# 38- Breaking the Cycle: Why We Attract Narcissists with Stephany Ann Collins

Send us Fan MailIn this insightful episode of The Metamorphosis Project Podcast, host Tenya Eickenberg welcomes back Stephany Ann Collins for the third episode of their special series, The Narcissist Chronicles. This time, they dive into the subconscious reasons why we attract narcissists into our lives and how our beliefs and thoughts play a key role in these toxic relationship patterns.Stephany Ann shares her personal journey of discovering how deeply ingrained beliefs about relationships, formed early in life, can unconsciously attract unhealthy dynamics. Together, they explore how to identify and shift these subconscious beliefs, break toxic patterns, and create a healthier version of yourself that no longer draws narcissists into your life.Key Topics Discussed: The role of the subconscious mind in forming our beliefs and how these influence relationship patterns. How childhood experiences and subconscious contracts can dictate the types of relationships we attract. The importance of taking responsibility for your role in creating your reality and how to shift your beliefs to stop attracting toxic people. Steps to becoming a more expanded, healthier version of yourself by rewriting your beliefs and creating a new identity. The power of non-attachment in relationships and how releasing expectations can lead to healthier, more fulfilling connections.Key Takeaways: We attract who we are, not what we want. To stop attracting narcissists, we need to explore and change the subconscious beliefs we hold about relationships. Healing isn’t about ruminating on the past but about learning who you truly are and letting go of outdated beliefs that no longer serve you. By creating a new, expanded version of yourself and becoming that person, you can attract healthier relationships and live a more fulfilling life.Connect with Stephany Ann Collins: Instagram: @stephanyanncollins Website: StephanyAnnCollins.com