362: Benjamin Marentette: The Leader Who Said No

Benjamin Marentette: The Leader Who Said NoWhen Self-Awareness Says "Not Yet" Episode 362 of The HaltingWinter Podcast Brought to you by Tyler Technologies *]:pointer-events-auto scroll-mt-[calc(var(--header-height)+min(200px,max(70px,20svh)))]" dir="auto" tabindex="-1" data-turn-id= "7f0aa905-d803-4481-9e44-c1a088a011df" data-testid= "conversation-turn-12" data-scroll-anchor="true" data-turn= "assistant"> Leadership isn't just about saying yes to the next opportunity. Sometimes the most courageous leadership decision is saying, "Not yet." In this episode of The HaltingWinter Podcast, Seth Winterhalter sits down with Benjamin Marentette, City Manager of Traverse City, Michigan, to explore the unexpected journey that led him to one of local government's most influential leadership roles. After spending years preparing for executive leadership—including earning an MBA and completing Harvard Kennedy School's Senior Executives in State and Local Government program—Benjamin was unanimously offered the city manager position. To the surprise of everyone around him, he turned it down. Why? Because he recognized something many leaders never do: he wasn't internally prepared for the responsibility that came with the role. Benjamin shares how therapy, executive coaching, and intentional self-reflection helped him confront the fears, establish healthy boundaries, and develop the self-awareness necessary to eventually say yes with confidence. Along the way, he offers practical insights on building healthy organizational culture, creating environments where feedback is welcomed, leading with humility, and serving both employees and residents with genuine care. This conversation is a powerful reminder that leadership development isn't just about gaining new skills; it's about becoming the kind of person others can trust to lead. About Benjamin MarentetteBenjamin Marentette serves as the City Manager of Traverse City, Michigan, where he is leading organizational transformation focused on culture, strategic leadership, and exceptional public service. A lifelong public servant, Benjamin began his local government career at age 18 and has served in a variety of leadership roles, including City Clerk and Executive Director of the Traverse City-Garfield Township Recreation Authority. He holds an MBA in Finance and Leadership, completed the Senior Executives in State and Local Government program at Harvard Kennedy School, and earned Harvard's Public Leadership Credential with concentrations in Strategic Leadership and Negotiation. Benjamin is passionate about building healthy organizational cultures where employees feel valued, feedback is embraced, and communities thrive. This Episode is Sponsored by: Tyler Technologies – the nation's leading provider of software and technology solutions built specifically for local government. From artificial intelligence and resident engagement to budgeting, planning, and public service delivery, Tyler helps communities operate more efficiently and serve residents more effectively. Learn more at https://tylertech.com/winter The Municipal Leadership Development Circle (MLDC) - The MLDC is a private leadership community designed exclusively for local government professionals. Through practical tools, meaningful conversations, and a nationwide network of peers, members gain the support and perspective needed to lead with greater confidence, clarity, and impact. https://haltingwinter.com/MLDC Connect With Seth Winterhalter Seth Winterhalter is a keynote speaker, executive coach, and President of HaltingWinter Municipal Solutions. As host of The HaltingWinter Podcast, he shines a spotlight on the people behind local government, sharing the inspiring stories of city and county leaders from across the nation to elevate the profession, encourage those who serve, and inspire the next generation to pursue meaningful careers in public service. LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sethwinterhalter Website: https://www.HaltingWinter.com