22. The Real Reason Change Destroy Some People and Expands Others

Most people think confident people are just “better” at change. But that’s not actually true.In this episode, we unpack the real reason change destroys some people while it expands others — and what’s actually happening underneath the fear, overthinking, resistance, and self-sabotage that so many women experience during change.Monique shares her own experiences navigating massive identity shifts across business, relationships, leadership, confidence, and life… including the fears and insecurities that came with them.We dive into:why your nervous system resists changethe deeper fear underneath uncertaintyhow identity attachment keeps people stuckwhy self-trust matters more than confidenceand how to stop sabotaging the next version of yourselfYou’ll walk away with a deeper understanding of change at a psychological level, practical reflection questions to help you gain clarity, and tangible ways to build evidence that you can trust yourself through the unknown.Because the goal isn’t to avoid fear.It’s to become someone who can move with it.Connect with me on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/monique_dolman/Want to gain self trust?Book in your FREE 30min clarity call with Monique today:https://api.leadconnectorhq.com/widget/booking/R8afL3ATRsqh0zQ08xQmEnquiries: [email protected] us Fan Mail