304: Breaking Cultural and Gender Norms to Build a Life (and Career) on Your Own Terms with Paru Radia

Have you ever felt pressure to follow a path that someone else laid out for you? Whether it's cultural expectations, gender norms, or just the weight of "what you're supposed to do" — so many of us shrink ourselves to fit a mould that was never made for us in the first place. My guest today, Paru Radia (AKA the C-Suite Whisperer), knows this better than most. Growing up in a conservative Indian household in England, Paru's life path was mapped out before she was born (ie "get married and become a housewife"). But Paru chose to be courageous, despite the fear. She eventually packed up her life and bought a one-way ticket to New York — risking being ostracised by her family. And it was that leap of faith and belief in herself that became a key part of what she now teaches her clients. Today, Paru advises CEOs and C-suite leaders at organisations including British Airways, King and Spalding, and Indeed. She believes that you cannot lead well, communicate well, or influence others well, until you truly know yourself. In this episode, you will discover: Why even the most senior executives are still in survival mode — and what that means for how you communicate with them How going against cultural and gender norms shaped Paru's approach to leadership and influence Why knowing why you want what you want is more powerful than just chasing a title How to spot your own natural strengths (even when they're completely invisible to you) The one mindset shift that makes fear feel manageable — and helps you take bold action anyway Links mentioned: Paru Radia's website: https://paruradia.com  Click here to read the full shownotes. ABOUT CHRISTINA: I help ambitious leaders and teams achieve more confidence, influence and impact in the workplace through developing powerful public speaking and communication skills. TRAINING PROGRAMS: Group Workshops: https://christinacanters.com/services/workshops/ Speaking & Keynotes: https://christinacanters.com/services/keynotes/ Coaching Programs: https://christinacanters.com/services/programs/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.