254 - Exploring the Psychology of Kink with Goddess Rue

In this episode, Boonie is in conversation with Goddess Rue, a pro dominatrix. Delve deep into the psychological landscape of kink as Goddess Rue enlightens us on the intricate art of setting boundaries and honoring individual desires within the BDSM community. From the exhilarating highs to the nuanced challenges, she offers a candid portrayal of her multifaceted professional life, balancing the realms of BDSM with teaching dance classes, managing an online boutique, and orchestrating captivating events. Prepare to be enlightened as Goddess Rue shares her unique approach to managing the delicate balance between motherhood and her career in sex work, prioritizing her children's well-being while steadfastly upholding her personal boundaries. From trust-building rituals to the significance of safe words, no stone is left unturned as Goddess Rue provides a rare glimpse into the nuanced world of BDSM, challenging stereotypes and fostering a deeper understanding of human sexuality and intimate relationships. Follow Goddess Rue here: Instagram: @Goddessrue_ A transcript of the full episode is available here. Support for today's episode comes from Dame Products, a brand whose mission is to help close the pleasure gap for people with vulvas. Receive 10% off your purchase by using the code BOONIE10, Shop here: https://bit.ly/DAMEBoonie Join Boonie over on Patreon for exclusive content and events here: Patreon.com/TheBoonieBreakdown  The hashtag for the podcast is #TheBoonieBreakdown. Share with others using the hashtag #PodIn. Shop The Boonie Breakdown Store: www.thebooniebreakdown.com/shop  The hashtag for the podcast is #TheBoonieBreakdown. Share with others using the hashtag #PodIn. Follow The Boonie Breakdown on Social Media: IG: @TheBoonieBreakdown Twitter: @BoonieBreakdown  Facebook: www.facebook.com/TheBoonieBreakdown Have something to say? You can ask your questions, send comments via email to [email protected] or submit them here: www.thebooniebreakdown.com/contact/.   Chapters 0:00:01 Introduction to At Home STI Kits 0:01:04 CIAA Weekend in Baltimore 0:03:10 Navigating Reproductive Health Feedback 0:04:12 Goddess Rue's Journey into BDSM 0:09:20 Exploring Kinks and Fetishes 0:13:07 Boundaries in BDSM 0:18:45 Challenges with Social Media 0:21:18 Trusting Gut in Community Building 0:22:20 Identifying as a Sex Worker 0:22:56 Understanding Different Dom Practices 0:24:42 Pricing and Experience in Pegging 0:26:50 Learning the Stroke 0:27:49 Client Diversity 0:28:37 Female Subs 0:39:22 Researching Kinks 0:41:38 Balancing Motherhood 0:49:09 Sub Consistency 0:51:03 Word Association 0:51:20 Finding Goddess Rue 0:51:56 Femdom Bootcamp 0:52:49 Catfish Kink Unveiled