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EPISODE · Aug 15, 2025 · 1H 2M

25 Ways Muslim Husbands Ruin Their Own Marriage

from Ustadh Abdulrahman Hassan · host UnknownSeekerOfKnowledge

It doesn’t always look like “mistreating” your wife. Sometimes it’s cutting her off mid-sentence because you think you know what she’ll say, or scrolling through your phone while she’s telling you about her day, or brushing off her feelings with “you’re overreacting”.Little by little, these moments chip away at trust, affection, and respect until your wife feels unseen in her own home.In this video, Ustadh Abdulrahman Hassan shares 25 major mistakes Muslim men make: the kinds of actions and habits that lead to failed marriages, constant conflict, or homes with no real happiness.He highlights what the Qur’an and Sunnah teach about a husband’s role, how the Prophet ﷺ treated his wives, and the practical steps every Muslim man can take to bring back mercy and love into his marriage.Whether you’re preparing for marriage or already a husband, this is advice you won’t get in casual talks, but it could save your marriage from quiet collapse.Timestamps:00:00 Precap & Introduction04:18 Dealing With the Mother vs. Wife Conflict08:55 Unnecessarily Doubting One’s Wife10:16 Having Poor Protective Jealousy14:19 Belittling the Wife18:38 Misusing One’s Leadership22:50 Letting the Wife Work24:37 Neglecting the Wife’s Islamic Education26:44 Being Stingy29:26 Not Informing of One’s Arrival31:13 Excessively Criticising the Wife35:02 Not Praising the Wife for Her Good37:29 Debating Constantly40:14 Prolonging Boycotts42:20 Spending Little Time With Family44:06 Bad Dealings With the Wife46:21 Not Dressing Up Properly47:48 Disregarding Making Du’a49:44 Not Observing Intimacy52:04 Not Keeping Secrets53:17 Being Inconsiderate During Her Menses55:20 Beating One’s Wife56:46 Hastening Towards Divorce57:38 Imposing Blame After Divorce58:19 Forsaking the Children59:36 Not Fulfilling Promises01:00:02 Never Content With the WifeAMAU Junior: https://amaujunior.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amau...Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/AMAUTelegram: https://t.me/amauofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/AMAU...Twitter: https://twitter.com/AMAUoffici...iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/...Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/...Get in Touch: https://amau.org/getintouchBarakAllahu feekum.#AMAU #marriage #muslim #nikah #islamicknowledge

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AbdelRahman Murphy Muslim Central Ustadh AbdelRahman Murphy is a graduate of the University of Illinois at Chicago, with a Bachelor’s in Teaching of English and Religious Studies. He is currently pursuing his Master’s in Mental Health Counseling. He has served as a youth director, Muslim chaplain, and assistant imam in a full-time capacity since 2009.His Islamic studies background includes completing an Imam Certificate Program in Makkah, Saudi Arabia under the mentorship and training of Shaykh Khalid Hilwany. While growing up in the Chicagoland area, he spent two years studying at Riyadh As Saliheen Institute under Shaykhs Ehab Ash-Shaer and Abu Abdullah. While finishing his university studies, he benefitted directly from the training and teaching of Professor Omer Mozaffar in areas of Quran and texts of Imam Ghazali. After graduating with his BA, Ustadh AbdelRahman moved to Dallas, where he began reading classical texts with Shaykh AbdulNasir Jangda. In May of 2014, he formally graduated from the Qalam Seminary’s o Adnan Rashid Muslim Central Ustadh Adnan Rashid is active in dawah and has visited over 30 countries for this purpose. Adnan Rashid has attained a number of ijazas in hadith from reputable hadith authorities. His chains of hadith go back to the Prophet (sllallahu alaihy wa salaam)… via Shah Waliullah Dehlawi as well as Imam Shawkaani. He attained his BA with honors in history from Birkbeck College, University of London. He is currently pursuing postgraduate studies in history at the same university. He has appeared on major Islamic channels such as Iqra Tv and Islam Channel. The Ustadh has taught seerah, tafseer and hadith to hundreds of students through tv and other platforms. He is currently teaching Umdatul Ahkaam in London and intends to finish the tafseer of al-Quran in the coming years.Ustadh Adnan has worked with internationally renowned dawah organisations such as Mercy Mission, iERA and Convivencia. He has lead a number of dawah missions to Africa. He served as Senior Researcher as well as lecturer whi Hassan Saleh Muslim Central Audio Library and Podcast Publishers Best Quran Recitations || اجمل تلاوات القرآن Quran Dev سورة البقرة - سورة يوسف - سورة الكهف - سورة يس - جزء تبارك - جزء عمAl-Baqarah - Yusuf - Al-Kahf - Ya­Sin - Juz Tabarak - Juz Ammaماهر المعيقلي - احمد العجمي - سعد الغامدي - عبد الباسط عبد الصمد - خالد الجليل - مشاري العفاسي - فارس عباد - العيون الكوشي, ورش - رعد الكردي - عبد الرحمن السديسMaher Al Meaqli - Ahmad Al-Ajmy - Saad Al-Ghamdi - Abdulbasit Abdulsamad - Khalid Al-Jileel - Mishary Alafasi - Fares Abbad - Aloyoon Al-Koshi, Warsh - Raad Al Kurdi - Abdulrahman [email protected]

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