31: Rethinking Disrespect: What Your Kids Are Really Trying to Say

Hey friends—this episode is so close to my heart. I invited my dear friend and parenting coach, Amy Fraughton, onto the show to talk about something I hear from moms all the time: “My kid is being so disrespectful. What do I do?” Whether you're parenting tweens, teens, or even adult children, this conversation is for you. We’re not here to shame, fix, or control our kids. We’re here to understand what’s underneath the behavior—and how we can respond in a way that builds connection, not control. Amy specializes in working with parents of struggling kids—those who are navigating anxiety, big emotions, outbursts, or shutdowns. And her approach is all about grace, curiosity, and getting to the root of what’s really going on. In this episode, we talk about: Why disrespect is usually a signal, not a character flaw The power of grace—for your child and for yourself What to do when your kid's energy spikes and you're feeling triggered Why your energy speaks louder than your words (yes—even if you're being calm) How to shift from blame to teaching without losing your voice Why walking away isn’t giving up—it’s creating space to reconnect Sign up for Amy's free Miracle Cycle Guide Check out her podcast The Parenting Connection