23. Moving for love without losing yourself

Ten years ago, I packed up the life I'd taken 25 years to build and moved to a different country for one person. That person was — and is — worth it. But moving for love is not the romantic plot point it gets sold as. It's a slow, structural decision that touches everything: your friendships, your identity, your money, your sense of home, even the way you spend a Sunday evening. Nobody explained that to me before I went. So in this episode of Love Inside Out, I give you the full map I wish someone had given me — for relocating, moving cities or countries for your partner without losing yourself on the way. Inside this episode: 00:00 The loneliness of relocation01:12 Preparing for the move05:43 Date the place (find your bench)08:29 The three friends you need in year one11:35 Grieving the past14:37 The money conversation nobody wants to have19:12 Communicating needs in relationships21:40 The importance of ongoing conversations in relationships23:11 Navigating the challenges of moving for Love25:01 Understanding the emotional impact of relocation27:13 The bet of moving: trusting yourself28:27 Forget that you moved29:18 Final thoughts on moving for Love This episode is for anyone about to move for love, in the middle of it, or still recovering from it years later. The people who move well aren't the ones who love hardest — they're the ones who build most carefully. If this lands for you, or you know someone about to make the leap — share it. I wish someone had done that for me at the time. DM on instagram adele_thecoach Read about Love on substack Stay curious, curious listener. Ciao 🤎