#31 Should I Stay or Should I Leave? What Uncertainty Taught Me About Self-Trust

Have you ever found yourself stuck between two choices, endlessly weighing up the pros and cons, searching for certainty that never seems to come?In this deeply personal solo episode, I share the story of one of the most difficult decisions I've faced: questioning whether to stay in or leave a long-term relationship.But this episode isn't really about relationships.It's about uncertainty, self-trust, perfectionism, and the exhausting search for the "right" answer when there isn't one.Drawing on my own experience, I explore why our brains crave certainty, how fear of making the wrong decision can keep us stuck, the role perfectionism played in my thinking, and what I learned about trusting myself when certainty never arrived.Whether you're navigating a relationship crossroads, a career change, a health decision, or any major life transition, this conversation is an invitation to get curious about the stories you're telling yourself, the feelings you've been dismissing, and what courage can look like when the path ahead isn't clear.In this episode we discuss:• Why uncertainty can feel so uncomfortable • The hidden relationship between perfectionism and decision-making • OCD, overthinking and the search for certainty • Why some decisions are uncertainty problems, not information problems • Self-trust and navigating major life transitions • Learning to tolerate uncertainty • Why feelings matter, even when they don't make logical senseIf this episode resonates with you, I'd love to hear from you.https://mindyourbeing.com.au/https://www.instagram.com/mindyourbeingpodcast/https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61574785410170#https://x.com/mind_yourbeinghttps://www.youtube.com/@MindYourBeingPodcastThanks so much for listening,Cass xDisclaimer:The information provided on the Mind Your Being Podcast is for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes only. The content shared on this podcast is not a substitute for professional medical, psychological, or nutritional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical or mental health condition.Reliance on any information provided by the Mind Your Being Podcast, its hosts, guests, or others appearing on the podcast is solely at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the podcast creators or hosts.