248. How To Have An Honest Conversation

"And it dawned on me that these executives are solving the same communication problems in their meetings that I'm solving for in the interrogation room." -Michael Reddington On this episode of the Turmeric & Tequila podcast, your host Kristen Olson sits down with Michael Reddington, an expert in transforming resistance into commitment and a certified forensic interviewer. Michael shares insights into his unexpected journey from aspiring special education teacher to a career in investigations and executive education through his company, Inquasive. Discover how his early experiences integrated with diverse and inclusive environments shaped his communication skills, pivotal to his success today. Delve into the disciplined listening methods that not only unlock hidden value in conversations but also highlight the ethical approach to communication. Kristen and Michael also explore common human experiences, the importance of empathy, and the significant role personal growth and learning from mistakes play in achieving true success. Whether you're navigating business, personal relationships, or just aiming to be a better communicator, this episode is packed with valuable takeaways to inspire your journey. Tune in for this gracefully disruptive conversation and learn why sometimes not having a single pivotal moment can be the greatest story of all. Time Stamps: 00:00 Reflections on Life's Unseen Influences 05:19 Journey of Self-Understanding 09:03 "Let Life Unfold Naturally" 12:18 Interrogation and Teaching Aspirations 15:08 Passionate Educator's Journey Unfolds 18:52 Business Communication Meets Interrogation Techniques 20:23 "Unlocking Value in Conversations" 26:00 Boring Conversations through Good Preparation 27:35 Drugs, Guns, and Interrogation 31:34 "Empathy in Human Decisions" 34:54 "Mastering Effective Communication" 38:55 Effective Communication Tools for Success 40:52 Effective Persuasion Techniques 44:06 Influence: Science or Manipulation? 46:52 Teaching Boundaries: A Proud Parenting Moment 50:12 Humor in Youth Sports Coaching 53:21 "Nurturing Future Influencers"   Michael Reddington EXECUTIVE RESOURCE, CERTIFIED FORENSIC INTERVIEWER & AUTHOR Michael Reddington is an expert at moving people from resistance to commitment. He is an executive resource, Certified Forensic Interviewer, President of InQuasive, Inc., and author of The Disciplined Listening Method. Michael's public speaking career began in his teenage years as he travelled around New England educating audiences on the benefits of including students with, and without, disabilities in the same classrooms. His speaking endeavors simmered for several years as he facilitated training courses for investigators at the organizations where he was employed. https://michaelreddington.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/michaelreddingtoncfi/   Connect with T&T: IG: @TurmericTequila Facebook: @TurmericAndTequila Website: www.TurmericAndTequila.com Host: Kristen Olson IG: @Madonnashero Tik Tok: @Madonnashero Website: www.KOAlliance.com WATCH HERE   MORE LIKE THIS: https://youtu.be/ZCFQSpFoAgI?si=Erg8_2eH8uyEgYZF   https://youtu.be/piCU9JboWuY?si=qLdhFKCGdBzuAeuI https://youtu.be/9Vs2JDzJJXk?si=dpjV31GDqTroUKWH