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Aug 12, 2024 43 min

236: The Transformative Handjob with Lee Jagger

from Better Sex Hosted by Jessa Zimmerman

In this episode of Better Sex, sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman interviews Lee Jagger, a sex coach specializing in helping women with male partners. Lee shares her journey from an unexpected start in erotic massage to becoming an expert with over 2000 clients and developing 69+ techniques for pleasuring men. They discuss the importance of communication, confidence, and overcoming discomfort in the bedroom. Lee emphasizes how women can enhance their intimate relationships by initiating and mastering various techniques while fostering stronger connections with their partners. The episode also covers practical advice for overcoming aversion to genital touch, techniques for men with erectile issues, and how mutual improvement in sexual skills can benefit both partners. 00:00 Introduction to Better Sex Podcast 00:50 Meet Lee Jagger: From Homelessness to Sex Coaching 01:37 Lee's Journey into Erotic Massage 04:36 Transforming Personal and Professional Life 07:02 Empowerment Through Erotic Massage 08:17 Impact on Personal Relationships 12:55 Encouraging Women to Take the Lead 20:17 Overcoming Discomfort with Genital Touch 21:43 Non-Genital Touching Techniques 22:42 Introducing Intimacy Through Kindness 23:43 Understanding Male Anatomy 29:46 Communication and Consent in the Bedroom 37:50 Resources and Final Thoughts Want to share your personal story on the podcast? It can be done anonymously. Send us an email at [email protected] Get the free training at https://www.rockthebedroom.com And/or get 10% off your first month of the Spice It Up membership: Go to https://www.rockthebedroom.com/membership and use JESSA10 at checkout. Want to learn more about my sponsored charity? Charity: Water is committed to providing clean water to every human on the planet, 100% of your contribution will be used directly for water projects around the globe. You can learn more at https://www.bettersexpodcast.com/water. More info and resources: Secret Podcast for the Higher Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/hdppodcast Secret Podcast for the Lower Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/ldppodcast How Big a Problem is Your Sex Life? Quiz – https://www.sexlifequiz.com The Course – https://www.intimacywithease.com The Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.com Podcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com Access the Free webinar: Intimacy Made Easy: 3 Secrets to Bridging Libido Differences: https://intimacywithease.com/masterclass This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit jessazimmerman.substack.com/subscribe

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