218: You Can’t Want What You Don’t Know Exists

If you don't know it exists, you don't know if it excites you.We spend so much of our 20s feeling "unhappy" or "off-track," looking for answers in our phones or in the people we see every single day. But here’s the truth I’ve realized: You can’t think your way into a new life. You have to experience your way into one.In this episode, I’m sharing how a "book funk" and a season of feeling like I was just "floating" led me to a massive realization: our worlds only grow as large as the things we expose ourselves to. If you’re reading the same books, talking to the same people, and staying in the same "echo chamber," you are literally blind to the thousands of other paths available to you.We’re breaking down:The Power of Exposure: Why you have to put yourself in rooms, countries, and conversations that feel "not like you" just to see what sticks.Sifting vs. Floating: Why being "unhappy" in a situation is actually a gift—it’s data telling you exactly what you don’t want so you can find what you do.The Device Trap: Why looking for answers on a screen will never give you the perspective shift that a real-world experience can.Stop waiting for "confidence" to try something new. Use your curiosity to get exposed. Let’s broaden the horizon.