332: Breaking Down The ‘Alpha Male’ vs. The ‘Soft Boi’

The Dangers of Buying Into The Narrative of “Toxic Masculinity” & How To Support Your Man To *Rise* Another juicy episode for you, ladies AND men - and it’s an important episode *especially* in our culture today. Monica’s breaking down the difference between the “ALPHA MALE” & the “SOFT BOI” and how integral this is to our thriving as a society. We need this now more than ever! She’s debunking myths about how the “alpha male” is inherently “toxic,” and shedding some light on the dangers of the “soft boi” & the way we’re conditioning boys, and men, today to be too feminine… this is a BIG topic, and one that you’ll definitely want to share and circle back to again & again! Monica’s covering: 🌶️ Common traits of the “soft boi” and the healthy vs unhealthy “alpha male” 🌶️ The real meaning of “toxic masculinity” and how we’ve twisted it today 🌶️ How what we consider “toxic” will look different for all of us 🌶️ How dangerous it is to have men who are too soft & the primal nature of men 🌶️ The difference between inherent masculine traits vs feminine traits 🌶️ How trauma affects intimate relationships and leads to lacking trust 🌶️ Why men feel inherently “wrong” & how this affects sub/dom in relationships 🌶️ The danger of saying “all men need to apologize” 🌶️ Understanding your reticular activating system 🌶️ How mothers of boys play a pivotal role in raising good men 🌶️ Why there aren’t enough “good men” to marry today 🌶️ How you *actually* break the patterns of intergenerational trauma 🌶️ Things that women can be doing to support a man’s “alpha male” in coming out +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode —  Sign Up For The Free “Understanding Your Trauma” Masterclass: https://monicayates.myflodesk.com/understandyourtraumamasterclass  The Man: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/the-man  Feminine Female Breadwinner: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/the-feminine-female-breadwinner-course  Podcast on “my man won’t lead me” : https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/329-wwmd-my-man-wont-lead/id1449633522?i=1000628817602  Podcast on “how to be a good mother to boys” : https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/feminine-as-f-ck/id1449633522?i=1000617839842  Podcast on “intergenerational trauma” : https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/267-how-you-can-prevent-trauma-in-your-children-break/id1449633522?i=1000583151875  Monica’s Book Waitlist (coming out March 2024): https://view.flodesk.com/pages/63bc867d329680c1aa644edf  The Boundaries Masterclass: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/boundaries-masterclass  Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth  Monica’s YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@monicayateshealth/  +++++ All of the Freebies/Downloads: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/freebies/  Join Monica’s Email List: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/632a2bfbbf9a194f540c4ab0 2024 NYC and/or Paris Immersion: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion  1:1 Coaching (3 or 6 month): https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/womens-coaching  Mini 1:1 Package: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/mini1on1  Queen Alchemy Round 13: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/queen-alchemy  Full Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory  BTS Bubble: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/monicas-bts-bubble  ***Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at [email protected] to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica.