31. Spouse Talk: What Even Counts as Porn?

In this episode, Sarah and I tackle a question that’s surprisingly complicated: What even is porn? For most people, the word brings to mind explicit videos on sketchy websites, but the truth is, porn has evolved far beyond that. It’s everywhere—movies, social media, advertisements—blurring the lines of what we define as pornography. We dive into how its accessibility and subtlety have shifted over time, making it harder than ever to navigate, especially in relationships.We also unpack why platforms like Pornhub are banned in places like Utah and what that says about society’s relationship with pornography. Is banning it the solution, or does that just push it further into secrecy? This conversation is all about challenging assumptions and exploring how to approach the topic in a way that’s real and productive. Whether you’re looking to better understand this for yourself or your relationship, this episode is full of insights you won’t want to miss.