#270 – Youth Sport | When Parents Care Too Much (The Wrong Way)

If you want to get support directly from us to remove your repetitive self-doubt, join our FREE community: The Sport Is Life Movement - https://www.facebook.com/groups/sportislifeReady to gain the clarity and direction to move forward with purpose, especially when life throws you a curveball? Join the Game Plan training today. https://www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/gameplanmembershipEpisode Summary:You care, you’re invested, and you want your child to succeed; but what if the way you’re helping is actually holding them back? In this episode, Ian Hawkins tackles one of the most confronting realities in youth sport: the unintended impact of well-meaning parents. Drawing on real-world examples, coaching experience, and personal reflection, Ian breaks down how common behaviours; like over-instruction, emotional reactions, and focusing on outcomes; can create pressure, reduce confidence, and ultimately limit a young athlete’s developmentThe episode shifts into practical, powerful solutions. Instead of praising talent or results, Ian highlights the importance of reinforcing what kids can control; effort, attitude, teamwork, and enjoyment. He also challenges parents and coaches to lead by example, regulate their own emotions, and create an environment where children feel supported regardless of performance. The message is clear: if you want your child to thrive in sport and life, focus less on performance and more on who they are becoming.About the Host:Ian Hawkins is dedicated to showing how sports can transform lives. With extensive experience as an athlete, a coach, PE teacher, community volunteer, and manager at Fox Sports, Ian brings a wealth of knowledge to the podcast. His journey began in his backyard, mentored by his older brother, and has since evolved into coaching elite athletes and business leaders. Ian's commitment to sports and personal development is evident in his roles as a performance coach and active community member. Through "Sport Is Life," Ian shares inspiring stories and valuable lessons to help listeners apply sports principles to all areas of life.Join the 2025 Planning Session here https://www.facebook.com/share/1C6AqzhGeY/Check Me Out On:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ianhawkinscoachingInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ianhawkinscoachingYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SportIsLife-IanHawkinsTheme Music Artist:One Day Kings https://www.instagram.com/onedaykings/See https://www.captivate.fm/privacy-policy-for-listeners for privacy information.