37: Nick Werber: Death Opens Possibility and Connection

In this podcast, Nick and I exchange lively conversation about: Family Constellations and Focalizing, Death’s power to bring more possibility and connection, how to move deeper than the mind for empowerment, trauma that isn’t ours, rules of belonging, collective trauma, and filters that we live through. Links, Article, and ResourcesAll Show Notes for This Episode📝 https://candicewu.com/nickPodcast Homepage🎧 https://candicewu.com/podcastNewsletter & Embody Community💌 https://candicewu.com/embody-communityPatreon – Your Support Means So Much!💝 https://candicewu.com/patreonCandice Wu Page on Facebook👫 https://facebook.com/EmbodyYourNatureFollow Candice on Instagram📷 https://instagram.com/EmbodyYourNature Sponsored by the Ally With Death VisualizationThis episode is sponsored by the Ally With Death Visualization experience which stirs your inner world and soul to cleanse out the old and bring in new energy and life. What needs to be cleansed out and die? What brings you purpose and lights you up now? Do this with me in the Ally with Death Experience.A New Audio experience will be released soon, which will offer you the chance to dive deeply with me in a truly guided process. If you order the Ally With Death Experience now, you will also receive the new Audio version once it is released for free.Learn more at CandiceWu.com/deathShow Notes & Timestamps 0:00 Intro0:53 Sponsored by Ally With Death1:53 Overview3:47 Interview4:45 Nick’s Work, the Where, What, and How7:11 Focalizing and Somatic Therapy8:46 Retelling a Story Does Not Help13:30 How Do You Bring These Parts Together?14:51 Nick’s Story16:27 Mention of Peter Levine16:46 Dr. Michael Picucci, Nick’s Treasured Mentor19:20 Suzi Tucker, Teacher20:25 Nick’s Story Around Trauma Healing & Focalizing20:28 What if You Didn’t Directly Experience the Trauma?22:38 Trauma Work When It Wasn’t Your Trauma25:11 a Unique Perspective of Trauma and the Filters We Use to Manage Life25:11 Stephan Hausner’s Work26:31 Filters - What Are These?27:48 What’s Exciting in Ancestral Healing28:46 Resource and Belonging32:08 Death! What’s So Interesting About Death…?33:39 Memento Mori Coin & You Could Leave Life Right Now. Let That Determine What You Do and Say and Think.34:05 What About Death When Working With Clients?36:50 What Does Candice See in the Work With Death?38:48 Dying Right Now41:11 When Someone Gets to Know Family Constellations for the First Time…43:24 the Impact of Constellations : Story52:30 What Challenges Nick55:55 What Do You Do to Nourish Your Body and Yourself?56:45 Nutritionist Allison (Website: Feel Awesome Be Awesome)57:18 Eating Organic & Competition59:01 to You the Listener: It’s Not About the Philosophy, It’s About the Work59:38 Protection of Others by Not Competing1:02:47 What’s the Answer? How Can Two Experiences Exist?1:03:05 Group Dynamics1:03:09 Tying in Game of Thrones & the 1001:06:29 Stepping Out of Patterns by Doing the Work1:12:32 Audience Gift & Thanks1:15:11 How to Find Nick1:16:10 Outro1:16:52 Support this Show on Patron1:17:34 Newsletter & CommunityIntro Music by Nick Werber (instagram.com/nwerber)