[295] Why Your Screen Time Matters More Than Your Kid’s

We get honest about the modern routine: wake to a small screen, work on a medium screen, unwind with a big screen, and fall asleep with the small one again. I share why I stopped obsessing over my child’s screen time and started measuring my own. We explore the real costs—anxiety, comparison, memory slip, and that itchy feeling of never quite being here—as well as the real gifts technology brings when it’s used on purpose. If you’ve ever wondered why your day feels thin after an hour of reels, this conversation will feel like a deep exhale.You’ll hear practical steps that actually work in a busy life: 5‑minute social media limits with the Be Present app, switching your phone to grayscale to dull the dopamine, deleting high‑drain apps, and moving long replies to desktop. We talk about morning phone fasts that reset cravings, buddy accountability to keep promises, and how boredom becomes a greenhouse for creativity and calm. Along the way, we return to what matters: modeling healthy habits for our kids, finding quiet rituals that lower the anxiety hum, and noticing the small joys—snow-laced trees, a neighbor’s hello, a child turning pages just to hear the sound.Barbados Self(ish) Retreat --> https://jessclerke.com/barbados-retreatBe Present App ---> https://www.bepresentapp.com/If you’re ready to step out of the algorithm and back into your life, press play, try one habit today, and tell me how it goes. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave a review so more women can find the tools and community to build real confidence.Join the Self(ish) Sisterhood: $33/month or $333/year.Thank you for listening to Self(ish) Confidence! If you enjoyed this episode, please share it with a friend or on your social media and tag me @jess.clerke so I can personally thank you for helping spread some confidence + love!  Check out my website at: www.jessclerke.com If you're on instagram, come say hi!! 👋👋 My Personal Account ---> @jess.clerke The Podcast Account ---> @selfishconfidence