222 Gamer Guilt Episode 04 - Backlogs, Bias & Letting Go

In this final instalment of our Gamer Guilt series, we delve into the emotional baggage of gaming: the backlog shame spiral, perfectionism, and the internalised pressure to “do it right.” Hosted by Jem, with Alex and Matt in conversation, this episode is a thoughtful, funny, and heartfelt wrap-up on how guilt seeps into our gaming habits—and how we can begin to let it go.Do you really need to finish every game you start? From towering game libraries to piles of unread books, we explore the guilt of not finishing—and why sometimes we need to remember that the journey, not the destination, is enough.Therapy, spreadsheets, and the Hitman roguelike spiral Matt walks us through his epic journey modding Hitman: Freelancer, tracking progress via spreadsheets, and why he abandoned completionism in favour of joy.Game shame: Are mobile games ‘real’ games? We challenge our own gaming snobbery: Is playing FIFA or mobile puzzle games somehow less valid than a 100-hour epic RPG? And what does our choice of games say about us?Wisdom from Gotham’s Hugo Strange Yes, really. We discuss Favourite moments from the episode:Alex’s reflections on (not) finishing Assassin’s Creed Valhalla— and why that’s okay.Jem and her daughter finally completed It Takes Two after months away from it, rediscovering its warmth and wit.Matt shares an unexpectedly moving quote from Gotham, featuring a truth-serum-induced confession and a villain’s twisted kind of absolution.If you struggle with Gamer Guilt, listen to this episode. We guarantee you'll remember that it’s okay to enjoy yourself. No justification required.📢 Support the Podcast!Let us know on BlueSky (@gamingthesystem.bsky.social), Instagram (@gamingthesystempodcast) or in the comments on YouTube!If you love Gaming The System, consider supporting us:🔹 Patreon: patreon.com/gamingthesystem – get exclusive content!🔹 PayPal Donations: [email protected]🔹 Subscribe & Review: Share the podcast with fellow gamers!🎙 Gaming The System releases new episodes every ThursdayThanks for listening, and remember – there’s always another game to play that isn’t full of nonsense. 🎮✨#GamingTheSystem #GamingCulture #FeministGaming  #feministgamingpodcast​ #feministgamers​ #intersectionalgaming​ #equalityingames​ #GamingRepresentation #AccessibleGaming #IntersectionalGaming #GamingTheSystemPodcast