37: Nick Werber: Death Opens Possibility and Connection
In this podcast, Nick and I exchange lively conversation about: Family Constellations and Focalizing, Death’s power to bring more possibility and connection, how to move deeper than the mind for empowerment, trauma that isn’t ours, rules of belonging...
Episode 50 of the The Embody Podcast | Alignment + Loving Yourself podcast, hosted by Candice Wu, titled "37: Nick Werber: Death Opens Possibility and Connection" was published on September 10, 2018 and runs 78 minutes.
September 10, 2018 ·78m · The Embody Podcast | Alignment + Loving Yourself
Summary
In this podcast, Nick and I exchange lively conversation about: Family Constellations and Focalizing, Death’s power to bring more possibility and connection, how to move deeper than the mind for empowerment, trauma that isn’t ours, rules of belonging, collective trauma, and filters that we live through. Links, Article, and Resources All Show Notes for This Episode 📝 https://candicewu.com/nick Podcast Homepage 🎧 https://candicewu.com/podcast Newsletter & Embody Community 💌 https://candicewu.com/embody-community Patreon – Your Support Means So Much! 💝 https://candicewu.com/patreon Candice Wu Page on Facebook 👫 https://facebook.com/EmbodyYourNature Follow Candice on Instagram 📷 https://instagram.com/EmbodyYourNature Sponsored by the Ally With Death Visualization This episode is sponsored by the Ally With Death Visualization experience which stirs your inner world and soul to cleanse out the old and bring in new energy and life. What needs to be cleansed out and die? What brings you purpose and lights you up now? Do this with me in the Ally with Death Experience. A New Audio experience will be released soon, which will offer you the chance to dive deeply with me in a truly guided process. If you order the Ally With Death Experience now, you will also receive the new Audio version once it is released for free. Learn more atCandiceWu.com/death Show Notes & Timestamps 0:00 Intro 0:53 Sponsored by Ally With Death 1:53 Overview 3:47 Interview 4:45 Nick’s Work, the Where, What, and How 7:11 Focalizing and Somatic Therapy 8:46 Retelling a Story Does Not Help 13:30 How Do You Bring These Parts Together? 14:51 Nick’s Story 16:27 Mention of Peter Levine 16:46 Dr. Michael Picucci, Nick’s Treasured Mentor 19:20 Suzi Tucker, Teacher 20:25 Nick’s Story Around Trauma Healing & Focalizing 20:28 What if You Didn’t Directly Experience the Trauma? 22:38 Trauma Work When It Wasn’t Your Trauma 25:11 a Unique Perspective of Trauma and the Filters We Use to Manage Life 25:11 Stephan Hausner’s Work 26:31 Filters - What Are These? 27:48 What’s Exciting in Ancestral Healing 28:46 Resource and Belonging 32:08 Death! What’s So Interesting About Death…? 33:39 Memento Mori Coin & You Could Leave Life Right Now. Let That Determine What You Do and Say and Think. 34:05 What About Death When Working With Clients? 36:50 What Does Candice See in the Work With Death? 38:48 Dying Right Now 41:11 When Someone Gets to Know Family Constellations for the First Time… 43:24 the Impact of Constellations : Story 52:30 What Challenges Nick 55:55 What Do You Do to Nourish Your Body and Yourself? 56:45 Nutritionist Allison (Website: Feel Awesome Be Awesome) 57:18 Eating Organic & Competition 59:01 to You the Listener: It’s Not About the Philosophy, It’s About the Work 59:38 Protection of Others by Not Competing 1:02:47 What’s the Answer? How Can Two Experiences Exist? 1:03:05 Group Dynamics 1:03:09 Tying in Game of Thrones & the 100 1:06:29 Stepping Out of Patterns by Doing the Work 1:12:32 Audience Gift & Thanks 1:15:11 How to Find Nick 1:16:10 Outro 1:16:52 Support this Show on Patron 1:17:34 Newsletter & Community Intro Music by Nick Werber (instagram.com/nwerber)
Episode Description
In this podcast, Nick and I exchange lively conversation about: Family Constellations and Focalizing, Death’s power to bring more possibility and connection, how to move deeper than the mind for empowerment, trauma that isn’t ours, rules of belonging, collective trauma, and filters that we live through.
Links, Article, and Resources
All Show Notes for This Episode
Podcast Homepage
🎧 https://candicewu.com/podcast
Newsletter & Embody Community
💌 https://candicewu.com/embody-community
Patreon – Your Support Means So Much!
💝 https://candicewu.com/patreon
Candice Wu Page on Facebook
👫 https://facebook.com/EmbodyYourNature
Follow Candice on Instagram
📷 https://instagram.com/EmbodyYourNature
Sponsored by the Ally With Death Visualization
This episode is sponsored by the Ally With Death Visualization experience which stirs your inner world and soul to cleanse out the old and bring in new energy and life. What needs to be cleansed out and die? What brings you purpose and lights you up now? Do this with me in the Ally with Death Experience.
A New Audio experience will be released soon, which will offer you the chance to dive deeply with me in a truly guided process. If you order the Ally With Death Experience now, you will also receive the new Audio version once it is released for free.
Learn more at CandiceWu.com/death
Show Notes & Timestamps
0:00 Intro
0:53 Sponsored by Ally With Death
1:53 Overview
3:47 Interview
4:45 Nick’s Work, the Where, What, and How
7:11 Focalizing and Somatic Therapy
8:46 Retelling a Story Does Not Help
13:30 How Do You Bring These Parts Together?
14:51 Nick’s Story
16:27 Mention of Peter Levine
16:46 Dr. Michael Picucci, Nick’s Treasured Mentor
19:20 Suzi Tucker, Teacher
20:25 Nick’s Story Around Trauma Healing & Focalizing
20:28 What if You Didn’t Directly Experience the Trauma?
22:38 Trauma Work When It Wasn’t Your Trauma
25:11 a Unique Perspective of Trauma and the Filters We Use to Manage Life
25:11 Stephan Hausner’s Work
26:31 Filters - What Are These?
27:48 What’s Exciting in Ancestral Healing
28:46 Resource and Belonging
32:08 Death! What’s So Interesting About Death…?
33:39 Memento Mori Coin & You Could Leave Life Right Now. Let That Determine What You Do and Say and Think.
34:05 What About Death When Working With Clients?
36:50 What Does Candice See in the Work With Death?
38:48 Dying Right Now
41:11 When Someone Gets to Know Family Constellations for the First Time…
43:24 the Impact of Constellations : Story
52:30 What Challenges Nick
55:55 What Do You Do to Nourish Your Body and Yourself?
56:45 Nutritionist Allison (Website: Feel Awesome Be Awesome)
57:18 Eating Organic & Competition
59:01 to You the Listener: It’s Not About the Philosophy, It’s About the Work
59:38 Protection of Others by Not Competing
1:02:47 What’s the Answer? How Can Two Experiences Exist?
1:03:05 Group Dynamics
1:03:09 Tying in Game of Thrones & the 100
1:06:29 Stepping Out of Patterns by Doing the Work
1:12:32 Audience Gift & Thanks
1:15:11 How to Find Nick
1:16:10 Outro
1:16:52 Support this Show on Patron
1:17:34 Newsletter & Community
Intro Music by Nick Werber (instagram.com/nwerber)
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