35. Spouse Talk: What Does Being Porn-Free Even Mean?

In this episode, my wife and I dive into the question: What does it actually mean to be "porn-free"? Does it mean never slipping up again, or is there more to it than striving for perfection? Spoiler: It's not about being perfect.We unpack how chasing toxic perfectionism can do more harm than good and share practical ways to measure real success without the guilt spiral. You'll hear insights from my journey, including the tools and mindset shifts that have made the biggest difference in breaking free from porn—without letting unrealistic standards hold me back. Whether you're on the path to freedom yourself or supporting someone who is, this episode will give you new perspectives and actionable steps to redefine what "success" really looks like.