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The Boonie Breakdown

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Your source for all things Responsible & Ratchet! If you're not here for honest, candid conversations about sex, love, relationships, pop culture, feminism and a whole lot of other sh*t, then why are you here?! This is where we break. it. down. Join Boonie, with her friends and special guests, for real and off-the-cuff discussions on life's every day happenings. Listen, leave a comment, click a rating and write a review! Then tweet, snap, send a smoke signal or a carrier pigeon--but be sure to tell your friends.

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Episodes

  1. 283 - Your Pleasure Era Starts Now with Ashley Cobb

    In this episode of The Boonie Breakdown, Boonie welcomes back friend of the podcast Ashley Cobb, who returns not just as a guest—but as a newly published author. The two dive into Ashley's debut book, Pleasure Please: The Black Woman's Guide to Unapologetic Pleasure and Confidence, and the…

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  2. 282 - Finding Joy in the Chaos with Shika

    In this episode, I catch up with my homie Shika for a candid conversation full of reflection, laughter, and realness. We talk about protecting your peace, finding joy in chaotic times, and how navigating life lately requires equal parts honesty, rest, and humor. We also discuss: ✨ The importance…

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  3. 281 - Discipline Over Vibes with Brian

    In this episode, I'm joined by our resident problematic fav Brian for a funny, honest, and low-key dragging conversation about the lie we tell ourselves every January: "New Year, New Me." We get real about why most resolutions flop, how self-awareness is the missing ingredient to growth, and what...

  4. 280 - Becoming a Caregiver at 26: Alzheimer's, Advocacy, and Fighting Broken Systems with Jessica Guthrie

    In this episode of The Boonie Breakdown, Boonie sits down for a powerful and necessary conversation with Jessica Guthrie, a dementia caregiving advocate and thought leader who shares her deeply personal journey as the primary caregiver for her mother, diagnosed with early-onset Alzheimer's.…

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  5. 279 - Romance Novels, Red Flags, and Real Life with Kurvy Katie

    In this episode, Boonie returns from hiatus with laughs, honesty, and real conversation. I'm joined by influencer and comedian Kurvy Katie, whose evolution from plus-size fashion content creator to viral comedic voice has resonated across Instagram and TikTok. Together, we break down creativity,...

  6. 278 - Raw & Real: HIV, Condoms, and the Sex Recession with Dr. Shemeka Thorpe

    In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Shemeka Thorpe—award-winning sex researcher, Black feminist scholar, and sexual health expert—to break down the most urgent issues impacting Black women's sexual health in 2025. From HIV prevention to the "sex recession," we tackle the topics many communities...

  7. 277 - Shedding, Shifting, and Skipping Christmas

    In this solo episode, I'm sounding off on politics, burnout, and why I might be in my season of shedding. Boonie Live: New Orleans—new guests, new energy, and ticket price drops - get tickets here: thebooniebreakdown.com/live. Then we get into The Boonie Five Spot: 🌿 A Season of Shedding 🎄…

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  8. 276 - Swipe Right on Maturity: Inside the Fox Hunters Club with Brownie Marie

    In this episode, I sit down with Brownie Marie, the visionary founder of Fox Hunters Club, a groundbreaking dating app created for millennial women seeking serious, intentional relationships with Gen X and Baby Boomer men. Tired of the superficial swiping and the transactional vibes found on most...

  9. 275 - Trick-or-Treat and Tryna Survive with Shika

    In this episode, I catch up with my homie Shika for a free-spirited, unfiltered conversation — classic Boonie Breakdown energy. We dive into everything from the government shutdown to pop culture moments that have us in our feelings (and our opinions). We also discuss: 💼 The real impact of the...

  10. 274 - The Complexity of Attraction with Brian

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  11. 273 - Ratchet Reflections with Boonie

    In this solo episode closing out Season 14, I'm sounding off on everything from chaotic reality TV to the very real "romance recession" y'all are living through. Then we get into the good stuff: 💋 Love Island drama and the emotional chaos of bingeing 20+ episodes—why is everyone kissing...

  12. 272 - Unlearning the BS with Dr. Donna Oriowo

    In this episode, I welcome back Dr. Donna Oriowo—the brilliant therapist, dynamic speaker, and now author of Drink Water and Mind Your Business: A Black Woman's Guide to Unlearning the BS and Healing Your Self-Esteem. Known for her candid insights and unapologetic approach to mental wellness, Dr....

  13. 271 - Why You're Not Ready for the Love You Say You Want with Brian & KG

    In this episode, I'm joined by two of my favorite guests—Brian, our problematic fav, and KG, our responsible fav—for a real, unfiltered conversation about dating in today's world. For the first time, we explore the game from both of their perspectives, diving into the chaos, calm, confusion, and...

  14. 270 - What If You Let It All Go? with Samia Burton

    In this episode, I welcome back Samia—the vibrant creator behind Sexual Essentials, Not Just Another Sex Podcast, and The Art Exhibit—for an honest, raw, and refreshing conversation about reinvention, resilience, and redefining success. Known for her bold takes and fearless transparency, Samia...

  15. REPLAY - From $1Million in Debt to Millionaire with Naseema McElroy

    We're hitting replay on one of the most jaw-dropping and inspiring conversations we've had on the podcast. In this episode, I'm joined by Naseema McElroy—nurse, mom, money coach, and the powerhouse behind Financially Intentional. We dive deep into her incredible story of paying off over $1…

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  16. 269 - Naked, Unashamed & Holy with Brittany Broaddus-Smith

    In this episode, I sit down with Brittany Broaddus-Smith—a Christian sexologist and the bold, brilliant founder of The Intimacy Firm—for an eye-opening conversation at the intersection of faith, sexuality, and healing. We dive into taboo topics often brushed aside in the church, including the...

  17. 268 - America Is Crashing Out! with KG

    In this episode, I'm joined by my favorite political analyst, KG for a deep, unfiltered convo on the state of American politics, the economy, and the emotional toll it's all taking—especially on men. From Trump's possible 2028 run to supply chain fears and the media's obsession with crisis, we...

  18. 267 - Cutting Through the Silence: Black Women, Fibroids & the Hysterectomy Decision with Melissa

    In this episode, I sit down with Melissa of Fab Glance—a lifestyle influencer, digital strategist, and one of the realest voices online—to have a deeply personal conversation about women's health, fibroids, and her decision to have a hysterectomy. After sharing my own story in a previous episode…

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  19. 266 - Teachers Are People Too! with Smitty

    In this episode, I sit down with my podcasting cousin, Smitty—an English teacher, mom of three, and host of the Patreon-exclusive podcast Teachers After Dark. We dive into her life as an educator, the wild dynamics of parent-teacher conferences, and how she balances being a public figure with her...

  20. 265 - Monogamy, Maybes & Modern Mess with Brian

    In this episode, I sit down with returning guest and our problematic fav, Brian, for a hilarious, honest, and thought-provoking conversation that runs the gamut—from Greek life to the chaos of modern dating. We break down the challenges facing Black Greek organizations today and how they…

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  21. 264 - Podcasting, Healing & The Power of Timing with Eboné

    In this episode, I sit down with my podcasting sister, Eboné, entrepreneur and host of The Professional Homegirl Podcast. We dive into her journey as an indie podcaster and how she landed a deal with Charlemagne's Black Effect Podcast Network. Eboné gets real about the challenges of growing a...

  22. 263 - Unfiltered Rants & Real Talk

    In this solo episode of Season 14, I'm sounding off on what's been on my mind—from paywalls blocking quality journalism to social media's shifting role in news consumption. I kick things off with a fiery rant on paywalls—why is essential news locked behind a subscription while misinformation runs...

  23. 262 - Why Modern Dating Feels Broken with Naza Shelley

    In this episode, Naza Shelley, CEO and founder of Carpe Diem Dating, breaks down the biggest frustrations in modern dating—especially for Black women. As an attorney-turned-matchmaker, Naza shares her journey in building a dating app that prioritizes meaningful connections over endless swiping.…

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  24. 261 - Guilty Pleasures & Cult Classics

    In this episode, my co-host Shika and I take a nostalgic trip into the world of cult classic cinema with a deep dive into Showgirls. From its scandalous NC-17 rating to its surprising legacy in pop culture, we break down why this film is the ultimate "so bad it's good" masterpiece. 💄🎬🤖 What We...

  25. 260- Redefining Good Sex with Dr. Candice Nicole

    In this episode, Dr. Candice Nicole, a leading expert in sex research and author of Good Sex, shares her groundbreaking insights on sexual satisfaction and the orgasm gap. Dr. Nicole discusses key concepts like pleasure worthiness and erotic equity, which empower individuals to reclaim their…

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  26. 259 - Actions vs. Words: The Dating Dilemma

    In this Season 14 kickoff of The Boonie Breakdown, we're diving into the ultimate dating dilemma—do actions really speak louder than words? Brian is back, and we're breaking down wild relationship stories, red flags, and the emotional traps that keep people stuck. From a man gifting the same...

  27. 258 - Favorite Albums of 2024

    In this lively year-end wrap-up, Boonie teams up with KG for an unforgettable countdown of their Top 5 Favorite Albums of 2024! 🎧 From the beats of Afrobeats to underrated gems, we unpack the evolution of music, sharing tracks that hit deep and albums that dominated our playlists. This episode…

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  28. 257 - The Gift of Growth with Shika

    Join Boonie and the homie Shika as we dive into a hilarious and heartfelt chat about last year's Toronto trip, turning 40, and the holiday season. We share funny travel misadventures, reflections on self-care and personal growth, and the joys of experiences over material gifts. From Mariah…

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  29. 256 - Back Like I Never Left with Brian

    I'm back, and this surprise episode is serving December chaos with a side of unfiltered fun! With my birthday coming up and holiday madness in full swing, I'm catching up on all the wild thoughts and vibes from my hiatus. Joined by my problematic fav, Brian, we dive into "recycle bin sex," safe…

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  30. 255 - Elevating Intimacy with Nikk of Erotic Boudoir

    In the Season 13 finale, Boonie is in an engaging conversation with Nikk of Erotic Boudoir. Nikk delivers insights on maximizing pleasure through innovative use of sex toys, fostering open communication, and exploring new realms of sensuality. From the tantalizing potential of anal orgasms to the...

  31. 254 - Exploring the Psychology of Kink with Goddess Rue

    In this episode, Boonie is in conversation with Goddess Rue, a pro dominatrix. Delve deep into the psychological landscape of kink as Goddess Rue enlightens us on the intricate art of setting boundaries and honoring individual desires within the BDSM community. From the exhilarating highs to the...

  32. 253 - Empowering Reproductive Health: Navigating PCOS, Endometriosis, and Fertility with Lisa Hendrickson-Jack

    In this episode, Boonie is in conversation with Lisa Hendrickson-Jack, a certified fertility awareness educator and holistic reproductive health practitioner. The discussion covers topics like PCOS, endometriosis, and the impact of diet on fertility, emphasizing the importance of understanding...

  33. 252 - All the Men Ain't 6ft Sweetie

    In this episode, Boonie is joined by our problematic favorite, Brian. We chatted about dating apps, and Boonie discussed the challenges and shared humorous anecdotes about men lying about their height. Boonie and Brian chat more about personal preferences in dating experiences. A transcript of…

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  34. 251 - Black Feminist Freak with Goddess Honey B

    In this episode, Boonie is in conversation with Goddess Honey B, a proud Black feminist and dominant. We explore the world of Black feminism and kinks, including lactation and BDSM. Goddess Honey B shares her experiences as a sex worker and dominant, emphasizing the importance of communication…

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  35. 250 - Reject Your Pussy with Shika

    In this week's episode, Boonie is joined by the homie Shika! We do a sh*t that hits differently, featuring the 2001 film "The Brothers." Is it overlooked in the conversation about black classic movies? We also touch on casual sex and the importance of trust and communication. Shika and Boonie…

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  36. 249 - Thriving After Beating Cancer's Ass with Erica Easter

    In this episode, Boonie is in an engaging conversation with breast cancer survivor Erica Easter. We chat about Erica maintaining sexual desires during treatment and the ways in which cancer has changed Erica's perspective on life. Erica discusses the importance of embracing desires, the pleasure…

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  37. 248 - Sex Ed Refresher with Vanessa Geffrard

    In this episode, Boonie is in conversation with Vanessa Geffrard of Vagesteem. The conversation starts with BV, also known as bacterial vaginosis, and stresses the importance of seeking medical treatment. We explore the morning-after pill for STIs and the need for comprehensive protection. The...

  38. 247 - Isn't the Milk in a Container Already?

    It's the first solo episode of the season! I had to do a Boonie 5 Spot! We dive into the world of vision boards and offer an alternative approach. We discuss organizational content on social media and why Boonie hates it so much! Like, we are really watching people transfer groceries into…

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  39. 246 - Stop Leading People On with Brian

    In this episode, Boonie is joined by our problematic favorite, Brian. We start the conversation by drawing comparisons between Baltimore and Houston and discussing how people in Houston have a better understanding of where to go for fun. We both believe Baltimore has the potential for a vibrant...

  40. 245 - Favorite Albums of 2023 with KG

    In this episode, Boonie and guest KG discuss their favorite albums of 2023. This was a tough year for narrowing down favorite albums, especially in the hip-hop genre. We chat about our favorite songs from the year, including Tyrese's "Don't Think You Ever Loved Me," SZA's "Snooze," and Justin...

  41. 244 - Refining Your Personal Style with Sam Smith

    In this episode, Boonie is in conversation with Sam Smith of New Vintage By Sam. We discuss various aspects of style, including personal style development and the significance of clothing as a form of self-expression. Sam explains the importance of staying true to one's style and not conforming…

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  42. 243 - It's Sag Season Bitches with Mecca Woods

    In this episode, Boonie is joined by the podcast's favorite astrologer, Mecca Woods, who has been featured in Bustle, Essence, xoNecole, PopSugar, and Fusion. Happy birthday to all Sagittarius listeners! The conversation then moves into discussing Venus's movement through different signs and how…

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  43. 242 - Bellybuttons are Sexy Too! with Brian

    In this episode, Boonie is joined by our problematic fav Brian. We dive into an interesting listener letter about a rather unusual fetish for belly buttons. Moving on, we explore some misconceptions about sex that are prevalent in our society. We address the infamous topic of penis size and…

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  44. 241 - Black Women PrEP Too with Ashley Cobb

    On this episode, Boonie is joined by a special guest, Ashley Cobb. Ashley is an Atlanta-based sex educator, writer, and HIV activist. She's our favorite friend who loves talking about all things related to sex and is passionate about raising awareness about HIV. With World Aid Day approaching, we...

  45. 240 - My Body, My Choice, My Pleasure with Dr. Clarissa Francis

    In this episode, Boonie speaks with Dr. Clarissa Francis about the importance of unlearning shame, having open discussions about sexual health, pleasure, and consent, and taking responsibility for our actions. We also delve into the politics surrounding women's bodies and reproductive justice.…

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  46. 239 - Love Jones, Nope! with Shika

    In this week's episode, Boonie is joined by the homie Shika! We do a sh*t that hits different episode featuring the classic Love Jones. We express our disappointment with the movie, discussing how it lacks the drama we were hoping for. We even mention the poetry snap era and how we're glad we...

  47. 238 - Whips, Tassels, and Paint! Oh My! with The Sweet Spot

    In this week's episode, Boonie is joined by Ainsley Burrows and Laurielle Noel, the dynamic duo behind The Sweet Spot Burlesque. The conversation delves into the growth of the show, with Ainsley's booking skills and Laurielle's business acumen playing a key role. Sweet Spot Nation now has over 30...

  48. 237 - Cuddle, Kink, Touch with Jax

    In this week's episode, Boonie is joined by Jax, a pleasure facilitator. Jax is here to talk about exploring pleasure, connection, and consent. We explore the world of professional cuddling, an unconventional way to connect with others. Jax shares their experiences and the importance of creating…

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  49. 236 - Creating Black Erotica with BlkTouch

    In this week's episode, Boonie is joined by Brian Dwayne of BlkTouch. Brian discusses the creation of BlkTouch, explaining how it evolved from sensual photography to a separate space for explicit content that couldn't be posted on social media. The conversation touches on Brian's role in creating...

  50. 235 - Hobbies & Heauxfax with Brian

    In this episode, Boonie is joined with our Problematic Fav Brian! We chat about Homecoming season, why its important to have a hobby when dating, and dating with kids. Check it out! The hashtag for the podcast #TheBoonieBreakdown. Share with others using the hashtag #PodIn. Join Boonie over on...

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Your source for all things Responsible & Ratchet! If you're not here for honest, candid conversations about sex, love, relationships, pop culture, feminism and a whole lot of other sh*t, then why are you here?! This is where we break. it. down. Join Boonie, with her friends and special guests, for real and off-the-cuff discussions on life's every day happenings. Listen, leave a comment, click a rating and write a review! Then tweet, snap, send a smoke signal or a carrier pigeon--but be sure to tell your friends.

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