It?
And why money mindset isn’t getting you closer to your money goals…⇢ Watch the episode on YouTube now: https://youtu.be/G6CvmLTwLiY?si=4FNAMXZiVXwfwJIu In this episode, Monica breaks down the crucial difference between calling money in and having the nervous system capacity to keep it, grow it, and actually feel safe with it. If money keeps coming in and “disappearing”, you’re looping in an overspending habit, or you’re stuck at the same income level no matter how much “money mindset work” you do—this conversation will connect some dots for you that could change everything. You’ll hear: 🦢 Why money is neutral, and the role your nervous system plays in it🦢 How money trauma shows up as overspending or income caps🦢 Why earning more doesn’t mean having more🦢 How your nervous system pushes money away to feel safe🦢 Why expanders raise your money threshold🦢 Signs you’re at a money ceiling: leaks, bills, and resets🦢 Why regulation isn’t enough and capacity is everything🦢 How family and relationship dynamics shape your wealth🦢 The link between men, the masculine, and money🦢 How money is manifested through the body, not the mind +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode:⇢ Sign up for 3 live days of training & healing — BE CLAIMED: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/be-claimed?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=beclaimed-2026 ⇢ Hop on the waitlist — The Immersion: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=immersion-2026 ⇢ Listen to the episode — 147: Expanders, Codes and Why I Love Pre-Recorded Programs: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/147-expanders-codes-and-why-i-love-pre-recorded-programs?_pos=10&_psq=expand&_ss=e&_v=1.0&_gl=1*fwv8yn*_ga*MTIxOTI3NDA1OS4xNzQ4NTM0MjE2*_ga_XEFT8KE3Z9*czE3NzAyMzQ5NDMkbzYwJGcxJHQxNzcwMjM1MTYxJGo1MCRsMCRoMA ⇢ Sign up for Monica’s monthly newsletter — The Boardroom & Bedroom Diaries:https://monica-yates-health.kit.com/54f5a9ff86 ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. ||Monicayateshealthmonicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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462: Overthinking Is a Trauma Response: Why High-Achieving Women Still Don’t Trust Themselves
Breaking down the psychology and somatics behind why AND how to actually change it || In today’s episode, Monica’s talking about why overthinking develops, how it impacts decision-making, leadership, relationships, and why high-achieving women are especially prone to it. You’ll also learn how overthinking is linked to perfectionism, people-pleasing, fear of failure, the fear of being seen, and a lack of internal safety—and what actually needs to shift to stop spiraling and start trusting yourself. She goes deep into:🪞 Why overthinking is a trauma response, not a personality flaw🪞 How it becomes a survival strategy to avoid mistakes or judgment🪞 The loop between overthinking, perfectionism, and decision paralysis🪞 How leadership, performance pressure, and public visibility create trauma🪞 How fear of being seen or misinterpreted drives people-pleasing at work🪞 Why corporate culture and cancellation fear condition you to self-silence🪞 The difference between intuition and trauma-based fear🪞 Why mindset work isn’t enough to stop spiraling—and what actually works🪞 A simple “no BS” test to know if you actually stand behind what you’re saying🪞 How overthinking damages relationships, creates resentment, and kills polarity +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Hop on the waitlist — The Immersion:https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=immersion-2026 ⇢ Listen to the episode — 385: How to Not Lose Your Independence When You’re in Your Feminine Energy:https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/385-nugget-how-to-not-lose-your-independence-when-you-re-in-your-feminine-energy ⇢ Sign up for Monica’s monthly newsletter — The Boardroom & Bedroom Diaries:https://monica-yates-health.kit.com/54f5a9ff86 ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER:https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/NnKz1UjOViI?si=Sm_VKWJip78BPgzh ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory:https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. ||https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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461: Why High-Achieving Women Struggle to Surrender in Sex, Love, and Relationships with Allana Pratt
Power, polarity, and being ravished… and what feminine leadership actually requires. In this powerful conversation, Monica is joined by author, speaker, and intimacy expert Allana Pratt for an honest and deeply healing exploration of motherhood, sexuality, and what it really takes to be safe in your body as a self-led woman. They talk power, polarity, orgasm, trauma healing, feminine rage, and how to stop looking outside yourself for answers. Together, they help you dismantle the layers of conditioning that keep women out of their pleasure, their leadership, and their ability to surrender. Inside the episode:🔥 Why trauma makes it hard for high-functioning women to receive pleasure🔥 The truth about faking orgasms, people-pleasing, and performative sex🔥 What creates real, embodied intimacy🔥 Why safety is often the missing link for feminine leadership🔥 What “empowered submission” actually means (and why most women misunderstand it)🔥 How to access and process feminine rage without exploding or shutting down🔥 The difference between being ravished and being controlled—and why men can feel it🔥 How to stop outsourcing your power to coaches, men, or external validation🔥 Why trusting yourself is the secret to better sex, deeper love, and real impact🔥 What happens when you stop numbing and start feeling everything +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Connect with Allana: https://www.instagram.com/allanapratt ⇢ Listen to Monica’s Recent Episode on Allana’s Podcast — Reclaiming Your Power and Becoming HER with Monica Yates: https://allanapratt.com/hybrid_podcast/s13-intimate-conversations-reclaiming-your-power-and-becoming-her-with-monica-yates/ ⇢ Download the free PDF — The L.O.V.E.R. Method™: https://monicayateshealth.com/products/the-lover-method?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=evergreen ⇢ Sign up for Monica’s monthly newsletter — The Boardroom & Bedroom Diaries: https://monica-yates-health.kit.com/54f5a9ff86 ⇢ Join the waitlist for Atlanta & Paris in 2026 — The Immersion:https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=immersion-2026 ⇢ Join the waitlist for the next round — Queen Alchemy:https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/queen-alchemy?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=qa-16 ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER:https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QkVXuMchYfI⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory:https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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460: This Is the Last Year You’ll See My Business Like This (Behind-The-Scenes of an Identity Shift After Motherhood)
𝘚𝘤𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢 𝘧𝘦𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘦-𝘭𝘦𝘥 𝘣𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘢𝘧𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘩𝘰𝘰𝘥, 𝘳𝘦𝘥𝘦𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘴𝘶𝘤𝘤𝘦𝘴𝘴, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘴𝘵 (𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘮𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘨𝘯𝘦𝘥) 𝘥𝘦𝘤𝘪𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘐’𝘷𝘦 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘮𝘢𝘥𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘮𝘺 𝘢𝘭𝘮𝘰𝘴𝘵 10 𝘺𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘣𝘶𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴. In this very real, behind-the-scenes, and heartfelt episode, Monica shares how she’s navigating the weird, floaty, emotional in-between where something that’s always worked suddenly “isn’t it anymore.” This isn’t about “finding balance” as a new mum—it’s about how she’s allowed herself to be cracked open by motherhood and realized her old identity (and way of doing business) can’t come into this next season of her life. If you’re in a season where things are changing… There is TONS of wisdom in this one for you. ✨ The identity shift high-achieving women don’t see coming (until it slaps them in the face)✨ Why Queen Alchemy was paused and how the new version will serve your next level✨ What to do when your old self no longer fits, but your next level isn’t fully clear yet✨ The energetic difference between “it still works” and “it’s fully aligned”✨ How to hold yourself when you’re in between two versions of you✨ A powerful metaphor to help you trust any season of uncertainty✨ The truth about “losing yourself” in motherhood—and what you’re actually gaining✨ How motherhood amplifies your feminine power, clarity, and capacity to hold more✨ Why loving your business doesn’t mean you have to keep doing it the same way✨ What it looks like to build a feminine-led business +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Be the first to know when the doors open again — Queen Alchemy: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/queen-alchemy?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=qa-16 ⇢ Hop on the waitlist — The Immersion: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=immersion-2026 ⇢ Get on the waitlist — HER Year: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/her-year-mastermind?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=winter_2026 ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dU7pPfqf5D0 ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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459: What to Do When You Don’t Get What You Manifested in 2025 + the Step You’re Missing When Looking Ahead Into 2026 (A Masterclass)
If your 2025 didn’t go as planned (and the things you 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵 you were manifesting still haven’t shown up), this one’s for you! Today’s episode is a full-on masterclass on the real reason you’re not seeing results and how to actually shift things in 2026. Hot tip: You’re not lacking clarity… you’re actually lacking structure. And without masculine systems behind your vision, the Year of the Fire Horse is going to burn you out instead of fueling your growth and expansion. 𝘕𝘖𝘛𝘌: 𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘮𝘢𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘤𝘭𝘢𝘴𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦𝘭𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘭𝘺 𝘈𝘕𝘠 𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘺𝘦𝘢𝘳, 𝘴𝘰 𝘥𝘰𝘯’𝘵 𝘴𝘬𝘪𝘱 𝘪𝘵 𝘪𝘧 𝘸𝘦’𝘷𝘦 𝘢𝘭𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘥𝘺 𝘮𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘥 𝘱𝘢𝘴𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘕𝘦𝘸 𝘠𝘦𝘢𝘳. 𝘛𝘳𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘭𝘢𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘥 𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘢 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘰𝘯. Inside the episode: 🦢 The most overlooked reason you didn’t manifest what you wanted🦢 Why your vision board isn't working (and how to fix it)🦢 Ego vs heart-aligned manifestations🦢 Why emotional chaos blocks your next level🦢 How your relationship and/or health might be lowering your frequency🦢 Why feminine embodiment needs masculine structure to actually work🦢 Real micro-action steps to build tangible momentum in 2026🦢 What to know about the Year of the Fire Horse and how it can support you🦢 Why NOW is the best time to make a decision +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Doors are open until January 15th!!! — HER Year: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/her-year-mastermind?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=winter_2026 ⇢ Have Qs about HER Year? Catch the replay — Open House: https://monica-yates-health.kit.com/978dae9b3e ⇢ Check out the IG post on — The Difference Between Manifesting From Your Ego Vs From Your Heart: https://www.instagram.com/p/DSa-7ulj3is/ ⇢ Listen to the episode — 409: Our Conception Story | Everything We Did to Prepare and Boost Fertility: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/409-our-conception-story-everything-we-did-to-prepare-and-boost-fertility ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/Ao5gw8WqUxs ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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458: Why You’re Still Waiting to Say YES to the Life You Want
As a high-achieving and self-led woman, it's time to stop using your nervous system, your to-do list, or your calendar as an excuse for why you’re not living the life you say you want. In this quick and powerful episode, Monica calls out the real reason high-achieving women don’t say yes to their next level—and how HER Year isn’t “another program,” but the space where you build the internal and external structure to sustain your next level, not just manifest it. Inside the episode:🪞 The #1 excuse women use that keeps them playing small (and how to stop it)🪞 Why over-prioritizing nervous system regulation is keeping you stuck🪞 The truth about self-sabotage and why you’re not broken🪞 Overcoming procrastination and perfectionism (and how they work together)🪞 What to do when your mind says “no,” but your body says “yes”🪞 How to expand your capacity to hold and sustain your next level🪞 Why HER Year gives you more space, not more to do🪞 The ROI when you invest in long-term, feminine structure and community🪞 How to know it’s your time, even if your fear is loud +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Doors close January 15th — HER Year: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/her-year-mastermind?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=winter_2026 ⇢ Have more Q's about HER Year? Catch the replay — Open House: https://monica-yates-health.kit.com/978dae9b3e (You can also always email us your questions directly at [email protected]!) ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/xD8pIXGBFRs ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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457: How Embodied Feminine Leadership Changed My Relationship, Career, and Confidence
A personal, living case study on becoming the woman I always talk about helping others become || We’re flipping the script today and sharing an interview where the beautiful Louise of the “Healing Honeys” podcast hosted Monica to hear all about HER personal healing, business journey, and feminine embodiment path—not just the highlight reel of how she got to where she is today, but the real nitty gritty she hasn’t shared anywhere else. If you’ve ever looked at Monica’s life and thought “must be nice,” this is your reminder that even in the mess, the “wtf” moments, the rebuild, and the unknown—it’s all happening FOR you. And, honestly, this is what the path of true feminine leadership and nervous system healing really looks like. INSIDE THE EPISODE:💅 How a food blog and a missing period became Monica’s wake-up call to deeper healing💅 What actually happens in your body when you fully surrender💅 The sneaky ways stress hides in high-functioning women💅 When “doing the work” becomes a new form of self-abandonment💅 The myth of balance when you’re the breadwinner💅 How letting go of control was the key to building real confidence💅 The truth about building a business when you secretly want to burn it all down💅 Why feminine women keep choosing unavailable men (and it’s not your fault)💅 The subtle difference between being empowered and just being in control💅 Why trauma healing without embodiment keeps you stuck in over-responsibility, resentment, and masculine energy +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode:⇢ Listen to the original episode on Louise's Healing Honeys Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/episode/68xDJSWvKt8HMmKNHyurp2?si=szfTRrDSSoihQgu4_eaxVw ⇢ Doors are open for 2026!! (save $600 until December 18th) — HER Year: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/her-year-mastermind?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=winter_2026 ⇢ Watch the FREE Masterclass — How to Have Him Lead You: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/how-to-have-him-lead-you-masterclass?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=lead-you-mc ⇢ Hop on the waitlist — The Immersion: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=immersion-2026 ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/kFAHT0NjZvs ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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456: 2026 Industry Predictions, Feminine Leadership, Community as an Expander and HER Year Is Closing Soon for 2026
If 2025 was not what you expected, this is your reminder that 2026 gets to feel different. In this episode, Monica breaks down her predictions for the coaching industry, what women are actually craving in the age of AI, and why feminine leadership, embodiment, and community are absolutely non-negotiables for expansion this year. INSIDE THE EPISODE:👑 2026 energy forecast (and what to prioritize)👑 Why nervous system-led growth is the new “strategy”👑 How in-person connection will separate leaders from noise👑 The truth about long-term mentorship and feminine power👑 Behind-the-scenes of HER Year, the brand-new upgrades, and why this experience is unlike anything else out there NOTE: HER Year enrollment is closing soon (January 15, 2026)—this episode will help you decide if it’s meant for you. +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Doors are open for 2026 — HER Year: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/her-year-mastermind?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=winter_2026 ⇢ Hop on the waitlist — The Immersion: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=immersion-2026 ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/FdQyvqkHtlU ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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455: Are You Your Own Bottleneck? The Real Reason You’re Not Expanding (Yet)
The part your nervous system plays in getting the "more" you say you want || In this nugget episode, Monica asks one of the most important and powerful questions you’ll face on your feminine leadership journey: “How am I being my own bottleneck?” ... aka how am I holding myself back from what I want? If you’re feeling any sort of resistance in your business, your healing, your relationship, or your expansion… this one could change everything. INSIDE THE EPISODE:👑 How to spot the ways you are subconsciously limiting your growth👑 What most women get wrong about productivity👑 Why your ego is terrified of your next level—and how to lead yourself through it👑 Why “doing more” isn’t the answer (and what actually is)👑 The truth about "doing the work," ROI, and redefining success👑 How nervous system regulation and small shifts in your masculine structure create massive expansion👑 Why community is the most underrated portal to receiving more👑 What it actually means to lead yourself like HER +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Doors are open for 2026 — HER Year: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/her-year-mastermind?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=winter_2026 ⇢ Hop on the waitlist — The Immersion: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=immersion-2026 ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/OR7ER979EqU ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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454: Merry Christmas! (How to Create Your Own Dream Holiday)
Plus, a reminder about committing to your desires before the year ends. If you’re having the Christmas of your dreams, amazing. And if you’re not—this is your loving reminder that you still get to show up for yourself and create the holiday you actually want. INSIDE THIS NUGGET:🎄 What to do if you're spending Christmas alone or if this time of year feels especially hard for you🎄 What it means to choose yourself instead of waiting to be chosen🎄 The feminine reframe that helps you enjoy right now🎄 Why your joy doesn’t have to depend on anyone else this year🎄 A nudge to say yes, take up space, book the trip, and create your own magic🎄 How to stay in your feminine even when life feels off +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Listen to last year's guided Christmas meditation — Episode 412: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/412-how-to-make-this-your-ideal-christmas-a-guided-meditation-for-the-holiday-season ⇢ Doors are open now for 2026 — HER Year: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/her-year-mastermind?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=winter_2026 ⇢ Grab the Embodiment Manifestation Practice — NYE Bundle: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/nye-bundle?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=nye-bundle-2026 ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/JOyb-SjaXgw ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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453: How to Know You’ve Done “Enough” Healing Work (And Why Expansion Doesn’t Have to Wait for Perfect)
Spoiler Alert: You don’t have to be fully healed to manifest what you want. In this episode, Monica breaks down one of the most asked questions she gets: “How do I know if I’ve done 'enough' healing to call in more—love, money, confidence, ease?” And, quite frankly, the personal development obsession with “fixing yourself forever” is keeping so many women stuck in a perpetual sense of not-enoughness. A feeling that they must earn their next level by being perfectly regulated, perfectly healed, and perfectly processed. NO, just no. And let’s be honest, staying out of your next level until you’re “fully healed” is just perfectionism. So, if you’ve been stuck in the healing loop or waiting to heal "enough" before taking action, this is likely the wake-up call you didn’t even know you needed. INSIDE THE EPISODE:💫 How to know when you're healed “enough” to move forward💫 Why waiting to be "fully healed" keeps you playing small💫 The difference between healing and expanding (and why both can coexist)💫 Signs you’re avoiding growth by staying in the trauma loop💫 What it really takes to become HER now, not some day in the future💫 The ways that nervous system safety plays into your next level💫 The power of making decisions before you feel ready💫 The actual goal of healing (hint: it’s not perfection) +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Doors are open for 2026!! (save $600 until December 18th) — HER Year: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/her-year-mastermind?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=winter_2026 ⇢ Read the email that inspired the episode — "How do I know if I've done 'enough' healing to be ready for expansion?": https://view.flodesk.com/emails/6937300c738149238bc061ff ⇢ Hop on the waitlist — The Immersion: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=immersion-2026 ⇢ Be the first to know when she’s back — Queen Alchemy: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/queen-alchemy?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=qa-16 ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/uPi8veJYq30 ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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452: Self-Discipline for Women: How to Lead Yourself Without Losing Your Feminine
Why “go with the flow” feminine energy is making you more anxious (not less) || If you keep swinging between hyper-productive and totally checked out, this episode unpacks the real reason behind your procrastination, emotional overwhelm, and why typical productivity hacks don’t work for women—especially those trying to stay in their feminine. Inside the episode:🪞 The real difference between masculine and feminine discipline🪞 Why discipline feels triggering or suffocating for many women🪞 How lack of internal structure creates chaos in your mind, emotions, and body🪞 The connection between discipline and rebuilding self-trust🪞 Why feminine discipline requires devotion, not pressure🪞 How your relationship with the masculine impacts your routines🪞 What it means to set boundaries with yourself (and why it matters)🪞 Why women can’t follow rigid routines like men🪞 The role of your intuition and your cycle when it comes to discipline🪞 What feminine leadership actually looks like in everyday life +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Doors are open for 2026!! (save $600 until December 18th) — HER Year: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/her-year-mastermind?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=winter_2026 ⇢ Hop on the waitlist — The Immersion: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=immersion-2026 ⇢ Be the first to know when she’s back — Queen Alchemy: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/queen-alchemy?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=qa-16 ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/9ZwrgHusKZs ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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451: Why One in Four Women Are on Antidepressants: What No One’s Telling You with Dr. Kelly Brogan
In this episode, Monica sits down with holistic psychiatrist, NYT bestselling author, and mum of two daughters, Dr. Kelly Brogan, to unpack why so many successful women feel numb, disconnected, anxious, and unfulfilled—even after “achieving the dream life.” They talk about the secret cost of being “high-functioning,” the trauma of over-mothering and over-performing, the truth about antidepressants and emotional suppression, and why reclaiming your feminine is the key to unlocking embodied safety, pleasure, and power. ALSO INSIDE THE CONVERSATION:👄 Why your child doesn’t owe you love, respect, or even a birthday card👄 The difference between performing motherhood vs. embodying it👄 The hidden trauma behind praise, gold stars, and “good girl” parenting👄 How school disconnects kids from their bodies👄 Letting your child say “no”—without losing control👄 Why over-giving is really about feeling safe👄 How overachieving is actually a trauma response👄 The grief of realizing success isn’t true fulfillment👄 Reclaiming your feminine without becoming a tradwife👄 The feminine art of doing less, receiving more, and feeling safe +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Connect with Dr. Kelly Brogan: https://www.instagram.com/kellybroganmd/ ⇢ Hop on the waitlist — HER Year (2026): https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/her-year-mastermind?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=winter_2026 ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/cCmAm0JcCrE ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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450: Why Women Secretly Crave to Be Claimed, Dominated, and Desired (And Why Men Aren’t Stepping Up)
The conversation most people are too scared to have, especially in today’s world… You’re not crazy for wanting to be claimed. You’re not broken for craving to be pushed up against a wall, devoured, and told “𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘳𝘦 𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘦” (by a safe man). And today’s episode will explain the fact that you’re definitely not alone in these desires—there’s biology, research, polarity, and lived experience that help explain exactly why women, especially powerful women, crave this level of masculine presence and leadership. INSIDE THE EPISODE:🔥 The primal craving that most women are ashamed to admit🔥 How equality killed polarity (and what to do about it)🔥 The hidden cost of “doing it all” and why your body is begging to let go🔥 How your masculine energy might be training him to stay passive🔥 Why your desire to be dominated is actually a sign of inner safety🔥 The hormonal ripple effect of being in your masculine all day🔥 Embodied submission vs performative femininity🔥 Why men are pulling away (and how you can call them forward)🔥 What you actually need to shift if you want to feel feminine, desired, and turned on again +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Tune into the free masterclass — How to Have Him Lead You:https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/how-to-have-him-lead-you-masterclass?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=lead-you-mc ⇢ Get your early access ticket now (or join the waitlist) — 2026 The Immersion: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=atlanta-2025 ⇢ Hop on the waitlist — HER Year (2026): https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/her-year-mastermind?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=winter_2026 ⇢ Listen to the episode — 323: How To Be "Empoweredly Submissive" In Your Relationship, Business, & Manifestations: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/323-how-to-be-empoweredly-submissive-in-your-relationship-business-manifestations-aka-everything-you-need-to-know-about-softening-into-your-feminine-boundaries-and-trauma ⇢ Check the IG Reel on women getting so desperate they’re stealing men’s salads: https://www.instagram.com/p/DRN2_NiD05O/ ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/fHt7JfIqi0I?si=Ll39i7NTA9ofM8kU ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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449: Feminine vs Masculine Communication: Why He Can’t Hear You (and How to Fix It)
Ever feel like no matter how much you try to communicate your needs, your partner just doesn’t “get you?” In today’s episode, Monica dives into what really happens when two people love each other deeply but still can’t seem to meet each other’s emotional needs. Breaking down what causes couples to drift into resentment, the truth about the “50/50” mindset, and how communication rooted in masculine and feminine dynamics can either heal or hurt the polarity in your relationship. More inside today’s episode:🌹 The real reason couples feel misunderstood—even when they’re both trying.🌹 How male and female biology shape the way each experiences emotion🌹 The difference between feminine and masculine communication🌹 What feminine vs masculine communication actually looks like🌹 Navigating miscommunication and differing emotional needs🌹 When it’s time to stop “nagging” and start inviting his leadership🌹 The truth that your partner will never fully understand you (and why that’s okay)🌹 How hyperindependent women can avoid miscommunication with men who want to lead🌹 How men can communicate in a way that makes her melt instead of pissing her off🌹 Real examples of how to repolarize your relationship through communication +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Lover framework downloadable PDF — https://monicayateshealth.com/products/the-l-o-v-e-r-method%E2%84%A2?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=evergreen ⇢ Get your early access ticket now (or join the waitlist) — 2026 The Immersion: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=atlanta-2025 ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/5cxXhsG7LyA?si=znjUTJN64aaZCX2M ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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448: Masculine Maturity, Healthy Risk, Raising Sons, and Why Men Struggle in Love Today with Connor Beaton
A profound conversation we rarely have about men || In today’s episode, we’re joined (for a second time!) by Connor Beaton—founder of ManTalks, author, facilitator, and father of two—to talk about why so many men feel stuck, what most women get wrong about masculinity, and the real reason your partner might not be initiating sex. Whether you’re raising boys, dating one, or married to one, this is what you need to know. They go deeper on:🔥 Why fathers should discipline sons and mothers should discipline daughters—and what happens when that gets flipped🔥 The quiet confusion boys carry when mum tells him how to be a man… and then, is in a relationship with the opposite🔥 The #1 way mums unknowingly emasculate their sons—and what to do instead🔥 Why so many men today are struggling in relationships (and what women can do without turning into their coach)🔥 Why so many “nice guys” are secretly angry, resentful, and sexually shut down🔥 The hidden trauma behind porn addiction, risk aversion, and avoidant behavior in men🔥 How women are confusing standards with unrealistic expectations in dating🔥 What self-sabotage actually is and how it plays out in men’s lives🔥 What a modern male initiation can look like and how to support your sons in theirs🔥 The overlooked reason men pull away emotionally (even when they want to show up)🔥 The difference between helping your man grow… and accidentally mothering him +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Connect with Connor: https://www.instagram.com/mantalks/ ⇢ Listen to Monica’s recent episode on Conor’s podcast — Why Relationships Can’t be 50/50: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2GWM96tltDJwy3bGs8KQTx?si=fc19ccfbdc1943c6&nd=1&dlsi=bd5180cb55dc4c38 ⇢ Connor’s first episode on Feminine As F*ck back in 2020: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/114-for-men-cacao-convos-with-connor-beaton-shadow-work-sexual-trauma-military-men-and-using-pain-as-your-purpose ⇢ Another podcast episode on the topic of “empowered women and ‘when no man is enough’” (can also search in the podcast directory for more): https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/323-how-to-be-empoweredly-submissive-in-your-relationship-business-manifestations-aka-everything-you-need-to-know-about-softening-into-your-feminine-boundaries-and-trauma ⇢ Get your early access ticket now (or join the waitlist) — 2026 The Immersion: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=atlanta-2025 ⇢ Men, start your healing journey inside — The Man: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/the-man ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/Cw13xOv__5I?si=W4dTDMGDR1bXZ9QU ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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447: Burnout Is Not a Badge of Honour: How Hyper-Successful Women Are Blocking Their Man’s Leadership
Why your success, control, and mental load are killing polarity (and what to do about it) || In this episode, Monica unpacks the root causes of burnout in hyper-successful women—not just the exhaustion, but the nervous system patterns that drive it. She unpacks how chronic over-achieving, mental load, and a refusal to ask for help become blocks that impact your health, your business, and your relationship. From nervous system dysregulation to running the entire household while still expecting him to lead, this conversation exposes what’s actually keeping you stuck in your masculine, and why your current version of “success” might be the very thing disconnecting you from your feminine, your man, and your peace. More inside the episode:🔥The dangers of only resting and slowing down when you’re sick🔥The invisible weight of mental load and learning to actually ask for help🔥How rest can be productive and why it’s essential for sustainable success🔥What you’re really making “asking for help” mean about you🔥Building systems that hold you at home, in business, in life🔥The obsession with being “high-value” and how it’s showing up in dating🔥Why embracing your softness doesn’t make you less capable🔥The ways you’re blocking your man from leading without knowing it🔥Monica’s wedding vows to Hal and how they reflect true partnership +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Listen to the episode — 256: How to be a feminine woman that's also a highly successful one:https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/256-how-to-be-a-feminine-woman-thats-also-a-highly-successful-one ⇢ Hit play on episode — 444: October Theory: How to Quantum Leap and Become HER by the End of the Year:https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/444-october-theory-how-to-quantum-leap-and-become-her-by-the-end-of-the-year ⇢ Binge the relationship & dating episodes here —https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/tagged/relationships-polarity ⇢ Dive inside — The Embodiment of Dating Masterclass:https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/the-embodiment-of-dating?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=evergreen_general ⇢ Don’t miss out on any updates for — HER Year:https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/her-year-mastermind?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=waitlist-2025 ⇢ Hop on the waitlist for — The Immersion:https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=atlanta-2025 ⇢ Join the waitlist for — Queen Alchemy:https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/queen-alchemy?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=qa-16 ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER:https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/zlqCQPch3nY?si=vQ42zR6W3lc2Ffx7 ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory:https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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446: The Juggle of Business and Motherhood: What’s Actually Working For Me
In this episode, Monica gives you the real truth about coming back to work post-baby, navigating mum life, and why her business feels more on fire than ever. If you’re a high-achieving woman who wants to be a mother (or already is) without losing herself, this will show you what’s actually possible when you’re prepared, supported, and resourced from inside out. What she goes inside the episode:☀️ A sneak peek BTS of what it’s been like returning to work after maternity leave☀️ The dance between being a mum and a business owner☀️ What shifted in Monica’s business, her boundaries, and her self-worth post-baby☀️ Why this season feels more expansive than ever☀️ Embracing surrender and flexibility in calling your manifestation☀️ The importance of masculine structure in all areas of your life☀️ Healing and preparation for motherhood☀️ Why your self-care is no longer optional, especially as a mum☀️ Practical examples of being resourceful in asking and receiving help during motherhood☀️ How healing before major life transitions changes the entire experience☀️ Letting go of the pressure to be “understood” by your man☀️The truth about postpartum rage, broken toes, spit-up in team meetings, and how Monica is choosing JOY in all of it +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Listen to the episode — 418: Manifesting Your Man, Turning Up the Polarity & Breaking Through Your “Zones”: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/418-manifesting-your-man-turning-up-the-polarity-breaking-through-your-zones ⇢ Shop Monica's top picks — CYMBIOTIKA Natural & Organic Supplements: https://partners.cymbiotika.com/MONICAYATESHEALTH ⇢ Watch the episode — Our Conception Story | Everything We Did to Prepare and Boost Fertility: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3utoG7TTVII⇢ Watch the episode — Birth Q&A: All Things Home Birth, Pain Relief, Practitioners, and Preparing Your Man: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EvuWb291D-g⇢ Don’t miss out on any updates for — HER Year: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/her-year-mastermind?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=waitlist-2025 ⇢ Hop on the waitlist for — The Immersion: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=atlanta-2025 ⇢ Join the waitlist for — Queen Alchemy: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/queen-alchemy?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=qa-16 ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/QglBC6mz05s?si=W3IG1YFsvcvhENFC ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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445: Feminine Energy, Modern Dating & the Death of Polarity with Cristina Cataman
AKA the high-achieving woman’s dilemma in our modern world || In this episode, Monica is joined by Cristina Cataman—digital creator, spicy truth-teller, and host of the Catamania podcast—for a rich and honest conversation about traditional values, cultural clashes, relationship dynamics, and dealing with cancel culture while protecting your energy and staying true to yourself. More on what they talked about:💋 What happens when polarity is natural, and what’s killing it in the West💋 The clash between traditional values and a modern world💋 Cristina’s journey from a corporate career to embracing her feminine side💋 Being a powerful woman without competing with your man💋 Navigating career pivots, money roles, and growing in partnership💋 How women overthink their growth (and how it’s costing them)💋 How to hold your power online without caving to cancel culture💋 Trusting your intuition when logic doesn’t make sense💋 Why action precedes confidence—and how to just start +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Connect with Cristina: https://www.instagram.com/cristinacataman/ ⇢ Listen to Monica’s episode in Cristina’s podcast — Cultivating Femininity In Women: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cultivating-femininity-in-women-monica-yates/id1609694116?i=1000701764135 ⇢ Don’t miss out on any updates for — HER Year: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/her-year-mastermind?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=waitlist-2025 ⇢ Hop on the waitlist for — The Immersion: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=atlanta-2025 ⇢ Join the waitlist for — Queen Alchemy: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/queen-alchemy?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=qa-16 ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/gAVpy-UiGB4?si=mON2U6C7o2dhcx7x ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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444: October Theory: How to Quantum Leap and Become HER by the End of the Year
Get ready to have a FIRE lit under your booty to end the year strong!! If you’re in the mood to collapse time, embody the version of you that already has what she wants, and step into a new level of results before the year ends—heck, even before the week ends—this episode is for you! Monica is peeling back the layers of a super juicy voice message she sent to a 1:1 client recently on how to shift your energy and light a fire under your ass so you can quantum leap and manifest insane results in literally a fraction of the time. Whether you’re growing a business, manifesting a major promotion, or entering a new season entirely… Monica’s breaking down how to powerfully lead yourself into YOUR next level. INSIDE THE EPISODE: 🔥 Why “vibing” isn’t enough (and how to take aligned action that actually moves the needle)🔥 How to create an environment that aligns with your future self🔥 Learning your personal catalysts for quantum leaping🔥 How to use fear as fuel, instead of shrinking and playing small🔥 What keeps women stuck even when they’ve done the healing work🔥 The unfiltered truth about “soft girl” era myths🔥 The power of saying yes before you feel fully ready or confident🔥 What’s blocking your abundance from flowing, and what to release now🔥 The power of community, proximity, and expansion +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Don’t miss out on any updates for — HER Year: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/her-year-mastermind?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=waitlist-2025 ⇢ Hop on the waitlist for — The Immersion: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=atlanta-2025 ⇢ Shop Peekay's Herbs — https://peekaysherbs.com/ (use code MONICA20 to save $$$)⇢ Join the waitlist for — Queen Alchemy: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/queen-alchemy?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=qa-16 ⇢ Have a look at Monica’s iconic NYC luxury Tribeca Condo Tour: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0CBtW-iImQc ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/Ch4m0RcXq-0?si=iMZnqpzT_WnRY51i ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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443: How to Make Aligned, Nourishing Friendships as an Adult
Ooooof, making friends as an adult can feel HARD. If you’re tired of surface friendships, you’re craving deeper connections, and/or you’re secretly judging yourself for not having found “your people” yet... you’re going to seriously love this one. Let’s just say that this episode is essentially a masterclass on *how to* make aligned friendships as an adult and tangible tips to grow your community. Monica goes deep into the energetics of effort, sisterhood wounding, navigating new seasons like motherhood or moving cities, and how your nervous system literally decides whether friendship feels safe or not. She’s also getting into: 🤍 How to tell if a friendship is aligned or just comfortable🤍 The trap of over-identifying with the “I’m better because I’ve done the work” energy🤍 What to do when you’re the one always making the effort🤍 The invisible ways we block connection when we don’t feel safe to be ourselves🤍 How to build soul-aligned friendships when you're in a new city or season🤍 The sneaky ways sisterhood wounds show up (and how to start healing them)🤍 Why you need to stop looking for people who are “just like you”🤍 The importance of seasonal alignment in friendships🤍 How to know when to let go of friendships that don’t feel good anymore🤍 Somatic tips for starting richer & deeper conversations +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Listen to the episode — 366: The Dark Side of Personal Development & How to Know if You’ve Actually Done the Work: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/366-the-dark-side-of-personal-development-how-to-know-if-you-ve-actually-done-the-work?_pos=6&_psq=The+dark+side+of+personal+development&_ss=e&_v=1.0&_gl=1*2y1is0*_ga*NzY0NzA0NTk4LjE3NTUyMTg1NjA.*_ga_XEFT8KE3Z9*czE3NTk3NzE3MDMkbzk5JGcxJHQxNzU5NzcyMDA3JGo1OCRsMCRoMA.. ⇢ Hop on the waitlist for — HER Year: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/her-year-mastermind?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=waitlist-2025 ⇢ Don’t miss out on any updates for — The Immersion: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=atlanta-2025 ⇢ Join the waitlist for — Queen Alchemy: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/queen-alchemy?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=qa-16 ⇢ Connect with Amanda at [email protected] to have your name on the list when tickets become available for the London Book launch party! ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/huzwnNEKyS0?si=czOj17jOUsKRaz1b ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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442: Why You Stay in Unhealthy Relationships And What It *Actually* Takes to Break Free
With October being Domestic Violence Awareness Month, Monica unpacks the trauma-driven dynamics and layered complexities of unhealthy relationships—because violence isn’t always physical. It can also be emotional and mental, and its subtle patterns can chip away at your self-worth, intuition, and power over time. And we all deserve a relationship that actually feels like peace. Here’s what she’s getting into: 💦 The power of language and adding labels to ourselves💦 Why you keep attracting the same type of man over and over💦 The complexity of leaving an unhealthy relationship💦 The fundamental components of a healthy relationship💦 Honoring your needs in a relationship, and what happens if you don’t💦 The psychology of trauma bonds💦 How your trauma chooses your partner before you do💦 The missing ingredient in your boundaries (and why most women don’t know how to follow through) IMPORTANT NOTE: If you’re in a physically abusive situation and need immediate support, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233 or visit thehotline.org. You are not alone, and help is available. +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Listen to the episode — 401: It Ends With Us: Monica’s Unfiltered Breakdown of THE Movie & Book of the Year: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/401-it-ends-with-us-monica-s-unfiltered-breakdown-of-the-movie-book-of-the-year?_pos=1&_psq=it+ends+with+us&_ss=e&_v=1.0&_gl=1*k718c2*_ga*NzY0NzA0NTk4LjE3NTUyMTg1NjA.*_ga_XEFT8KE3Z9*czE3NTkxOTc0MjEkbzg2JGcxJHQxNzU5MTk3NDI1JGo1NiRsMCRoMA.. ⇢ Listen to the episode — 285: Are they a narcissist?: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/285-are-they-a-narcissist?_pos=1&_psq=narcissist&_ss=e&_v=1.0&_gl=1*1dpxe86*_ga*NzY0NzA0NTk4LjE3NTUyMTg1NjA.*_ga_XEFT8KE3Z9*czE3NTkxOTc0MjEkbzg2JGcxJHQxNzU5MTk3NDM4JGo0MyRsMCRoMA.. ⇢ Hop on the waitlist for — HER Year: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/her-year-mastermind?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=waitlist-2025 ⇢ Don’t miss out on any updates for — The Immersion: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=atlanta-2025 ⇢ Join the waitlist for — Queen Alchemy: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/queen-alchemy?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=qa-16 ⇢ Get in the Boundaries masterclass: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/boundaries-masterclass?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=evergreen_general ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/NZFsr3Sbzz0?si=Xag5lcWVQdCrcRdZ ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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441: How to Hold Both Motherhood *and* Ambition as a CEO Raising Babies with Cait Scudder
The complexities of balancing ambition and motherhood… a hot topic in today’s world! There’s still this unspoken fear (and guilt) that you have to choose between business and babies, the mission and motherhood, the million-dollar months and the slow mornings snuggled up with your babies. In this conversation, Monica, joined by Cait Scudder from The Millionaire Mother, goes deep on what it actually looks like to hold both: being a present mother AND a successful CEO. Inside the conversation:💸 Navigating through identity shifts when your ambition meets motherhood💸 How to stop fearing change when it's actually leading you to your most aligned self💸 One thing so many ambitious women still struggle to let themselves receive💸 Why limitations don’t mean less success—they just call for more creativity💸 What makes some women fall into martyr-mode AND how to stop that spiral before it starts💸 How to stop trying to fit into the “right” camp of motherhood and find what works for you +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Sign-up for the free Motherhood xAmbition Summit: myrootabl.com/r/ek6o1CjS?rootabl=monicayates ⇢ Connect with Cait Scudder: https://www.instagram.com/themillionairemother/ ⇢ Listen to the episode — 439: My BirthStory: A Positive Unmedicated Home Birth: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/439-my-birth-story-a-positive-unmedicated-home-birth ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/GkTkV-Mr1y0?si=rHjf2-p3iTfnNh06 ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved.|| https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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440: Birth Q&A: All Things Home Birth, Pain Relief, Practitioners, and Preparing Your Man
Monica sits down to answer your juicyquestions on alllllll things birth! From choosing health practitioners,how much home birth costs, handling family reactions, tearing during birth, ifthey ended up doing the deep throat technique (yes, obviously, someone asked,and Monica naturally answered with zero filter, lol), and more. This one will paint an honest pictureabout what women’s bodies are actually capable of when they feel safe,supported, and unafraid. If you’re preparing for birth, healingfrom a past one, or even just curious about what even IS a positive birth… thisconversation is exactly what you’ve been waiting for!! Questions answered:🤍 All about your home birth decision. Were you ever afraid of not being ina hospital? (02:09)🤍 Any support you really leaned on: supplements, teas, acupuncture,Chinese medicine? (05:18)🤍 What courses do you recommend taking to have a great birth? (09:20)🤍 The best tool or thing you did for pain relief (15:33)🤍 How did you deal with the potentially negative family reactions to yourbirth plan? (19:17)🤍 How to keep your mind positive and not fall into the fear of theunknown? (24:10)🤍 How much did your home birth cost? (30:20)🤍 Why did I have a doula? (36:48)🤍 How to prevent tearing. (38:49)🤍 Did you choose to leave the placenta connected for a while beforecutting? (40:30)🤍 Was there any fear going into labour? (40:38)🤍 How did you decide on the best practitioners for you? (44:24)🤍 Any quiet days, movement-wise? (47:09)🤍 Did I know when I was going through transition? (51:13)🤍 Any questions around prepping to fall pregnant? (52:10)🤍 What helped you stay most in the zone and surrender? (52:17)🤍 For the points that you felt like you could not do it, what helped youthrough? (54:57)🤍 Was Tripp communicating to you during labour? (59:18)🤍 Did you do the deep throat technique? (59:56)🤍 How did you convince Hal to be okay with the home birth? (01:03:38) Timestamps: +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Get on the waitlist — PostpartumMasterclass: https://monicayates.myflodesk.com/n0iun6xpn8 ⇢ Get instant access to the MUSEMasterclass — https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/muse-masterclass ⇢ Shop Peekay's Herbs — https://peekaysherbs.com/(use code MONICA20 to save $$$) ⇢ Listen to the episode — 436: NotEverything Needs to Be Said: The Energetics of Unsolicited Advice: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/436-not-everything-needs-to-be-said-the-energetics-of-unsolicited-advice?_pos=3&_psq=unsolicited+&_ss=e&_v=1.0&_gl=1*fvzx8p*_ga*NzY0NzA0NTk4LjE3NTUyMTg1NjA.*_ga_XEFT8KE3Z9*czE3NTg2NTA1MzIkbzczJGcxJHQxNzU4NjU0Mzk4JGoyNCRsMCRoMA.. ⇢ Listen to the episode — 409: OurConception Story | Everything We Did to Prepare and Boost Fertility: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/409-our-conception-story-everything-we-did-to-prepare-and-boost-fertility?_pos=1&_psq=conception&_ss=e&_v=1.0&_gl=1*17rxyae*_ga*NzY0NzA0NTk4LjE3NTUyMTg1NjA.*_ga_XEFT8KE3Z9*czE3NTg2NTA1MzIkbzczJGcxJHQxNzU4NjU1Mzc3JGo1OCRsMCRoMA.. ⇢ Read more on the blog — ConceptionPrep For An Easy Pregnancy: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/womens-health/conception-prep-for-an-easy-pregnancy?_pos=1&_sid=161143f48&_ss=r ⇢ Get on the waitlist — HER Year: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/her-year-mastermind?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=waitlist-2025⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/EvuWb291D-g?si=uFQtUklGBKZBA1Wr Remember to leave a written review onApple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive anexclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content iscopyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved.|| https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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439: My Birth Story: A Positive Unmedicated Home Birth
And just like that… the podcast returns with the full birth story you’ve all been waiting for!! From the first contractions to the moment she pulled him onto her chest—this is the real, unfiltered version. No sugar-coating, no drama. Just Monica sharing her experience of what it looks like to give birth when your nervous system feels safe, your body knows what todo, and your man is holding it down beside you. The intensity, the surrender, the stuff no one tells you… It’s everything you wanted to know and more! NOTE: Watch on YouTube for the sweetest, most beautiful version with video footage from the actual birth so you can see it as Monica talks about it! Inside the episode:👶 Why safety is the #1 factor for an easier birth👶 The conversation Monica had with her birth team that changed everything👶 How nervous system expansion actually showed up in the contractions👶 What no one talks about when you're in the waiting phase👶 Why another woman’s presence during birth made such a difference👶 What cervical checks look/feel like in a home birth👶 The intense “circuit” Monica had to do to help with baby positioning👶 What helped Monica release energy between contractions and stay grounded👶 The wild intuition she had right before Tripp came through👶 Why voicing your fear is so essential—emotionally, mentally, physically👶 The final moments… and how Hal’s presence shifted it all👶 Postpartum support, healing, and the first sacred hours with baby Tripp +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Read the blog — Birth Q&A Part 1:https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/lifestyle/birth-q-a-part-1-how-i-prepared-for-my-dream-home-birth ⇢ Read the blog — Birth Q&A Part 2:https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/lifestyle/birth-q-a-part-2-2-postpartum-motherhood-and-how-i-asked-for-support ⇢ Check the recipe — Fruit GelatinGummies: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/recipe/gelatin-gummies ⇢ Check the recipe — Gluten-FreeChocolate Chip Cookies (with Collagen): https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/recipe/collagen-chocolate-chip-cookies ⇢ Shop — Lumebox 2.0 (use code:“monicayateshealth” for $260 off): https://thelumebox.com/pages/lb68/?_ef_transaction_id=1107208921b34743a404244513b4b5c3&__cc=monicayateshealth ⇢ Shop — Peekay’s Blood Bank (Use code"MONICA20"): https://peekaysherbs.com/products/blood-bank ⇢ Shop — Peekay’s Yummy Mummy (Use code"MONICA20"): https://peekaysherbs.com/products/yummy-mummy ⇢ Watch the vlog — Everything I Got forBaby | Nesting, Organizing & Non-Toxic Product Faves: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBbhhWb9eXw ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/SqQwwC2he_A?si=0dMbJ2RB0D-u5V5J ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review onApple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive anexclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content iscopyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved.|| https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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438: I’m on Maternity Leave: All the Details & How to Get Support Whilst I’m Away (Podcast Will Return Sept 24)
And just like that… the Feminine As F*ck podcast is officially on break whilst Monica’s away on maternity leave. ***You can expect fresh, new weekly episodes to return Wednesday, September 24, 2025.*** INSIDE THIS EPISODE: 💕 All the ways you can stay supported whilst Monica’s away💕 Where to plug in + what to catch up on to make the most of this time💕 How our team here at MYH is prepped to take the BEST care of you!! FINAL NOTE: Monica will still be sharing life updates on IG Stories (postpartum & Europe adventures!) and the rest of the MYH team is here if you need support. This pause is a portal—soak up the content you’ve been bookmarking and swearing you’ll get back to, rest, integrate, and she’ll see you back here in September! xx +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode — ⇢ Join the Email List — Maternity Leave Updates: https://monicayates.myflodesk.com/n0iun6xpn8 ⇢ Get a Curated List of Top Episodes — DM “🍍” on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth ⇢ Browse the Podcast Directory — Search by Topic/Pillar: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory ⇢ Masterclass Vault — Binge the Free Masterclasses: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory ⇢ Instagram Content — Rewatch Highlights: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Programs Still Open for Enrollment:🍓 Queen Alchemy — Join early for extended payment plans & early portal access🍑 The Immersion — Join the waitlist for final tickets for November 2025🍒 HER Year – Join the waitlist for 2026 or 10 juicy spots opening for the rest of 2025 the week of July 24 (😉) ⇢ 💌 Past Clients Needing Support? Email Olivia at [email protected] ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/58TTVuIy0Lw?si=nqFbV5Qlg8161NGQ Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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437: How I’m Preparing for Motherhood (Physically, Emotionally, and in Business)
In this very special episode, Monica takes you behind the scenes of how she’s been preparing for this next season of her life as she gets ready to meet her baby—not just physically, but emotionally, mentally, somatically, and spiritually. She’s opening up about how she’s used pregnancy as a nine-month portal of energetic attunement: a sacred season of identity recalibration, nervous system expansion, and radical support stacking before it’s “needed.” Whether you’re preparing for motherhood, navigating postpartum prep, building a business, or standing at the edge of your next quantum leap, this conversation will anchor you deeper into your feminine power—and remind you that you don’t have to wait for burnout to ask for support.INSIDE THE EPISODE: 🤰🏼 How pregnancy became her somatic training ground for motherhood🤰🏼 Why most women wait too long to receive support (and HOW to change that)🤰🏼 The nervous system tools she’s using before the baby arrives🤰🏼 Why she invested in doulas, lactation support, and a postpartum team🤰🏼 How she and Hal structured the business for ease during maternity leave🤰🏼 Tapping into the mother identity through mindset, journaling + vision work🤰🏼 Her unfiltered take on fear, surrender, and preparing emotionally for postpartum +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode — ⇢ Join the Email List — Maternity Leave Updates: https://monicayates.myflodesk.com/n0iun6xpn8 ⇢ Binge the Program — Empoweredly Submissive: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/empoweredly-submissive?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=evergreen_general ⇢ Learn the Nervous System Expansion — inside Queen Alchemy: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/queen-alchemy?utm_source=flodesk&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=qa-16 ⇢ Read the blog — Pregnancy Must Haves: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/womens-health/pregnancy-must-haves ⇢ Listen to the Podcast Episode — Preparing for Pregnancy: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/409-our-conception-story-everything-we-did-to-prepare-and-boost-fertility ⇢ Listen to the Podcast Episode — Pregnancy Q&A: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/e422-422-pregnancy-q-a-spirit-babies-nutrition-birth-daycare-gentle-parenting-and-more ⇢ Listen to the Podcast Episode — How to Boost Your Fertility: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/381-how-to-boost-your-fertility-for-healthy-conception-pregnancy-postpartum-and-beyond-men-listen-to-this-too ⇢ Listen to the Podcast Episode — The Energetic Reasons for Infertility: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/348-energetic-reasons-for-infertility-and-other-period-issues-painful-periods-pms-endometriosis-etc ⇢ Bringing Up Bébé book — https://www.amazon.com/Bringing-Up-Bebe-Discovers-Parenting/dp/0143122967 ⇢ Ina May’s Guide to Childbirth — https://www.amazon.com/Ina-Mays-Guide-Childbirth-Gaskin/dp/0553381156 ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/PH0aZAOSe-M?si=Nn7q8RopbIwwsuqz ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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436: Not Everything Needs to Be Said: The Energetics of Unsolicited Advice
You’ve been told to “speak your truth.” But what if that truth-telling… is actually pushing people away? In this fiery mini-sode, I’m unpacking the energetics and trauma patterns behind unsolicited advice, oversharing, and feeling the need to "educate" someone we don't agree with—and how it’s not always as loving or helpful as we think it is. INSIDE THE EPISODE:🌶️ The subtle (but powerful) difference between honesty and control🌶️ Why giving advice without being asked is a trauma response (yep, I said it)🌶️ What feminine discernment actually looks like in high-caliber communication🌶️ The dark side of "speaking your truth" that no one talks about Whether it’s someone judging your birth plan or your man “fixing” something you never asked him to touch—this conversation will help you create deeper connection, cleaner communication, and true sovereignty in how you show up. +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode — ⇢ Watch the FREE Masterclass — Blueprint to Feminine Embodiment: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/the-blueprint-to-feminine-embodiment?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=qa-masterclass ⇢ Join the Waitlist — HER Year: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/her-year-mastermind?utm_source=flodesk&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=waitlist-2025 ⇢ Listen to the Podcast Episode — The Dark Side of Personal Development: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/366-the-dark-side-of-personal-development-how-to-know-if-you-ve-actually-done-the-work ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/qYv7Ye9-dYk?si=L6D-AlU-hvkUgp5g ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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435: The Feminine Way to Have It All (Without Burnout or Guilt) with Jen Szpigiel
The (feminine) formula for success without sacrifice. In this expansive AF episode, Monica is joined by powerhouse entrepreneur and mother of four, Jen Szpigiel. Together, they dive into the nuanced candor of true feminine leadership, motherhood, and building a multi-faceted life without sacrificing your identity. Whether you're a high-achieving woman, a future mum, scaling your empire—or BOTH—this conversation will rewire how you see “having it all.” INSIDE THE EPISODE: 🔥 The difference between living motherhood and performing it for the world🔥 How women unconsciously use their kids to avoid expansion🔥 What happens when you become the breadwinner and emasculate your man🔥 Why the “village” disappeared—and how to call it back🔥 The nervous system pattern behind burnout and overdrive🔥 The timing lie women keep telling themselves—and how it keeps you small🔥 The real cost of hiding your help and pretending you’re doing it all🔥 Why so many women feel like they’re failing—even when they’re succeeding🔥 One identity shift that changes how you lead, receive, and regulate🔥 How anchoring into your kids as your why can actually amplify your magnetism +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode — ⇢ Connect with today’s guest — Jen Szpigiel of Becoming Iconic®: https://www.instagram.com/becomingiconic/ ⇢ Monica's Interview on The Iconic Podcast (essentially part one of this juicy episode): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/monica-yates-are-women-meant-to-be-the-breadwinner/id1500348470?i=1000682857437 ⇢ Read Monica’s article in ICONIC Magazine — Digital Copy: https://issuu.com/becomingiconic/docs/feb_issue-_digital_copy_/ ⇢ Watch the FREE Masterclass — How to Have Him Lead You: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/how-to-have-him-lead-you-masterclass?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=lead-you-mc ⇢ Get the Gut & Skin Healing Classes — 30% off now through June 12th, 2025, with code GLOWUP30: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/gut-skin?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=summer-2025-launch ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/SQnxtMl73oA?si=Y_L9_YRX-4BtLolU ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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434: “If She Doesn’t Want to Work, I Don’t Want Her To”—Why Chris Griffin's Viral Reel Isn’t Misogyny, It’s Biology
This episode is going to ruffle some feathers—and that’s exactly the point. SOMEONE HAS TO SAY IT 👀 After a now-viral Instagram reel by Chris Griffin sent the internet into a frenzy, Monica had a wiiiiild amount of DMs asking for her take. So here it is: unfiltered, research-backed, and FULL of juicy nuggets that will melt shame, rewire your desires, and help you finally feel safe craving masculine leadership. ❤️🔥 She’s unpacking why this clip triggered so many women, what it says about modern relationships, and the double standard that’s keeping women exhausted, emasculating men, and still wondering why dating sucks. If you’ve ever craved a man who leads, provides, and protects—but have felt shamed for wanting that—this episode will leave you thinking, “Wait—I’m not wrong for craving this?” INSIDE THE EPISODE: 🫦 Why “If she doesn’t want to work…” isn’t misogyny—it’s healthy masculine leadership🫦 The double standard: women can want providers, but men can’t say it🫦 How radical feminism is hurting the very women it claims to protect🫦 Why craving support isn’t weakness—it’s your biology🫦 What actual financial abuse is (and why this isn’t it)🫦 How trauma gets projected onto good men — and ruins polarity🫦 Feminine receivership vs. control—what’s the real difference?🫦 How to protect polarity (yes, even if you’re the breadwinner) +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode — ⇢ Watch the Viral Reel — “I don’t want my woman to work”: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DIzsSj5yFRp/ ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ → 📚 NOTE: The referenced research can be found in the book. ⇢ Watch the FREE Masterclass — How to Have Him Lead You: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/how-to-have-him-lead-you-masterclass?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=lead-you-mc ⇢ Listen to the Episode — What It Actually Takes To Be In Your Feminine: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/429-what-it-actually-takes-to-embody-your-feminine-energy-and-finally-let-him-lead-with-ease?_pos=1&_psq=actually+takes&_ss=e&_v=1.0 ⇢ Binge the Program — Empoweredly Submissive: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/empoweredly-submissive?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=evergreen_general ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/JTIAwe1S8BU?si=CJVaNYLp9cgdRYNi ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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433: Inside the Book Launch That Nearly Broke Me (But Made Me a New York Times Bestseller) With Hal & Olivia
The moment you decide to create something meaningful… you’ll be initiated by it. If writing a book is on your heart or you're in the thick of birthing any big vision, this is the episode you didn’t know you needed. Monica is joined by her husband Hal and her right-hand hype woman Olivia to DISH ALL on the breakdowns, breakthroughs, and behind-the-scenes moves that got Becoming HER to New York Times Bestseller… all whilst she was 7.5 months pregnant and running a 7-figure company. 🤯 Let’s just say—if you're building something that asks more of you than you thought you could give, this one’s for you. INSIDE THE EPISODE: 🌶️ Why Monica refused to let traditional publishing dilute her message—and how she protected her voice every step of the way🌶️ Hal’s spicy no-BS feedback that challenged Monica’s ego (and ultimately made the book better)🌶️ The myth of the “self-made woman” and how real success is built through team, trust, and letting people support you🌶️ A raw breakdown of publishing deals, advances, royalties, and why most authors make less than you think🌶️ The meltdown moments, tantrums, and full-out cries on the toilet that didn’t make the Instagram grid 😅🌶️ What it actually takes to become a NYT Bestselling Author (hint: it’s not just about selling books)🌶️ Why Monica hired a media coach—and how it radically shifted her presence on TV, radio, and podcasts🌶️ The secret to building authority in the age of AI, short-form content, and audience burnout🌶️ How getting pregnant before the book launch became the ultimate spiritual surrender🌶️ Why 8+ years of nervous system work, embodied leadership, and brand depth created a book launch that worked +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode — ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/⇢ Listen to the deep dive story of how the book itself came to be — Episode 420: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/420-the-full-tell-all-of-my-new-book-and-becoming-an-author?_pos=1&_psq=book&_ss=e&_v=1.0 ⇢ Watch the FREE Masterclass — Blueprint to Feminine Embodiment: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/the-blueprint-to-feminine-embodiment?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=qa-masterclass ⇢ Binge the Program — The Feminine Female Breadwinner: ttps://monicayateshealth.com/pages/the-feminine-female-breadwinner-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=ffb-general ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/J6FNTJyYXqY?si=bTLTXbkHOomnpTw0 ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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432: The Real Reason You Can’t Figure Out Your Purpose (and What to Do Instead)
The feminine shift required to “find your purpose” || If you’ve been overthinking your next move, doubting your path, or waiting for a loud intuitive “yes” that never comes—you’re welcome for this one!! Listen to find out why Monica calls BS on the “purpose pressure” women face and then breaks down the real energetics behind discovering work that lights you up. This episode reveals why the feminine path to purpose starts in your body, not your to-do list. INSIDE THE EPISODE: 🍒 Why chasing your purpose is actually the energy that’s blocking it🍒 The hidden danger of “If it’s not a f*ck yes, it’s a no” (and what that voice is really saying)🍒 How dopamine addiction + instant gratification keep you stuck in confusion🍒 Why purpose isn’t found in a job title—and how clinging to an identity is making you feel emptier🍒 Resilience vs. Entitlement: the energetics that separate aligned women from stuck ones🍒 How Queen Alchemy and The Immersion awaken your purpose without trying to🍒 Practical journaling prompts to shift from “What’s my purpose?” to “What turns me on?”As Mentioned In The Episode — ⇢ Claim your ticket — The3-Day Immersion (Tickets close on 5/29): https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=atlanta-2025 ⇢ Join the program — Queen Alchemy: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/queen-alchemy?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=qa-16 ⇢ Listen to the episode — 410: Is My Life Actually REAL or Is It All Fake? https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/410-is-my-life-actually-real-or-is-it-all-fake-a-vulnerable-share-on-how-she-got-to-where-she-is-today ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/ ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/fm8ClsH93yA?si=bPXguUqBfS2EPQKe ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. || https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/copyright-disclaimer
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Sometimes the truth is hard to hear. Sometimes it’s a little triggering and very uncomfortable. Yet, we all know that this space is where the true magic happens. Luckily for you, Monica Yates is like the best friend you never had. She gives it to you straight, without all the fluff, so that you can pursue more of what you desire in love, relationships and career. From emotional and energetic trauma/blocks to health, period problems, business and manifestation, Monica helps you get out of your own way to become the version of you that has only been a dream, until now.
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