#35 Kirsty’s Surgery (The Worst Experience) In Turkey

In this episode of Spill the Tea, We discussed Kirsty’s recent cosmetic surgeries explant, breast reduction and lift, and 360° liposuction—performed in Turkey; she reports excellent aesthetic results but extreme post-operative pain, heavy swelling, and removal of 8.5 liters of fat. Kirsty repeatedly describes poor patient care and communication from the clinic (cold staff, inconsistent caregivers, lack of English communication, inadequate post-op support, unexpected additional costs for garments and massages, and questionable hygiene practices), which made the experience traumatic despite good surgical outcomes. She emphasizes gratitude for her partner and children’s support, praises lymphatic massage and compression garments (fahas) for recovery, and advises others to research providers carefully—sharing that she prefers her past experience in Thailand and warning about the importance of compassionate aftercare.==================================================================In this episode of Spill the Tea, we share :00:00:55 – 00:06:21 | Reasons for surgery and prior historyKirsty’s motivation: implants placed in 2019 and 2021 resulted in heavy, uncomfortable breasts after childbirth, causing physical pain and functional limitations (neck/shoulder pain, headaches, inability to run) and dissatisfaction with appearance.She researched clinics in Turkey, had prior consultations,and weighed options before scheduling; she initially postponed to allow Beau to do surgery first.00:06:21 – 00:14:40 | Surgical day and immediate post-op carePre-op/intra-op: minimal bedside manner no comforting countdown or hand-holding before anesthesia, contributed to feeling isolated.Post-op awakening:severe shaking/convulsions, extreme cold, teeth chattering; minimal English spoken by staff and limited comfort measures (only blankets, no warming devices), causing acute distress.No proactive explanation of typical post-op sensations or what to expect; Kirsty reported intense anxiety recalling these moments.00:14:40 – 00:19:22 | Aftercare room and wound care concernsTemporary post-op care took place in a small back-room/storeroom with minimal facilities; while nursing staff were described as kind, they had limited English, and wound-cleaning procedures appeared inadequate (lavender baby wipe used rather than antiseptic), prompting Kirsty to procure antiseptic supplies and self-manage cleaning later.Additional unexpected costs billed post-op: five massages and compression garments (Fajas) were required and not clearly communicated pre-op; these extras felt like hidden charges.00:19:22 – 00:29:59 | Emotional impact and family supportStrong emphasis on emotional distress: felt cold, alone, scared and traumatized by the overall experience despite being pleased with surgical outcomes.Family support (partner and two children) was instrumental in recovery children assisted with mobility and personal care; Kirsty expressed deep gratitude for their help and concern.00:29:59 – 00:42:09 | Final reflections and adviceKirsty emphasized that, despite excellent surgical results, the emotional trauma and poor aftercare left her unwilling to return to Turkey for future surgery; she acknowledged others have had good experiences and urged people to research well and consider post-op care and logistics when choosing a clinic.Encouraged listeners to ask questions about costs, what’s included (e.g., massages, garments, blood tests), length of recommended in-country recovery, and communication practices—offering to answer direct questions about costs and logistics.👇 Your Turn:What mindset shift has had the biggest impact on your business or personal growth? Share it in the comments!Catch the Vibes:Ready to dive into our unfiltered journey? New episodes drop every Tuesday and Thursday, so hit subscribe and get ready for real talk. We’re here to prove that success is built on embracing the chaos, being unapologetically you, and growing through the mess.JOIN our FREE community here:https://www.skool.com/the-success-lounge-1105/about?ref=b5f47468f000489bae0f0ad786e6ea6eOne to One with Beau Drury :https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/1-1-with-beauOne on One call with Kirsty Waddingham :https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/1-1-call-with-kirstyWBS Success Call :https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/wbs-success-call One to one discovery Session :https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/1-1-discovery-session30 minute session : https://calendly.com/hello-webreathesuccess/30-minute-session WORK with US: https://webreathesuccess.com/Connect With Us:💥 We Breathe Success :Instagram: www.instagram.com/webreathesuccessTikTok: @webreathesuccessFacebook: We Breathe Success🔥 Beau Drury:Instagram: www.instagram.com/iambeaudrury💫 Kirsty Waddingham:Instagram: www.instagram.com/iamkirstywaddingham