22 - being hot is not the same as being respected

how does our relationship with the pursuit of physical beauty and “hotness” affect how we see ourselves and each other? i’ve always felt we are told that out problems are solved and that empowerment comes from being considered desirable, but is this really the case? TW// assault, body image, eating disorders content mentioned: Ways of Seeing by John Berger book link: https://amzn.to/3qhVzEr * video link: https://youtu.be/m1GI8mNU5Sg The Beauty Myth: How Images of Beauty are Used Against Women by Naomi Wolf book link: https://amzn.to/3qgIQlz * *affiliate link follow me ☆ instagram.com⁠/amberakilla 小红书 @amberakilla youtube.com/@amberakilla⁠ patreon.com/amberakilla⁠ ⁠instagram.com⁠/friend.crush ⁠www.tiktok.com⁠ ⁠twitter.com⁠ music & mixes ☼ ⁠soundcloud.com⁠ ⁠open.spotify.com 网易云音乐 shop merch friendcrush.club